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Randi, 43
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

So my daughter set this page up for me, because she thought I stayed at home way to much, well I guess I do, but I am not a lady who is looking for anything but my soul mate. I am not an object I am not someone who can or will allow myself to be used for anything. So now that the sex issue has been discussed and cleared up, let me tell you about me. I've had bad experiences in the past and I am so thankful that I have learned from those mistakes and will do my best to not make them again, but I will not use those bad mistakes against anyone else. It just means, it was a life experience that I choose not to repeat. I am a caring and loving woman with a heart of gold, will help anyone that I can. I give and give and never ask for nothing in return, you give back only if you choose to. . My desire is to find someone who likes some of the same things that I do and who is willing to introduce me to some new things. Nothing like a good adventure. Really what 2 people like exactly the same thing. I am looking for someone who will compliment my life and me theirs. I don't have a problem with someone who has the responsibility of children. I have 3 of my own and although they are 18 or older, they are still a big part of my life..I also have 3 GRAND children, who means more to me than life itself. So you have to be okay with that. Please Please don't bring no momma drama mess to me, because I have been there and I WILL NOT deal with that again. Okay now for DRAMA....everyone wants someone who has no DRAMA.. really my question is what is DRAMA....If having a problem do deal with every once in a while is DRAMA, then heck we all have it.. I choose to deal with it and move on. No ones back door step is always clean, nor do I expect it to be. We all have a past, as well as I do, so you have to be able to accept the past and allow it to remain in the past to be able to move forward, so don't treat me as if I am gonna treat you like someone in your past has, because I am NOT that person, as you will be given the same respect. If you not looking for an adult relationship that is mature and respectful then I'm not the one for you. NO GAMES. I'm just a country girl, with a country heart, who keeps things honest and real and given the opportunity for the right guy, you can experience what all I have to offer. Take Care and God Bless. I think a good first date doesn't have to involve the typical "dinner and a movie". Where the man is not pushy, he shows a true interest in me personally, flirting is fine, yet not overboard, and also he is capable of showing a general interest in things that I'm interested in. It's important that the date include time to get to know each other and a movie just doesn't lend that kind of time. Dinner is good but it can be a little too formal for the first date. I think going for walk around a lake or park and then doing something that you both agree on afterwards.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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