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Marquita, 41
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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Basics:I'm single, never married, my kids are grown and out on their own so it's just me now. I'm not carrying around any feelings for any other man from my past. I live a simple life, no drama, I live alone and work full time with weekends off. A little more:I'm easy going and love a good laugh. I have a big heart and I'm a pleaser. I can be pretty stubborn at times, sarcastic and playful always, I'm very independent and like to do a lot of things for myself. I snore when I'm exhausted and I know this because I've woken myself up a few times. I love sports but only live (except the Rays, I can watch them on TV anytime). I love thunderstorms, watching and listening to the rain, fall is my favorite season because of the cool air and colors of the leaves. Open windows on a cool night is the best, especially when you have someone you love to cuddle up with. My family is very important to me and I spend a lot of time with them when I can. I'll always be honest and tell you the truth about anything, even when I know it may make you mad. My biggest pet peeve is when someone says they will do something and they don't, no matter how big or small it is. To me, your word should be as good as gold and something you're proud of. I won't try and cover up who I really am to fit into your life. That just doesn't make any sense to me. The man I'm looking for will love me for who I am and what I'm about, good and bad.What I want:I can list so many attributes that any woman would love in a man. I could wish for someone really tall, dark brown hair, eyes the perfect shade of whatever...........But what if the man that is meant for me isn't tall, or his hair color and eye color is different than what I thought I wanted? Those are just details and they don't really matter to me. One day his physical features will change. He'll be old, have lots of wrinkles and that hair, no matter what color it is now, will be grey or even gone someday. What will remain however, is the man he is on the inside. I'm not looking for that perfect "cookie cutter" man. I'm just looking for that perfect man for me.If you are a good man that has time to invest in a good woman, and have the best intentions of getting to know me for me, and not looking for a hook up, feel free to contact me. There's so much more to me than just a pretty face. But, you'll never find out what those things are unless you spend time with me and put in the effort to really get to know me. Someday my looks too will fade, but what I have in my heart and in my soul will always remain. ***Update: if you don't have pics on you profile or you do but I still can't see your face clearly, I will not respond to your messages. My pictures are very clear and up to date so you know exactly who you're talking to so it's only fair that I do as well. Although I'm open to just about anything, I think someplace quiet would be best so we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Electronic Adventure History Mystery Boxing
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I moved here from KY in Dec. of ***but I'm originally from MI. I have two boys, both live out of state. I am a good hearted caring woman that was raised with morals. I do tend to be a bit shy at first, and Im generally a quiet, laid back woman. I am the type that would rather be outdoors doing things on a sunny day than sitting on the couch watching tv. I enjoy the simple things life has to offer and would like to meet someone with the same interest as I have. If you think you qualify, send me a message. Good luck fishing fellas;-)Update: ok fellas, there are things that attract us to people. The majority of us are attracted to a persons looks. Thats where things start. If I cant see what you look like up close there is no starting point. So maybe adding some well lit face pics to your profile would be good bait. Im generally attracted to tall, physically fit fellas. I watch what I eat and I get out and excercise. Its important that the one I choose to be with takes care of themselves also. I'm not into hanging at the bars or drinking on a daily basis. I have smarts and prefer my fella does to. Meet for coffee!

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So my daughter set this page up for me, because she thought I stayed at home way to much, well I guess I do, but I am not a lady who is looking for anything but my soul mate. I am not an object I am not someone who can or will allow myself to be used for anything. So now that the sex issue has been discussed and cleared up, let me tell you about me. I've had bad experiences in the past and I am so thankful that I have learned from those mistakes and will do my best to not make them again, but I will not use those bad mistakes against anyone else. It just means, it was a life experience that I choose not to repeat. I am a caring and loving woman with a heart of gold, will help anyone that I can. I give and give and never ask for nothing in return, you give back only if you choose to. . My desire is to find someone who likes some of the same things that I do and who is willing to introduce me to some new things. Nothing like a good adventure. Really what 2 people like exactly the same thing. I am looking for someone who will compliment my life and me theirs. I don't have a problem with someone who has the responsibility of children. I have 3 of my own and although they are 18 or older, they are still a big part of my life..I also have 3 GRAND children, who means more to me than life itself. So you have to be okay with that. Please Please don't bring no momma drama mess to me, because I have been there and I WILL NOT deal with that again. Okay now for DRAMA....everyone wants someone who has no DRAMA.. really my question is what is DRAMA....If having a problem do deal with every once in a while is DRAMA, then heck we all have it.. I choose to deal with it and move on. No ones back door step is always clean, nor do I expect it to be. We all have a past, as well as I do, so you have to be able to accept the past and allow it to remain in the past to be able to move forward, so don't treat me as if I am gonna treat you like someone in your past has, because I am NOT that person, as you will be given the same respect. If you not looking for an adult relationship that is mature and respectful then I'm not the one for you. NO GAMES. I'm just a country girl, with a country heart, who keeps things honest and real and given the opportunity for the right guy, you can experience what all I have to offer. Take Care and God Bless. I think a good first date doesn't have to involve the typical "dinner and a movie". Where the man is not pushy, he shows a true interest in me personally, flirting is fine, yet not overboard, and also he is capable of showing a general interest in things that I'm interested in. It's important that the date include time to get to know each other and a movie just doesn't lend that kind of time. Dinner is good but it can be a little too formal for the first date. I think going for walk around a lake or park and then doing something that you both agree on afterwards.

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