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Aliana, 41
United States, Kansas, Ulysses

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About Me

I am a hardworking, fun, loyal and dedicated kind of gal that is looking for the same characteristics in a man. I'm told I have a wicked sense of humor, which works out well, since I love to laugh and make others do the same. Who doesn't love a great smile and a genuine laugh, right? I have two fantastic kiddos that keep me on the run and are a total blast to be around. Get the 3 of us together and we're more fun than a barrel of monkeys. As far as hobbies go, I enjoy diving into projects where I can build and create things. I get a lot of satisfaction out of 'do-it-yourself' kind of stuff and am pretty crafty. I'm also that rare chick who knows how to use tools, likes to fix things around the house and will even work on your car with you. Needless to say, if you are mechanically inclined, we are going to get along great!I'm a big fan of hot rods, rat rods, muscle cars and the like, but have a soft spot in my heart for old pick-ups. I like car shows and am always up for going to the drags. Little hole in the wall joints, sports bar/grills and anywhere we could listen to music, live or not, is always fun too. On the active side: I love boating, jet skiing, taking a sand rail out for a romp and most anything to do with driving. Let it be known, I can back a trailer with the best of em. ;) I'm up for new adventures and looking to expand my horizons to include more activities. I'm typically a jeans and flip flop kind of girl, but I have no problem dressing up when the occasion calls for it. Not a huge sports fan, but I'll admit, I find myself watching football more and more over the past couple of years. I am open to learning about and watching more sports, but it's got to be exciting if it's going to keep my attention. I've been a big UFC fan from the get go, so if it's a PPV fight night I'll definitely be watching. That being said, it does not mean I am looking for a gym rat in an Affliction t-shirt that is 2 sizes too small! To sum it up, I'm a down to Earth chick who is looking to make the most out of life. I'd love to find that ONE special guy to join me on the adventure. I seek friendship, fun, passion and everything in between. I'm looking for a "man's man", who likes to have fun and isn't afraid to show his heart, a guy that knows how to use a tool, not be one. Where is my guy who is just as content to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie as he is to go out for a night on the town? When it comes to physical attraction, I tend to lean more toward men with dark hair, formerly dark hair or no hair and darker eyes, but that is NOT without exception. I am definitely a sucker for a great smile, so I hope you're smiling in your photo. I'd really like to find a guy taller than myself and prefer a body type that would not be described as thin. Honestly, I am not looking for a perfect guy, because I am not perfect. I am simply looking for an honest man, that says what he means and means what he says. A man that with all his imperfections, is perfect for me. If this sounds like it may be you... you just might be my guy. ***Update: If you don't have a picture of yourself smiling, I will *** convinced that you do not have teeth, or you are a serial killer. The serial killer assumption also holds true, if you are wearing sunglasses in all your pics or they are taken from so far off and blurred, that I could not pick you out in a police lineup. I am not looking for a texting buddy or someone who lacks the time or conversational skills to speak on the phone or in person. I am specifically on this crazy site, because I want to meet my forever man. Food for thought: Desire may inspire attraction, but conversation is a prerequisite for romance. I'm looking to meet someone for the long term, if this isn't on your agenda then please do not bother contacting me. Happy fishing! Somewhere casual, comfortable and conducive to conversation...let's see if there is a spark. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Gabriela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for friendship and conversation. Tell me about you and what your into. I'm a crazy girl, not in the boil the dog Sence, but in the manner that usually I'm just sorta non-filtered, and see things usually through different ways than most. I prefer rain to sun,winter/fall vs summer, night to day. No, I'm not In perfect shape, don't expect you to be either, but I'm not okay with it if its not something you keep an eye on. I work alot, so no, I'm not a gym rat, but I am working on becoming more fit, for me. I don't know the first thing about most sports, maybe because my " group" are more the motorcycle and pub type, and maybe because it doesn't come up. You've got to be able to be willing to communicate, even when your mad at me...and willing to listen. Please move on if your a game player. If your looking for a hook up, your barking up the wrong tree. Just FYI, I don't live with my ex, and it's been over 6 months since I have. I'm actually separated. ;)

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  • Violet from Ulysses | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
    Violet

