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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

I'm up for trying anything new, and of course I like to have fun so here I am… Looking for someone to join me in the adventure we call life, the simplest activities are the best with the right person! I'm very outgoing, friendly and can start a conversation with anyone so I have no problem meeting people; however it’s challenging to find someone with that special chemistry. I would like to date someone who will make me a priority, but also has his own interests and independence. I treat others the way I would like to be treated and believe mutual admiration, appreciation and respect are the foundation to a healthy relationship. I enjoy nice things but I am not pretentious or superficial. I value people over possessions. I have a positive spirit; I will have fun and make the best out of any situation. I enjoy a balance of getting out and doing things on the weekends, yet appreciate the value of time at home, and I’m always doing a creative project around my house. I love riding dirt bikes, horseback riding, boating, jet skiing, water skiing, and snow skiing, hiking and traveling. I like live entertainment/music, concerts, karaoke is fun, plays etc. I like all kinds of music but Rock/80's music is my favorite! Journey, Bon Jovi, etc. Staying fit and healthy, both mentally and physically, is important to me. I stay active and centered with pilates, yoga, weights, cardio, running and walking my dogs. I appreciate a man who is proactive about his health and puts in effort to try to keep active and fit.I would like to share my life with my best friend, who will always have my back, and who possesses some great qualities;), playful, strong, creative, spiritual, loyal, dependable, romantic and financially responsible and I will give you all these things in return!) That's a tall order, I realize, but I write this knowing that I am far from perfect and I don't expect perfection in my partner. Communication is key. Family, friends and my dogs are all important to me. I'm a huge animal lover. I don't need the spotlight so I'll let you shine. I'm a drama-free type of girl. I like to compliment life, not complicate it. The bottom line is chemistry. It takes chemistry to start a relationship but character to make it last. My pictures are current, except the one of my puppies; they're all grown up now! Thanks for stopping by and all the best to everyone!

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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

My first day as an online dater, a "gentleman" (perhaps appropriately self-titled as Kidneyshovel) asked me to come over and hang out in his basement at 11 PM. Hmmm.....not really a basement kind of girl.And so it goes, here I am, again, giving it a try...I love books. I fantasize about being trapped in a library for months and reading all the books on my wish list (IQ84), and all the books I'd love to experience again (Of Human Bondage), and all the books I didn't really like, if only to give them the second chance they deserve (sorry Moby-Dick).I am deeply affected by beauty--even something as small as the way light makes shapes on a dusty floor. Colors, fabrics, fashion, buildings, birds, all attract and hold my eye. I can't help but assign meaning, which probably isn't there, to the smallest visual details.I love dancing, well, any kind of movement really. I like to tiptoe and twirl, cartwheel and climb, leap and lunge, sway and swoon. Take me dancing and we're off to a swimming start. I don't think adults are playful enough. I'd like to meet someone who has a healthy sense of play and fun.These are a few of my favorite things:TV: Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire (loving season 4), Six Feet Under, House of Cards, early seasons of Parks and Rec.-Up Bird Chronicles (love everything by Murakami), The Executioner's Song, The History of Love, Sophie's Choice...A few of the things I can do:**Palm a basketball (a woman with very large--yet feminine!--hands)**Dominate the scrabble board (a woman of many words)**Recite a few Shakespearean sonnets (a woman inspired by beauty)**Knock back a dozen cookies in one sitting (a woman of serious appetites)**Fall asleep within 30 seconds of my head contacting the pillow (a woman with a clean conscience)**Rock funky leopard heels, skinny jeans and t-shirt (a woman with a sense of fashion)***I am a few years older than my age posted here, but men often cap their search at ***an age I can easily pass for (: If you find the fact that I've done this dishonest (which is weird since I'm stating it here), then there are certainly no hard feelings on my end, but chastising me as your opening line, well...honestly, I'd prefer to be invited to a basement by Kidneyshovel. Something short and sweet: a walk through the park or at the beach (not the boardwalk though as I was run over by a drunk bicyclist on a meetville date!), or a glass of wine.I don't exchange phone numbers (and for very good reason--the whole one bad apple spoils the whole barrel thing), so we will have to arrange things via messages through meetville. If we meet and, god forbid, we are not a match, let's end things gracefully. And by gracefully I mean no hard feelings and no need for follow up *** the initial recognition and so-be-it-I-wish-you-well exchange. We've all been there, or at least had the impulse to want to keep writing, but my lack of interest is not a statement about your value and vice versa.

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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

Native San Diegan, despite my milky white skin, I was truly born here. I am a strong, capable woman, who has been able to overcome many obstacles and I've been known to amaze others around me by always being able to keep it together and smile. Although my pic may show a straight and narrow kind of gal, this "good girl next door" actually has a dark side, with several tattoos to boot. So don't judge a book by it's cover as I won't of you. I'm most myself in jeans & a t shirt and would rather be bare foot than wear shoes. I don't spend hours in front of the mirror but I also don't leave the house like I just rolled out of bed. I go more with a natural look. Now don't get the wrong impression. When the occassion calls for it, I can dress to the nines. But I don't like fake people so I don't hide behind a lot of make up, I figure if you don't like what you see, move on.I keep pretty busy with my daughter. I read a lot and I'm into a lot of different crafts. Too much going on in my head, I have to get it out somehow. I'm not judgmental, am very open minded and can always see both sides to every story.I enjoy wandering around a book store, an art gallery, museum, or aquarium. Out of all the attractions here in SD, my favorite is Sea World, I feel at peace with the water. I know it seems silly. I love the days where I can take my time going through sea world, the zoo or the wild animal park. Want to know more, just ask. It really depends on the two parties. Maybe something simple to start so we're both comfortable, drinks, frozen yogurt, the cliche walk along the beach. Who knows? Just some place where we can chat. Then if all goes well, we decide what else.