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About Me

I am who I am. Don't let my looks deceive you. I am not looking for anyone to check my tire pressure, or change the wax ring on the toilet... It's all Good, I got this ... says it all. I guess you can say I am different. I say this because it's the one thing I hear repeatedly from those who meet me. I was born and raised on the East Coast, an Army Brat. I am out spoken and honest. I never say something with the intention of hurting anyone, only to help them. I have the ability to look outside the box. I believe life is a journey and there is no where to go but forward. I tend to be laid back and take it as it comes. I don't plan for years in advance, I live for the moment. I am not afraid to be myself. With me you truly get what you see. If you are looking for someone to fill a void or space, if you feel something is missing from your life....IT IS NOT ME! If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect anyone else to be happy with you? I am a very forgiving person, and believe in second chances with one exception....lies! It only takes one and I am done....I will walk away without thinking twice about it. I have found the truth to do one of two things...it either pisses you off, or sets you free. It's that simple! Honesty is not the best policy...IT IS MY ONLY POLICY ! If you are one of those people who post pictures from 10 years ago, or who wrote your profile according to what it is you think others want to hear.... you need not apply! The phrase " First Date " , really bothers me. If we have never met, and just chatted online... the moment we do meet can't really be considered a date.... Ya ya I know..... If no one has ever put this out there before, let me be the first......It is okay that when you actually meet someone for the first time, and you know right off that it's not gonna work... they just aren't for you.... it's okay to POLITELY say so. I can't pretend to be into someone .Nor do i want someone who is not into me suffering through it. If you are happy with yourself as a person, you get that it's nothing to do with you personally, so don't take it personal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like sports (especially tennis and Nascar),reading,all kind of music, and watching movies. I like being challenged and have just taken up target shooting. I work a lot so I do enjoy my down time. I would prefer someone with no drama in their life.

  • Gregoria

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    So...where do I begin?-shirts that have child-like or crude sayings and shop at Walmart for clothing. My tastes are a little more refined. Sorry just telling the truth. I like what I like and know what I dont want. Why settle? I am very active, I like to travel even if it is just for the weekend, I love going to concerts, outside activities, I can ride dirt bikes and motorcycles fairly well. I love photography and have made a few bucks doing Christmas photos, weddings and such. My friends would say that I am constantly on the move and always ready for an adventure. I will try anything once, if I like it I will do it over and over . I work full time as a circulating nurse and I am still attending school. Luckily I have a mon-fri job. I must say that I live for the weekends! I have a very open mind and I can adapt to pretty much anything. I love dogs, not so much a cat fan. I like to play soccer although I am not very good! Yoga is something that I would like to do more of. I love rock music and have recently taken a liking to country music ( my boss listens to it everyday in the OR I guess I dont have much choice!) I love to learn new things and meet new people. I can be a bit shy at first, but that easily changes once I feel comfortable with someone. Oh and I tend to like younger men. Thats all for now. :) A trip to MAUI! Any place you can have a conversation in a relaxed environment.

  • Rheba

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ***Please only message me if your pictures are of you, current, and you have honestly reported your age!*** I have tried writing the descriptive and eloquent profile, the bullet point profile, the humorous profile, and several other versions. It seems men either don't read the profile or completely disregard what I included in my profile. So let’s cut to the chase...I have been divorced since ***,(no kids) and I know the type I am looking for. I am extremely happy and content with my life and it would be the icing on the cake to add a wonderful man to share my life's journey.I am looking for a man who is: an educated professional, faithful, honest, financially stable, witty, active, mature-- but knows how to have fun, clean cut, and has all his teeth. I am looking for a man who is willing to open his life to me and is interested in a long term, monogamous relationship. A man I can count on, who does what he says he is going to, follows through, and who will keep me laughing!I am: classy, faithful, honest, responsible, stable, confident, active, outgoing, strong, independent, attractive, and smart. I am ready to have a committed, long term relationship. I am tired of all the games and BS, aren't we all?I enjoy being outside, anything in, on or around the water, and enjoy staying active. I am a fan of music (almost all genres) especially live music. I enjoy cooking and trying new wines or craft beers. I also enjoy sports, especially college football. I can adapt to any environment/situation and have fun... Try me!DEAL BREAKERS: yes I had to put this....Smokers, drug users, alcoholics, infidelity, liars, poor use of grammar (you must know when to use to, too, two, your, you're, their, there, they're), players, slobs, and male chauvinists. I think the best first dates are simple and stress free; coffee or drinks and maybe a short walk. This is the opportunity to see if there is chemistry and if a second date is warranted. Physical attraction isn't everything, after all looks fade!

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