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    My Ode to the meetville men that have enriched my life...To the throwbacks, the carp, the white fish & sucker fish. Ha. and if you can't find the humor in it all, then you aren't my kind of man. Please DO NOT contact me IF: * You aren't white, like my bread.* Dependent on public transportation.* You have unusually small hands. Just weird.** Have weird & dramatic sounding orgasms.Squealer.* You sound gay, like you just sucked helium. Turn off.* In some stupid 1% patched club. I will never be property, Ok.* If you're on mental medication. So not into riding the BiPolar Express.* If you have a beard or a long assed goatee.I wax around my lips, so should you.* Looking for a Barbie beeotch, that cracks when ya bend her over? I'm not that girl.* You're under 6'1. You don't like fat women, I don't like short men. My issue, I'll own it.* You aren't 'completely' divorced. I am not your next bored biotch, or 'the' rebound babe.** Your staple of life is a 6 pack or more every night. I'm not into hot emotional messes,thanks. * Please have a damn job, you know self supporting? Debt free, is probably too much to ask for. Ha. * You are still sleeping with the ex. Just plain dumb.* You are a narcissistic arrogant prick, that whines & moans about anything & everything.Pessimist people suck.* * You cohabitate with anyone other than your kids, meaning members of your 'family'. I need a guy with his own space.* You have jacked up teeth. Have dental insurance for hell's sake, and don't think I am not going to notice if we meet *eyerolls.Requirement: Your own place, your own vehicle, your own job, within driving distance &Is that too much to ask for? Seriously. Pretty sad I have to include this in my profile, but OMG~ ********************************************************************************************************************************If none apply to you, then please read on. *smiles & flips my hair*I am independent, low maintenance, loyal, genuine, and real. Sometimes real blunt. Witty & sarcastic beyond repair.Just want to meet a really cool guy who makes me laugh & isn't dramatic.I don't want to ride anyone's emotional roller coaster.I'm all about the twists & turn on a motorcycle though.I am sane, sound & have my sh*t together, I expect the same. Looking for someone who is super cool, and hopefully professional.I am only a rebel ...."When I ride" *smiles. Lady boss on the streets, freak in the sheets, so I've been told.I am not a player, I am a one man woman in search of same. I don't have relationship baggage, daddy drama or debt.Looking for that 'one' chemistry connection. I am down to earth & drama free, and selective about who I let into my life.Spelling & grammar turn me on.I have no tattoos, extracurricular piercings, or criminal record. I am willing to make time for the right person. Just don't necessarily want to live with anyone, But it would be nice to find that someone I can't live without.I want to find my best friend & lover. Someone who complements me. "The person we choose to be with is a reflection of who we are.I will not chase you, if you are truly interested; prepare to meet me halfway.Only interested in someone who wants to keep it real and low key. If this you, and you think you can hang, then hit me up. *smilesIf you have the balls to contact me without a bike, then you better have the balls to ride on back =) If you can ride it and own it, then let's find out.

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  • Haydee from Ulysses | Woman | 45 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I joined this site to meet some new and interesting people and develop friendships that can potentially grow into a single meaningful, fun, passionate and REAL relationship. Single for over 3 years now and have dated enough to know what I'm looking for and what I want. Looking for meaningful, open, honest and fun—and becoming best friends and partners along the way. Also interested in developing friendships since I really have no clue what this city has to offer yet.Not too much to ask for, right??About Me:I am a listener, a thinker and a talker... I love figuring people out, trying to understand their perspectives on life, what’s important to them and why. Very down to earth, driven, level-headed, social, happy, positive and open-minded. I love life, work hard, and play just as hard too. I'm very family oriented and have many close, life-long friends. I love conversations that last for hours and love to talk about everything and anything.I know what my priorities are right now and I have goals and aspirations; many of them have already been achieved. I would love to compliment these with the right person with similar goals, interests and a passion for life. I truly enjoy meeting new people and seeing what's out there. I love to people-watch and strike up random conversation with interesting people. I find the elderly fascinating to talk to. They have so many stories and are always willing share their wisdom and life lessons.I am in shape. I enjoy doing. I love to surf, ride dirt bikes, hike, ski, snowmobile, run, swim, sail (pretty much anything to do with water). I don't gym-it much more than a couple times a week. I'd rather be out running, biking or even doing laps at the pool over lifting weights. Keeping active and in shape physically and mentally keeps things in perspective for me and makes for a better lifestyle all around.Those that know me would say I’m a very giving person, and a HUGE smart ass who really doesn't give a second look at someone who see's me differently. Time, energy, truth and love are the best things we can give—they’re finite and can’t be taken back. Friends and family would say I'm a very confident person, social and outgoing, yet NEVER the peacemaker, that is my sister... I like drama, but in a good way! I love cooking, taking care of my little boy when he is with me, and when he isn't he is with his Dad in So Cal, who is the BEST Dad in the entire world!! I am well educated and have a great job that I enjoy very much.Can I stop talking now??First DateI prefer meeting up for a drink somewhere *** an actual "date" the first time we meet, unless we really hit it off on the phone and we both have a pretty good feeling about things. Drinks or lunch is more friendly and casual environment than a formal setting where we could both end up "stuck," for the duration so to speak. It's also easier to talk and get to know each other and not feel like you're interviewing each other.Whatever we do the first time we meet I prefer a setting where we can talk, get to know each other, laugh over drinks, etc. You really just can't do that sitting in a movie theater or at a Tool concert. So we'll save those for later... What? No Tool..??..... jk.I am an outdoor girl who loves the mountains and all that nature has to offer. Fishing, mountain biking, snowmobiling, snow skiing, hiking, boating, camping, and jet skiing. The best way to get to know me is to talk to me. My ideal match is someone who enjoys the same things I do, whether it be outdoor activities or watching sports (we don't have to like the same teams... I enjoy the competition) but also has their own sense of individuality. Someone who doesn't need me to be there, but enjoys it when I am. I am looking for a normal person... whatever that is. Someone more fun than annoying. A sense of humor is good... and attitude is everything, especially knowing when NOT to have one. :) I also would like to find someone who is spontaneous, because some of the best things happen when there is NOT a scheduled plan. What I've learned from my past relationships: Trust is everything. There is no relationship that works without it. Making friends along the way and sometimes not. LOL If you think you get this, I'd love to hear from you... until then, take care.By the way... I don't wear "flats" for no one. I love my height. If it intimidates you, move on!

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