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Lelia, 42
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

I'm a Weight Watcher Leader, so I'm very enthusiastic about people who take care of themselves and like to surround myself with people who are active. Don't get me wrong...I like a good movie or a lazy day reading a book at the beach, but I work hard to keep myself fit and enjoy people who like to do the same. I'm a musician, so I like all types of music. I work at a church and listen mostly to Contemporary Christian music. I think karaoke is fun and painful all in the same setting! =) But I like to get on the dance floor with all those other enthusiastic people.My official occupation is as an Activity Director for a continuing care retirement community. Yes, I'm an official party planner/fun facilitator! I do like a good party, but mostly I love great conversation, great food & intelligent people. I'm a working Mom...I have several different hats I wear in the working environments I'm in, but I'm almost always up-beat and motivating others! I'm looking for "the one" but aren't we all? I don't mind taking my time. =)I'm curious about something...why do so many men on here have pictures taken in the bathroom & in the car? I'm stumped! ?? A glass of wine... A place where we can talk with out lots of noise...a walk in the moonlight...allowing ourselves to get to know each other without too many distractions and then lets see what happens from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Volleyball
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Just looking to make some new friends & perhaps more if the right person comes along. No real expectations & no limitations.Going back to grad school at UAMS this fall, ***; regulatory science. I have a daughter. Just ask what you'd like to know. I think meeting for lunch is a good first date. I do not drink coffee; I'm a Dr. Pepper addic!

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  • Vickie from Carlsbad | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a real man to eventually share our lives together. i am a free spirit, so as they say, very spontaneous, enjoys life, loves to laugh,dont like the drama, understands everyone has a past but its your past. Theres a reason Y your past never makes it into the future. love the outdoors, anything outdoors i enjoy just to be out and having fun. good laughs, good friends, enjoy watching my kids with there sports and games...kids grow up very fast so treasure every moment good or bad with them..my kids come first...always but when im devoted to someone then im very devoted and loyal, dont like liars or cheaters, i enjoy all kinds of music, enjoy dancing but also enjoy those quiet moments i have as well. Lets figure it out together.....somewhere where we can talk, laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company...Its summer now so lets be outdoors and go to fests and watch the bands, anything outdoors.............I feel when u meet someone for the first time and you are getting to know each other, if the connection is not there and you dont feel the vibes for each other, ITS NOT GOING TO BE THERE... You can not develop that overnight with each other........If its not there, its not there...Move on.....

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  • Yukiko from Carlsbad | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
    Yukiko

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Recently divorced after 22 years. My job and kids keep me busy. No time for game players, or those of you looking for a hookup or fwb. I love country music, but listen to a wide variety. Love the outdoors,camping, bonfires, etc. I can be very blunt, as I am not into drama and bs, so if your feelings easily hurt, I am probably not the person for you. Easy going, love to laugh. I have been working on self improvement, lost over 80lbs after divorce, so into healthy eating and exercise on a regular basis. I have tattoos and piercings, believe in self expression. I am spontaneous, just go with the flow of things. :) Whatever we both agree on, see where it goes

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