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Vernetta, 43
United States, New Mexico, Clovis

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About Me

I am looking for someone that is preferably still in their 30's or early 40's. I'm a mom to two kids ages 9 & 12. I stay busy! I like to do outdoorsy/rednecky things such as camping, bonfires, monster trucks, tractor pulls & concerts, yet I can put on a dress & act proper when necessary. I love all music but country is my favorite, as i love a good story! I have to have my daily dose of music--depends on my mood as to the genre of music--metal/80's/gospel/bluegrass, southern/classic rock/oldies/disco etc! I laugh a lot & am pretty laid back in attitude. I'll tell you how I feel in a heartbeat, good or bad. You're not going to have to guess if I'm mad but when it's over, it's over. I'm not a grudge holder. I expect & hope for the same from a partner. I am not athletic but I rarely stop until bedtime & am by no means lazy! I like to travel any weekend I can & love a short, impromptu weekend away with/without the kids. I make it mandatory to take in a sunset over the river from my front porch at least once a week--a glass of wine in hand. Good for the soul. I have lots of fun and try to live life to the fullest! Someone that can help me with projects around the house and that isn't jealous that I might have more power tools than he does. :-) Someone that likes to hang with friends at a bonfire on the river and drink, talk and listen to music without it getting out of hand. Camping, fishing and a general love of good weather and outdoors--no couch potatoes here! Someone that will do kid things with us and isn't afraid to jump in the car and take off for the weekend to see the leaves changing or find as many waterfalls as we can in one day. Something like an educated redneck. I'd like to be able to hold an intelligent conversation, maybe debate some hot topics and solve the world's problems over a bottle of wine or some beers. A little rough around the edges but not afraid to show some feelings now and then. High energy but able to relax on a Sunday evening. A productive citizen with a wild side. Someone that has his own interests, let's me have mine, but we still spend the majority of our time together. I guess my wish list is long, but they asked!! :-) Nothing fancy, just maybe out for drinks and appetizers... on the water maybe... some conversation and getting to know each other...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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