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About Me

I am who I am. Don't let my looks deceive you. I am not looking for anyone to check my tire pressure, or change the wax ring on the toilet... It's all Good, I got this ... says it all. I guess you can say I am different. I say this because it's the one thing I hear repeatedly from those who meet me. I was born and raised on the East Coast, an Army Brat. I am out spoken and honest. I never say something with the intention of hurting anyone, only to help them. I have the ability to look outside the box. I believe life is a journey and there is no where to go but forward. I tend to be laid back and take it as it comes. I don't plan for years in advance, I live for the moment. I am not afraid to be myself. With me you truly get what you see. If you are looking for someone to fill a void or space, if you feel something is missing from your life....IT IS NOT ME! If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect anyone else to be happy with you? I am a very forgiving person, and believe in second chances with one exception....lies! It only takes one and I am done....I will walk away without thinking twice about it. I have found the truth to do one of two things...it either pisses you off, or sets you free. It's that simple! Honesty is not the best policy...IT IS MY ONLY POLICY ! If you are one of those people who post pictures from 10 years ago, or who wrote your profile according to what it is you think others want to hear.... you need not apply! The phrase " First Date " , really bothers me. If we have never met, and just chatted online... the moment we do meet can't really be considered a date.... Ya ya I know..... If no one has ever put this out there before, let me be the first......It is okay that when you actually meet someone for the first time, and you know right off that it's not gonna work... they just aren't for you.... it's okay to POLITELY say so. I can't pretend to be into someone .Nor do i want someone who is not into me suffering through it. If you are happy with yourself as a person, you get that it's nothing to do with you personally, so don't take it personal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Outgoing, bubbly, loyal woman who is has an open heart ready for love. I love to relax at home and watch movies, listen to music and sometimes dance around the house. I enjoy working out and following a healthly lifestyle....just started to get into cooking and going more organic. My passion is the water and the beach. I also love to see sights unseen - a true adventure seeker - I am a caring, fun-loving woman who has a great career and friends/family.So I have been on this site now for about a month and would like to say that after reading many profiles with a majority saying how they are frustrated and can't seem to find a good woman..I'm dumbfounded. I'd like to cut to the chase.. I'm a great catch and have Lot to offer.. I do not have alot of personal time as I do have a demanding job that takes more of my time than I wish but I make the time. Those that favorite me and don't have the courage to reach out and start a conversation... Please don't! I will only respond to those that have confidence in themselves and not into games. I also am not interested in an *** we are all on here to find that someone special.. Take a leap!! You just might find that special needle in a haystack. Lets meet for a drink, or early afternoon coffee (I don't drink caffeine after noon), chat and see if we have connection.. Go put put or race go carts, .. Surprise me!

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy activities outside in the summer and some outdoor activities in the winter. My children are my world without them I wouldn't be the person I am today. They have brought sad times, many happy times but most important tons of love. I'm going back to college for nursing and want to have the best to offer my children without furthering an education and being a single mom makes it very difficult to provide for them with no worries. They inspire me to do more which someday they will be able to say the same about me.I'm looking to date to start and possibly develop into more ..slowly.....I'm hoping what I`m about to say doesn't offend anyone but gotta say it. This is a dating website with all the messed up things going on around us I find it inappropriate to post pictures of your kids on this site. I have children to but wouldn't want to advertise their picture on here.. Im just saying... My first date I would have to say would be to meet at nice restaurant to start.... See where it goes...

  • Delight

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    If you are looking for a one night stand, please don't message me. However, if you are really looking for a relationship, please read on... I enjoy doing many activities such as watching movies, sporting events, fishing, camping, or hanging out. I also have days that I enjoy vegging out. I would love to travel the world, but the fear of flying has left me grounded. Hmmm...what makes me unique? I can be zany at times yet completely serious the next. It would be nice to find someone who can appreciate a sense of humor. I am an honest, sincere, and caring person. I appreciate hard work and strong ethics. I feel family is very important as well as open communication...! If you are a Vikings fan, expect to be harassed. I also enjoy photography, writing, bowling, sometimes cards, but I'm highly competative. I hate to lose. I don't get video games unless they are the old arcade games like Pac-man :) I tend to freak out a little with video games...can't handle the high stakes pressure!

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