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About Me

Hi! I'm a creative type. I make a living as a musician- writer, singer, teacher... I love art and creative people. Painting is a hobby. I'm most attracted to men who have a nice balance of grit and anti-establishment mentality but have found their passion and know how to pursue it. I'm adventuresome and like people who DO things. No couch potatoes or social phobics. Not that I can't spend a day laying around, I can- but I'm curious about life and the great things that LA has to offer so I am most happy when I have activities and adventures in my life. Love weekend getaways, quick wit and people who are open. Am currently addicted to Marc Maron podcasts. When they ask you to specify if you want dating, friendship, long-term, etc... I'm torn because I'm not chomping at the bit to get serious, that said, playboys are a dime a dozen. I'd like to date thoughtful men who take getting to know a woman seriously. I don't care if it's dinner, drinks, an art opening, a hike. If it's somewhere we both have never been it sets us up for fun no matter what the chemistry. My worst nightmare is a coffee date (which is not a date at all) where I get the third degree and you check out my boobs to see if I meet your sexual desires. Get real. Chemistry will present itself when the time is right. If we do something fun and low pressure, we can be our real self. I don't need you to be your 'best self' or your 'most direct' self. Take it easy and everything will be ok. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Valentina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am:OutgoingFunGood sense of humorEnjoy lifeGivingCaringHard workerEstablishedWorking hard to be fitLove the outdoorsWould like to make you laugh and smileBelieve in being trustworthyWill show you respect and expect the same in return. I am independent and have a great head on my shoulders. I feel I have a great life, but I am missing that special someone. I am very responsible. I am a homeowner and have a really good job. I am in hopes to find someone that can support themselves and has a drive to be successful in life. You must have great values and be a one women man. :-D* I would love to find that special someone that makes me smile. * I am looking to build a friendship, but not afraid to get serious with the right person.* I am on this site because I am either at work or at the gym. I don't have a lot of opportunity to meet people. I like to hike, go to the gym and ride quads. I am interested in finding someone we can do things together and enjoy what life has to offer. I am a faithful women with a romantic side and a good heart. Looking forward to hearing from you and have a great day :-) A brief encounter to see if we have chemistry,common interests and values in life.Sit at the park and get to know each other. In the winter :-)If a UFC fight is on I would love to go to the bar and hangout and watch the fight.

  • Lilliam

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Please read through my whole profile before deciding you want to meet me based on what my pictures look like.I have many hobbies, mostly gardening, crocheting and making things with my scroll saw. I am a pretty good pastry chef and not a bad cook.;solar powered", I love to be out in the sun in my gardens or playing with my scroll saw. I have 7 rose bushes and hundreds and hundreds of other flowers, not to mention my small vegetable garden.Due to the way God made me, I have to cook everything from scratch, there are very very few things I can eat that come in a can or a box, so I've learned to be a good cook.I am looking for a Christian man who is not intimidated by my crutches. I know, it doesn't seem as tho I need them but I do. I do as much as my body will allow, and then some, I only need my crutches so that I can walk longer and walk without fear of falling or being knocked into. I also have a "hot rod" (electric wheelchair) for when my crutches aren't enough. God saw fit to build me as a strong woman in this body, so I have spent the last 10 years figuring out what I can and cant do about it :) as a result, I have learned to adapt my life to make it easier to do the things I want to do. I smoke, right and left handed cigarettes ;) which also makes it easier to get things done. I am currently working on my house, one project at a time ( May 1 will be 10yrs since I bought my house)... just got the roof fixed, and the cooler mounted properly last summer, so now I am slowly mudding the ceiling in the hallway. next will be my room: drywalled and the ceiling textured. then painted and hopefully new carpet and tile somewhere along the way. We( my mom, bff and I) did the front room and kitchen 3 years ago. it still amazes me when I see it in the morning.We just finished painting the outside of the house! it looks soooo much better!!!I live a very quiet stress free life out in the middle of nowhere...I spend most of the warm days outside in my gardens and so i have a great tan I recycle and re-purpose as much as I can so as to lessen my carbon footprint and save money..lets see: my favorite tv shows are Big Bang Theory, Criminal Minds, NCIS and of course Millionaire and Jeopardy! favorite music is countryI like most colors (except black and pink.)I don't wear jewelry, so I won't ever want a diamond ring or necklace or other such frivolous bangle ;o)and my favorite food is chicken enchiladas from La Casita or when I make them(but that takes all day) because I even make the tortillas from scratch.of course my favorite place is home or with my friends, however with my chair I can go to museums, baseball games, the park, just about anywhere.my latest obsession is Words with Friends! i love love this game! I win ***% of the time.I am allergic to animals with hair (sorry not a pet lover) and I do not ride on motorcycles, not the back nor the front...I prefer to ride in a Chevy pick up (I have a ramp for my chair that requires a class 3 hitch)the tests on this site are a bit off...i don't believe I am in control because I believe that God is... it is a really nice little church :)anything else you want to know go ahead and ask :) now that just depends....hard to say because the possibilities are endless if I can go in my chair.......I like baseball games, museums, parks, & other outdoor places....with my crutches i just cant go as long or as far

  • Carin

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would like to have one man in my life that I can hang out with, have passionate moments with, and still have my space when I need it, because I am somewhat independent and self-reliant. I want a man in my life, but I don't need a man in my life. However, you may be the guy that makes me fall head over heals and want to spend every waking moment with you. Anything is possible. I want to be cherished, as I will cherish you in return; I think that is the most important verb in a relationship. But other than that, what you see is what you get. Yes, I am a curvy, voluptuous woman. I could stand to lose some weight, but it's not a priority for me; love me for what is on the inside and don't expect perfection. I am very forthcoming about what I want in life. I am fully responsible for myself and I expect you to be as well. I am very passionate. I am generous to a fault, even to people that I don't know (I get that from my dad). I am independent and outspoken. I am fiercely loyal and protective of the people that I care about. I hate drama. I love to travel; I like to attend local events like the street fair, a concert, spring training or even the swap meet. I like to go to happy hour, sing karaoke, dance my ass off to a live band, and go to the casino. I love to watch sports, especially the UofA, at a sports bar or a friend's house where we can enjoy a few drinks during the game.What I look for in a man: I am drawn to men that are outgoing and spontaneous; a person's looks will catch my eye but personality is what makes me want to get to know you better. I want someone who is down to earth and treats people with respect and consideration. I want someone that is comfortable in his own skin, that can be the life of the party or mellow and laid back, depending on the situation. Chemistry, spark, whatever you want to call it... that is important, and I will know right away if it is there."Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss SLOWLY, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret ANYTHING that makes you smile." ~ Blige, Patsy Cline, Lenny Kravitz, Maroon 5........ I hate Starbucks, but happy hour would be ideal to get comfortable with each other and take the edge off cuz I get nervous, or maybe even a sporting event where the atmosphere is casual. Somewhere that we can flirt and have fun and not have to worry about which fork to use with which dish.

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