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Lelia, 42
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 13:46:40

About Me

I'm a Weight Watcher Leader, so I'm very enthusiastic about people who take care of themselves and like to surround myself with people who are active. Don't get me wrong...I like a good movie or a lazy day reading a book at the beach, but I work hard to keep myself fit and enjoy people who like to do the same. I'm a musician, so I like all types of music. I work at a church and listen mostly to Contemporary Christian music. I think karaoke is fun and painful all in the same setting! =) But I like to get on the dance floor with all those other enthusiastic people.My official occupation is as an Activity Director for a continuing care retirement community. Yes, I'm an official party planner/fun facilitator! I do like a good party, but mostly I love great conversation, great food & intelligent people. I'm a working Mom...I have several different hats I wear in the working environments I'm in, but I'm almost always up-beat and motivating others! I'm looking for "the one" but aren't we all? I don't mind taking my time. =)I'm curious about something...why do so many men on here have pictures taken in the bathroom & in the car? I'm stumped! ?? A glass of wine... A place where we can talk with out lots of noise...a walk in the moonlight...allowing ourselves to get to know each other without too many distractions and then lets see what happens from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Volleyball
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