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Marlena, 42

United States, Kansas, Ulysses

Offline, last seen Mon, 28 Sep 2026 06:44:25

About Me

This feels very goofy writing this intimate profile about myself for the entire world to see....but I am willing to take a chance and put myself (literally) out there to see if Love on the internet can truly happen for me?I am a passionate, sexy, loving and loyal woman looking for the same in a partner. I am a bit old fashioned and a hopeful romantic. I like a man that is intelligent, strong and witty. I think respect in a relationship is critical and treating your Partner with such will only deepen your love and bond. I love a Man with manners and who is chivalrous. I love to be touched and cuddled, and sleeping in on Sunday mornings, with the door locked is the best way to end the old week, and to start a new one! I enjoy going to nice restaurants, and trying new foods, I try to take the attitude of trying everything at least once. "; attitude! I take the same approach when it comes to exploring new places. I consider myself to be adventurous, but cautious at the same time. I think becoming a Mom makes me stop and think twice about repelling without ropes through life now. I am a single Mom of a wonderful 8 year old boy. It keeps me active, happy, challenged and smiling throughout the day. But when I end my day, I love nothing more than to come home, maybe pour a glass of red wine, make a fabulous dinner, and chill out with my loved ones. I have always had someone in my life to Love and be Loved by, but for the past 9 years I have been so busy being the best Mom I could be, and a small business owner, that I have foregone dating or even thinking about internet dating. But.....I realize that I am shelfing a great catch, and the potential to have a friend, lover, partner in life that could make this Mom smile a whole lot more. Sooooooooo the bait is set and the patient wait and trolling begins.PS. I am not much for Chatting with someone online, so don't take it personally if I don't want to IM. We can *** there seems to be a mutual interest, then we can meet and talk face to face. Chemistry is extremely important to me, but it is hard to tell unless you meet or at least talk to someone Meet for coffee or a drink???? Chemistry is extremely important to me and I usually know pretty quickly if it is there or not. I am not into wasting anybody's time if the chemistry is not apparent. Too many other fish in the Sea - right?!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Hardcore Cycling Video Games Animation Documentary War Western American Football Archery
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  • Peter from Ulysses | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am looking for a good guy to hang out with. Someone who is laid back and happy with his life. I am happy and like to have fun. Life is short. I enjoy traveling and do a lot of it. I also enjoy music and dancing. Football is another interest of mine. I like anything outdoors and especially the beach. Anything we decide to do. It's about the company and not so much the place.

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  • Renda from Ulysses | Woman | 41 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I became a nurse to help others. I love stimulating my mind daily, not just at work, but with everyday I am given. I am a very active person.i love to work out inside and outside the gym. I love long walks, hikes and sitting outside just enjoying the day. I am a very happy, positive person. I am at a point in my life that I am looking for my life partner and best friend. I am not looking for someone who only has time for me on "their schedule." I believe in mutual respect toward one and other , complete honesty and the respect to be open with how we feel. I am not expecting my man to be glued at the hip, but I believe that a person's passions can be defined by where they spend their time and money. If your job, hobbies and everything else stands above your partner/best friend / lover , then maybe I am not the woman for you. I want to be there by your side in life to see you laugh, succeed and be happy. I will give you my all, all I ask in return is the same. Anything that we both feel comfortable with, such as lunch or coffee would be nice.

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  • Yoko from Ulysses | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi-Notes: If you have no pictures or are under the age of 40 please don't contact me. The biggest reason if I don't get back to you is you don't have enough pictures ! Please please post multiple pictures ! :0) Notes as of ***I'm gonna give you guys some advice... I'm so tired of all of this so here is a hail mary..........1. Have pictures that make you look good not bad2. Be a gentleman3. Don't try to talk about your body parts..how big how small.. what you'd like to do with your body parts4. Don't talk about your ex - if you feel you need to then maybe go to a therapist - I however.. am not your therapist5. Don't ask to touch my *** Don't talk about *** - if you have to talk about it thats a bad sign7. If you want to meet say it and figure out a time and place8. Don't have a dirty car, dirty house 9. Be happy, not boring and fun10. Again just be a nice normal gentleman - like your mother taught you and if she didn't - don't contact me Also if we've talked and we have decided there might be a connection I won't be attracted to you unless you put some effort into meeting me. I am attracted to men that know what they want and get it. Pleaaaase put multiple pictures on your profile. It's so hard to even try to get a feel for someone with one or two dark pictures taken from far away!I'm a nice normal funny well grounded woman looking for only one high caliber man! Here we go! Someone who is ....Between ***Has good manners is polite and not angry Ready and willing to become friends and have time to invest in pursuing a relationship that leads to a lifelong thingLives within 40 milesDoesn't mind I have kids (during the week)(with my own money)Similar to my color Has a career - not a job Doesn't live with other people (adults)Not in the military (as I can't move around the world) Nice looking - if people have told you are Keeps in shape Has some degree of faith Isn't going to ask me for bikini shots or naked Picts Isn't going to attack me on a first date A gentleman that's got a degree of class and manners and self worth - healthy self esteemIs over his last wife Emotionally wholeHappy with his life and needs a great woman to complete it Now...I'm grounded, funny, down to earth. A super fun normal and caring woman who is emotionally whole. I love my life and looking for someone who is a great person to share it with. I am not looking for a booty call or anyone under 40. I'm looking for a motivated, fun and funny person who we share chemistry together. I like to stay in shape and be active so someone who also likes to stay in shape. I love to dance and have fun, while also being a dedicated mom. I have weekends free and have time to invest in someone. I think I pair best with someone who is emotionally whole, smart, intuitive and also has shared a degree of success in life and manages their life well. I love to cook and have a real love for wine. I am not looking for anyone who wants me to function as their therapist. I come from a very stable background and am looking for the same.Also I have children that are with me 4 nights a week (not on weekends) so if you don't want amazing beautiful respectful well cared for children (and their college is already paid for) in your life - click off me. That's great if you are a world traveler and want me to have a "white bikini and a passport" I do love to travel and have lived in Europe but I can't just take off for a month! On another note no beer bellies please. Also I am big on lots of pictures as I've been duped many times with people not presenting their real self. I am warm, caring, a blast to hang out with, only exciting, happy, fun men need to apply! Great first date would be something simple, meet for a walk on the beach and a coffee or something with no pressure. Don't be surprised if I ask you for more pictures if you only have a couple up!! It's just that a connection is usually made when you see someone in person so it helps to have more pictures.

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