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Kestrel, 41

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About Me

I am an independent single mom who loves to smile and have fun. I'm not beautiful but I think I can hold my own in the pretty department. That does also mean I'm pretty low maintenance. I am not a girl who takes an hour to get ready or do my hair..I'm as comfortable in a ponytail and ball cap as I am in a dress and heels. Which also means I can be ready in no time for spontaneous adventures. I know that I am a beautiful person on the inside and if you are lucky enough to become someone I care about I'll do all I can to be the best friend/lover/partner I can be to you. I'm happiest when I am making the people around me happy. I have many interests but few obsessions. I've been a fan since the days of Jim McMahon, Refrigerator, Walter Payton, etc and I am proud of it! I've even been known to host a few Bears/Packers cookouts. I like to sing karaoke on occasion, I have a few staple songs I can do decently and sober. I love anything historical..and am a true tourist trap magnet! Did you know that St. Louis boasts the Largest bottle of Catsup? It's on my bucket list! I grew up on motorcycles so if you have one and you aren't afraid to ride it..you already have a plus. I have children and they are and will always be my top priority. If you have children I would expect the same of you. I'm looking for someone to spend some adult time with, who has their own life, but also has room for me in it.The fact that you are still reading means alot..if you like anything you've heard drop me a line, if not thanks for looking and good luck in your search.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am outgoing and love having a good time. I am always laughing and singing. I like an active guy that doesn't like to sit around preferably sports minded. I play fastball and like to go on hikes/walks,etc. Friends and family are important to me. I try and go away somewhere tropical every year on an all inclusive vacation. Lastly I like to shop, but really what woman doesn't? I do have a bit of a shoe/boot collection too...LOL. Meet and see if there is chemistry!

  • Casie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    This whole online dating thing freaks me out a bit and I'm not a huge fan but meeting someone in the produce section at Whole Foods isn't really working out and the tomatoes are complaining to management. More about me: I have been told I have a strange dichotomy of tastes and interests. I strongly believe in animal rights and welfare, but I can watch gory movies about people and not even flinch. I'm borderline vegan, but feed my dogs raw. I don't buy household products that test on animals, but I'm not completely anti-leather - like shoes - although I won't get superficial, unnecessary things like a couch or automobile seats in leather - that's just stupid. Looking for someone that has similar beliefs but doesn't necessarily have to be the same. I'm a bit of a grammar snob.;your" and "you're" is a turn off. And using the word 'of' *** 'have' (Ex: Should have) is also a turn off. I'm a little old school that way. I'm a smart girl that likes mental stimulation but also likes to just 'veg out'. I enjoy mini adventures and like them even more if my dogs are involved. Those are my only children. I won't pretend I love sports, but I certainly don't mind if you do. Going to an occasional live event is great, but going every weekend is not in my top 10 list of things to do. I watch the Super Bowl for the commercials. I'll stay quiet during the game if you do the same during those. Haha! If your opinion is the opposite, you may not want to read any further. I'm not religious. I was raised Catholic but am NOT a practicing one. I believe more in spirituality and doing the right thing because it's the right thing to do. I was married a while ago but I don't consider myself divorced because A: no kids; and B: if (Length of Marriage) is less than (4 x (Number of Years Since Divorce)), then me=Single. Oh and I'm not very opinionated...or sarcastic..After being on here a week or so, I've learned that a lot of men don't read. If you've made it this far, terrific. Here's more: These are the men to whom I will not reply for one reason or another: 1. If your first message to me is "Hi". - You're shy, don't know what to say? Whatever... If you can't say something that is going to prompt me to actually want to reply to you, what will trying to carry on a conversation be like? 1a. If you write in all caps or use vanity plate language.....in sentence case.....with punctuation. 2. If you don't have at least a Bachelor's Degree. Sorry if you're offended, but past experience shows it doesn't work. 3. If all your pictures are in a bathroom mirror or at the gym. 4. If you make a statement in your profile about how you expect other peoples pictures to be recent and then all yours are from ***. :)5. If you're holding a fish or other dead animal. 6. If your profile implies that you're looking for a hook-up. Too b****y? Hey, I know what I want and why waste either of our respective time by trying to communicate with someone that doesn't fit? Dinner or appetizers so we can chat and get to know one another. Walking through a downtown area makes for good topics of conversation.

  • Russell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Who am I? A woman, mom, educator, friend, daughter and sister who loves life and is looking to share it with someone special. I am a social, caring, warm and lovely person who really enjoys spending time with people. My current pets are 3 dogs, 2 birds and 1 hamster. I love to cook all kinds of food and love art and more specifically art history. I speak 4 languages and see myself traveling all over the world once my kids are grown. Open-mindedness, respectful of other cultures and people, and kindness would describe me well. TV is not a huge part of my life but I do like movies and all genres of them but horror movies are not something I care to watch. As for music, I listen to rock, metal, rap, country, classical, alternative, hip-hop and what my kids like to listen to because I like to be with them. Reading is another pastime I have. I prefer magazines and inspirational readings right now but in the summer I do read novels. I also love to garden. I plan on planting some fruit trees and watching them grow. I think my friends would say that I am outgoing, thoughtful, cautious, a good listener, sensitive, reasonable, responsible, and funny. What am I looking for? Someone who really wants a partner and is over the past. Honest! Educated! Thoughtful! Sincere! You care more about others than yourself! You do not want games and you live and want the truth. You are honorable and follow through. You also make phone calls, set up dates, plan events and like chivalry! Your picture is you and all your information is true. If you can't present yourself as you are, please do not show any interest toward me. There are many options for a first date and I think it depends on the season and weather. Coffee is always an easy first date and if both people are enjoying themselves, then there can be more to the date. For example, a walk in a pretty place such as a botanical garden or dinner and a movie. It would be fun to go to a jazz club or listen to some music or go to a performance and have coffee to talk about it afterwards. I am open to new ideas too.

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