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About Me

I am looking for someone that is preferably still in their 30's or early 40's. I'm a mom to two kids ages 9 & 12. I stay busy! I like to do outdoorsy/rednecky things such as camping, bonfires, monster trucks, tractor pulls & concerts, yet I can put on a dress & act proper when necessary. I love all music but country is my favorite, as i love a good story! I have to have my daily dose of music--depends on my mood as to the genre of music--metal/80's/gospel/bluegrass, southern/classic rock/oldies/disco etc! I laugh a lot & am pretty laid back in attitude. I'll tell you how I feel in a heartbeat, good or bad. You're not going to have to guess if I'm mad but when it's over, it's over. I'm not a grudge holder. I expect & hope for the same from a partner. I am not athletic but I rarely stop until bedtime & am by no means lazy! I like to travel any weekend I can & love a short, impromptu weekend away with/without the kids. I make it mandatory to take in a sunset over the river from my front porch at least once a week--a glass of wine in hand. Good for the soul. I have lots of fun and try to live life to the fullest! Someone that can help me with projects around the house and that isn't jealous that I might have more power tools than he does. :-) Someone that likes to hang with friends at a bonfire on the river and drink, talk and listen to music without it getting out of hand. Camping, fishing and a general love of good weather and outdoors--no couch potatoes here! Someone that will do kid things with us and isn't afraid to jump in the car and take off for the weekend to see the leaves changing or find as many waterfalls as we can in one day. Something like an educated redneck. I'd like to be able to hold an intelligent conversation, maybe debate some hot topics and solve the world's problems over a bottle of wine or some beers. A little rough around the edges but not afraid to show some feelings now and then. High energy but able to relax on a Sunday evening. A productive citizen with a wild side. Someone that has his own interests, let's me have mine, but we still spend the majority of our time together. I guess my wish list is long, but they asked!! :-) Nothing fancy, just maybe out for drinks and appetizers... on the water maybe... some conversation and getting to know each other...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lauren

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am very honest, loyal,and outgoing. I definitely know what I want out of a relationship. I am looking for someone who is true to who they are, considerate, loyal, and funny but most importantly someone who can express their feelings and communicate!!Someone who likes to work out and lead a healthy life, who is my best friend and that I have a lot of chemistry with, someone that can make me laugh and does sweet things for no reason just to put a smile on my face. I want a guy who is settled and happy where he is in his life and his career, that knows what he wants out of life and a relationship, but most importantly I want someone who I feel emotionally connected to.My family and friends would say I am very picky, I do not think that is the case I feel at this point I deserve to be with someone who is sincere and knows how to be in a relationship. I do not like drama and will not put up with a guy who does not know how to treat a girl. I love to get dressed up and go out to nice diners but also love to stay in and watch a movie, love the beach, and working out.My family is very important to me. I come from a loud Italian family.... very old fashioned.When I am in a relationship I give a 100% and wear my heart on my sleeve. I am driven and focused and definitely do not hold back in relationships and I just will not settle.

  • Crista

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello there! Thanks for stopping to read my profile. I am a cardiac nurse who works at a local hospital. I work every weekend so dating requires a little scheduling creativity. :) If you are limited to dating on solely weekends, then it probably isn't feasible to consider meeting. I would most certainly consider a schedule change for the right man, but I have yet to find him, I suppose that is obvious. =)I enjoy going to the gym, learning, challenging myself in various areas, and writing poetry (when inspired). I have been described as someone who is goal-oriented, driven, genuine, and down-to-earth. I have a fun-loving sarcastic side and love to evoke laughter from others. I am often cutting up with my family and friends because life is simply too short not to be enjoyed. I frequently apply humor to a lot of situations but I do still maintain the ability to be very sincere. I have one daughter ***y/o) who is the light of my life. She lives with me and is currently following in her momma's footsteps and is going to nursing school. Her and I have always had a wonderful relationship and she has been the greatest blessing of my life. The respect and admiration she affords me goes unmatched and I consider it the highest honor in the world, for my child to want to model me. I prefer the mountains over the beach, coffee over tea, dogs over cats, a nice pub or sports bar over fine dining and a good football game or action movie over a museum or play. I am a person who appreciates the simpler things in life such as watching the sunset or gazing at the stars on a clear night. I am a strong and self-sufficient woman who maintains enough humility to know when to ask for help but attempts to do for myself as much as I possibly can. The good news for that special man is . . . I am NOT high maintenance. I can talk football, cut grass, and still be dressed up, taken out, and even turn a head or two. ;) I am a passionate person in everything I do. Whether it be with parenting, school, work, or a relationship, I always try to put my best foot forward. I believe that some of the hardest endeavors in life are the most character-shaping and I try to never shy away from a challenge. I am confident in my own ability to achieve as much as I am willing to work toward and thus far, my inner drive has served me well. I maintain the respect of my peers, I enjoy close friendships, and now I am just simply searching for that someone that has something so special about him that it inspires me to live, laugh, and love even deeper. I am in search of someone with whom I can share a deep meaningful relationship; I am not the type of person that dates multiple people at one time. The man I am in search of is a genuine man who understands and values sincerity and integrity; one who has goals and dreams but is not consumed by them. This man will not impress me by the money he makes nor the car he drives but rather how he treats himself, his family, and those around him. I think humility and integrity are two of the sexiest traits a man can have and in my eyes. . .if those traits are absent, even the biggest biceps look flaccid. I am less interested in how much you can bench, but more interested in the strength of your character & depth of your heart. Call it a tall order but I know he is out there somewhere. I like to think of it as a first meeting in a casual, public place. The date may come later if there is any chemistry.

  • Luvinia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I've been divorced for a long time, I've been 'out' of a relationship for years; as well. It feels like I've just been swept along- raising my kids and working and making everyone else's life easier and more comfortable- that I forgot about living mine. Now my kids are grown, and I really don't know what to do with this freedom. I try to go with the flow of friends and social events; but it's getting old, always being alone or with 20 somethings. I like to do everything; motorcycles and coffee are at the top of my favorites, though!In no particular order, I love to: cook, read, ride, hike, work, drive, relax, walk, boat, fish, race, shoot, explore, write. I also like; beaches, animals, sports, bon fires, music, trucks, DYI projects. Always ready for the next adventure!I don't need to be rescued from anything..I have a decent job, I pay my own bills, I have a reliable car, I'm not in any situations that are unsafe, I don't even have a great amount of debt. I just want someone to share my time with. Please note that nothing at all about me spoke or hinted of winter, because I don't like it. Scenario 1: Coffee out on the deck watching the sun rise or set, maybe check out one of the river walks...go for a walk & talk. Hit up one of the state parks and go explore.- with no destination, plan or schedule.Scenario 3: Local musical venues. Find where fun local bands are and hit up the local social scene, or local seasonal events.

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