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Vickie, 45
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Sep 2025 18:43:49

About Me

I am looking for a real man to eventually share our lives together. i am a free spirit, so as they say, very spontaneous, enjoys life, loves to laugh,dont like the drama, understands everyone has a past but its your past. Theres a reason Y your past never makes it into the future. love the outdoors, anything outdoors i enjoy just to be out and having fun. good laughs, good friends, enjoy watching my kids with there sports and games...kids grow up very fast so treasure every moment good or bad with them..my kids come first...always but when im devoted to someone then im very devoted and loyal, dont like liars or cheaters, i enjoy all kinds of music, enjoy dancing but also enjoy those quiet moments i have as well. Lets figure it out together.....somewhere where we can talk, laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company...Its summer now so lets be outdoors and go to fests and watch the bands, anything outdoors.............I feel when u meet someone for the first time and you are getting to know each other, if the connection is not there and you dont feel the vibes for each other, ITS NOT GOING TO BE THERE... You can not develop that overnight with each other........If its not there, its not there...Move on.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Jazz Caribbean Japanese Turkish Crime Romance Thriller Soccer / Football
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