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Bess, 43
United States, New Mexico, Bloomfield

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About Me

I've been on this site before, met some great people (some not so great people), and unfortunately, not someone I wanted to spend more time with. Below is my previous profile... If it interests you, I'd love to chat and get to know you. I love fast cars (and mine is SO pretty!) ;-) Are you brave enough to take a ride with me? I only relocated from Maui in mid- Maybe you'd like to re- I am ridiculously passionate about college football and enjoy a good beer while watching the Game.- LOL... so we can agree to disagree (or get in to some fun debates) but please don't lead with "Let's talk about the Ducks" - I'd hate to delete someone who is otherwise wonderful - hahaha! :) I'm "mostly" kidding! In the interest of full disclosure: I am really not the "outdoors all the time" girl anymore. I see all these profiles with hiking, fishing, hunting and camping as a "must" (seemingly every minute of every day)... If that is you, I'm not The Girl for you! However, I am totally supportive of you enjoying these activities with "the guys' - This doesn't mean I'm afraid of nature, or even getting a little bit dirty! Just not every free moment, and with an equal balance of pampering :) And I'm not a complete prissy girl, so I am totally up for a hike somewhere gorgeous, and love walking around town or along the waterfront. And having spent the last 6 years on an island, I am ALWAYS up for the beach :) Also, I really need to start working out, so if you're not completely hard core (or at least not until I can catch up!) that is a bonus :)What about chemistry? I definitely want to get to know someone by sharing messages, but I am not looking for endless *** we meet. Let's be honest, don't we both know within the first 15 minutes if we have butterflies and want to see each other again for a "real" date" Biology is biology, and we have to have a connection. We can keep our first meeting simple, and let's hope for sparks! And before you ask, I don't give out my phone number until we are both sure we want our first "date" after we meet. And just so you know, all my pics are in the last 6 months or so. And by the way, I am not sure if it shows in any of my pictures, but I do have a small nose ring. I also have several tattoos - so if that isn't "your thing" - no hard feelings!WOW! This turned out to be WAY longer than I expected. PS: Did you really make it this far?? I'm 5'9" MOST of the time... when the day is done, and I kick off my shoes I'm only 5'5" :) I changed my profile stats since it can be shocking on a first date! (Especially if you "fudged" a little when listing your height!)PSS: Those who have read this far, and can keep the conversation going with more than just, "Hey," jump to the front of the line -

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Portuguese Spanish
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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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