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Yoko, 42
United States, Kansas, Ulysses

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Hi-Notes: If you have no pictures or are under the age of 40 please don't contact me. The biggest reason if I don't get back to you is you don't have enough pictures ! Please please post multiple pictures ! :0) Notes as of ***I'm gonna give you guys some advice... I'm so tired of all of this so here is a hail mary..........1. Have pictures that make you look good not bad2. Be a gentleman3. Don't try to talk about your body parts..how big how small.. what you'd like to do with your body parts4. Don't talk about your ex - if you feel you need to then maybe go to a therapist - I however.. am not your therapist5. Don't ask to touch my *** Don't talk about *** - if you have to talk about it thats a bad sign7. If you want to meet say it and figure out a time and place8. Don't have a dirty car, dirty house 9. Be happy, not boring and fun10. Again just be a nice normal gentleman - like your mother taught you and if she didn't - don't contact me Also if we've talked and we have decided there might be a connection I won't be attracted to you unless you put some effort into meeting me. I am attracted to men that know what they want and get it. Pleaaaase put multiple pictures on your profile. It's so hard to even try to get a feel for someone with one or two dark pictures taken from far away!I'm a nice normal funny well grounded woman looking for only one high caliber man! Here we go! Someone who is ....Between ***Has good manners is polite and not angry Ready and willing to become friends and have time to invest in pursuing a relationship that leads to a lifelong thingLives within 40 milesDoesn't mind I have kids (during the week)(with my own money)Similar to my color Has a career - not a job Doesn't live with other people (adults)Not in the military (as I can't move around the world) Nice looking - if people have told you are Keeps in shape Has some degree of faith Isn't going to ask me for bikini shots or naked Picts Isn't going to attack me on a first date A gentleman that's got a degree of class and manners and self worth - healthy self esteemIs over his last wife Emotionally wholeHappy with his life and needs a great woman to complete it Now...I'm grounded, funny, down to earth. A super fun normal and caring woman who is emotionally whole. I love my life and looking for someone who is a great person to share it with. I am not looking for a booty call or anyone under 40. I'm looking for a motivated, fun and funny person who we share chemistry together. I like to stay in shape and be active so someone who also likes to stay in shape. I love to dance and have fun, while also being a dedicated mom. I have weekends free and have time to invest in someone. I think I pair best with someone who is emotionally whole, smart, intuitive and also has shared a degree of success in life and manages their life well. I love to cook and have a real love for wine. I am not looking for anyone who wants me to function as their therapist. I come from a very stable background and am looking for the same.Also I have children that are with me 4 nights a week (not on weekends) so if you don't want amazing beautiful respectful well cared for children (and their college is already paid for) in your life - click off me. That's great if you are a world traveler and want me to have a "white bikini and a passport" I do love to travel and have lived in Europe but I can't just take off for a month! On another note no beer bellies please. Also I am big on lots of pictures as I've been duped many times with people not presenting their real self. I am warm, caring, a blast to hang out with, only exciting, happy, fun men need to apply! Great first date would be something simple, meet for a walk on the beach and a coffee or something with no pressure. Don't be surprised if I ask you for more pictures if you only have a couple up!! It's just that a connection is usually made when you see someone in person so it helps to have more pictures.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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