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Hertha, 42
United States, New Mexico, Clovis

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About Me

I am an attractive, articulate, educated medical professional. I enjoy varied music, travel, and like to squeeze in a little adventure when I can. My sense of humor tends to be a bit dry and sarcastic. I am just as comfortable dressed to the 9's for a sophisticated evening as I am in jeans and a tee shirt for a backyard barbecue. I am very much "in charge" in my professional life. In my personal life, I have a much softer side. I have been told I am a study in contrasts. I am strong, but tender hearted; I like adventures, but enjoy a quiet evening at home; I have well worn, comfy sneakers, but love my stiletto high heels; I am opinionated, but open to other's ideas; I am confident, but still have insecurities at times. I am not a gourmet cook, but I've never killed anyone with my meals, haha. I am very affectionate, but like having some personal space too. I have life-long friends and very strong family ties. I have 3 children, 2 girls and 1 boy. My own little 3 ring circus! They bring me so much joy and the occassional headache, as all children do. I love and care deeply for those important people in my life. I am open to meeting new people and making new friends. Different people bring different things into our lives. The trick is to find people that bring something positive. I take good care of myself and am often told I look younger than my age. I am more of an "active" person rather than someone who likes to work out for the sake of working out. I would rather go swimming, take a hike, go on a bicycle ride, play softball, or go dancing rather than just hitting the gym, but I do go to the gym. It's important to try to take care of yourself. I am not overly regimented or fanatical about it though. I'm looking for an educated, successful, professional, relatively fit, out-going, active SWM. I'd like to meet someone to share a mutual attraction and interesting times.- A man that takes the important things in life seriously, but doesn't take himself too seriously. A man that cares about how he looks, but doesn't spend more time getting ready than I do. I'm looking for a man that still knows how to treat a woman like a lady. Someone that recognizes my strength, but will still open a door for me. I am a successful and together person. I expect a match to be as well. While there must be physical attraction, intellect, sincerity, and humor is important. I'm looking for someone with varied tastes that appreciates the finer things in life, but sees the beauty in simple pleasures. Someone who has learned from their past, but looks to the future. A simple pleasure I enjoy is a really good cup of coffee. Really good conversation to go with it is a bonus. Somewhere we can have an actual conversation and eye contact.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop
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