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Malissa, 41

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About Me

Ok so let's get down to business-the greatest thing about turning 40 is that I know exactly what I want. The worst thing about it is not being able to find it. I can stand on my own two feet but I am tired of standing here alone. I am looking for my best friend to share everything with-the good, the bad and everything in between. I am a sucker for romance and you will win me over if you can make me laugh out loud often. Friends would describe me as quick witted with a flare for sarcasm, classy, open minded, honest and the one who can find humor in any situation. I always say please and thank you and I use my blinker. I am loyal, have integrity, compassionate, nurturing, believe in common courtesy and the Golden Rule. I would never expect more out of you than I expect from myself. I am looking and praying for the real deal so please be serious about wanting a long term relationship. Witty banter is a must!!!- So why not take a chance....you have nothing to lose and everything to gain! Help me help you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tiara

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I think I'm funny. I am easy to get along with. I work very hard so I would love someone who loves quality time well spent. I'm a good person but I can be mean lol hey I'm a girl. OK this might seem a little weird ,well a lot haha if you meet this description send me an *** to be nice looking with a some what of a sexy look.I like a fit to a little on the thick side, man.Say I'm shallow or whatever but I know what I like an want in a man.this next part can very a little.. Medium colored eyes and hair,5'***'11 ish,muscular build but not huge,fit maybe? Lol jeans and t shirt kinda guy. Younger than me, owns your own business or seriously talking about it. or if you have a single friend who fits that description have him get a hold of me. Now seems weird but I had someone, a psychic tell me that he is my soul mate. Lol let's see.Also to the guys who say I'm a gold digger,re read.. it says OR talking about owning your own business.

  • Jonell

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Very honest, down to earth single mom looking for a sincere and honest heart. The only games I want to play involve moving pieces around a board. Short of that, plz don't waste my time. I'm a hopeless romantic, who truly believes in the power of love. I'm fun, spontaneous, adventurous, and I LOVE to laugh!! :-) Not into racist, sexist, homophobic close minded ppl, and I won't tolerate dishonesty. That's a deal breaker for me. My ideal partner will understand that being a great mom is my top priority, and it will only work if he wants a good, strong relationship with my son as well. I'm a very strong willed, convicted, passionate person, but I do not like arguing on the home front. Someone asked me today what I'm doing on here. I told him that I was searching for my "intended." That one special guy that I'm supposed to be with (yes, I do believe in such things!). He then asked what I'm looking for in a guy. This was my response:Ideally, my perfect guy will be very honest (I hate being lied to!); he will be very loyal to me, and he wont cheat; he's faithful not out of fear of being caught but bcz he's happy...; he'll be smart, but not pretentious, (note: for me, smart and educated are NOT synonyms! Some of the most intelligent, well read ppl ik did not go to college; conversely, I know a lot of ppl w/college or even graduate degrees that are dumb as dirt!); he'll have a good sense of humor and will love making me laugh; he won't be judgmental or intolerant of human differences; he'll be adventurous and spontaneous; he will love the water, and feel a certain pull toward it; he'll be sweet and romantic, adoring and respectful; he'll be selfless, a giver not just a taker; he'll be hard working and hard playing; he's protective but not controlling;; he'll be a passionate and intense lover (compatibility here is essential); he's family oriented and he likes to have fun with family, he doesn't just tolerate them at the holidays! He will love all kinds of music, esp 70s and 80s (Although I wont lose sleep if he's not a big fan of rap/hip hop!), and will express himself frequently thru music (ability to play an *** a definite plus!) he'll have a healthy appreciation for movies, be able to quote them on command and get movie references when i make them (if i say "i gave her my heart, she gave me a pen" he'll get it, go play Peter Gabriel and lift his arms into the air!) But most importantly, he'll want a good relationship w/my son and ultimately will love him and be a strong positive role model in his life, helping me to shape and mold him into a great man one day. That's my wish list for my soul mate. I'm hoping to find someone w/at least one or two of these qualities! ;-) Perfect first date starts w/dinner at an amazing, but quiet, intimate restaurant, w/cocktails and/or wine, and shared dessert! Stroll afterward for more conversation, then find something fun to do, like go see a band, maybe meet up with some friends at a Fav bar and cut loose and have fun. Very relaxed and flirty and fun ;-)

  • Shana

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Just in the recent years, I enjoying cooking. A relaxing day for me would be boating, fishing, or crusing the intracoastal. I also enjoy playing golf. I consider myself funny. I am a very open person and very real. Looking for someone who is motivated for life's unexpected pleasures.

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