• Ulysses
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

A little about me...I'm a single mom of two beautiful children which they mean the world to me..I'm very involved with my kids school and sports.I'm looking to find a special person to share special moments if the match is right.If not gain a new friend.Its hard to express so many things in a computer.Its important to be able to talk to the person (put a voice to a face) and not *** and forward forever.About the one I'm looking for...I'm looking for someone that is real and honest, likes to be adventurous, real important to have great communication.I'd just like to add...!!!If you are under 34 years old I'm not interested no offense .if I delete you that means I'm not interested Something casual and take it from there 0:)

• Ulysses
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

I joined this site to meet some new and interesting people and develop friendships that can potentially grow into a single meaningful, fun, passionate and REAL relationship. Single for over 3 years now and have dated enough to know what I'm looking for and what I want. Looking for meaningful, open, honest and fun—and becoming best friends and partners along the way. Also interested in developing friendships since I really have no clue what this city has to offer yet.Not too much to ask for, right??About Me:I am a listener, a thinker and a talker... I love figuring people out, trying to understand their perspectives on life, what’s important to them and why. Very down to earth, driven, level-headed, social, happy, positive and open-minded. I love life, work hard, and play just as hard too. I'm very family oriented and have many close, life-long friends. I love conversations that last for hours and love to talk about everything and anything.I know what my priorities are right now and I have goals and aspirations; many of them have already been achieved. I would love to compliment these with the right person with similar goals, interests and a passion for life. I truly enjoy meeting new people and seeing what's out there. I love to people-watch and strike up random conversation with interesting people. I find the elderly fascinating to talk to. They have so many stories and are always willing share their wisdom and life lessons.I am in shape. I enjoy doing. I love to surf, ride dirt bikes, hike, ski, snowmobile, run, swim, sail (pretty much anything to do with water). I don't gym-it much more than a couple times a week. I'd rather be out running, biking or even doing laps at the pool over lifting weights. Keeping active and in shape physically and mentally keeps things in perspective for me and makes for a better lifestyle all around.Those that know me would say I’m a very giving person, and a HUGE smart ass who really doesn't give a second look at someone who see's me differently. Time, energy, truth and love are the best things we can give—they’re finite and can’t be taken back. Friends and family would say I'm a very confident person, social and outgoing, yet NEVER the peacemaker, that is my sister... I like drama, but in a good way! I love cooking, taking care of my little boy when he is with me, and when he isn't he is with his Dad in So Cal, who is the BEST Dad in the entire world!! I am well educated and have a great job that I enjoy very much.Can I stop talking now??First DateI prefer meeting up for a drink somewhere *** an actual "date" the first time we meet, unless we really hit it off on the phone and we both have a pretty good feeling about things. Drinks or lunch is more friendly and casual environment than a formal setting where we could both end up "stuck," for the duration so to speak. It's also easier to talk and get to know each other and not feel like you're interviewing each other.Whatever we do the first time we meet I prefer a setting where we can talk, get to know each other, laugh over drinks, etc. You really just can't do that sitting in a movie theater or at a Tool concert. So we'll save those for later... What? No Tool..??..... jk.I am an outdoor girl who loves the mountains and all that nature has to offer. Fishing, mountain biking, snowmobiling, snow skiing, hiking, boating, camping, and jet skiing. The best way to get to know me is to talk to me. My ideal match is someone who enjoys the same things I do, whether it be outdoor activities or watching sports (we don't have to like the same teams... I enjoy the competition) but also has their own sense of individuality. Someone who doesn't need me to be there, but enjoys it when I am. I am looking for a normal person... whatever that is. Someone more fun than annoying. A sense of humor is good... and attitude is everything, especially knowing when NOT to have one. :) I also would like to find someone who is spontaneous, because some of the best things happen when there is NOT a scheduled plan. What I've learned from my past relationships: Trust is everything. There is no relationship that works without it. Making friends along the way and sometimes not. LOL If you think you get this, I'd love to hear from you... until then, take care.By the way... I don't wear "flats" for no one. I love my height. If it intimidates you, move on!

• Ulysses
• Kansas
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I am a little apprehensive, but I am giving this another try. Looking for a down to earth man- who isn't into games. I think most people would describe me as someone who is motivated, friendly, dedicated, respectful, easy-going, non-judgmental, and affectionate. I would expect my match to have similar traits. I enjoy hanging out with friends, bbqs, traveling/road trips, reading, cooking, sitting poolside (with a frosty cold one), and biking. I am very confident and secure in who I am and what I am looking for. I am looking for someone to compliment my life, not complicate my life. I can appreciate other's backgrounds, values, faiths, ethnicities, interests, and lifestyles. If you are interested, let's chat to see if we have enough in common to meet in person.Good luck to all in your quest.