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United States, Kansas, Liberal

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Hmmmm... what do I have to say about myself? I love to hike, go to rock concerts, spend a night out, spend a night in. I like getting lost in a great conversation where nothing's off limits. With me, what you see is what you get. I'm outgoing, chatty, fun, passionate, honest, easily excitable, and love to experience new things. I can be a girlie girl and one of the guys... and live life in both the fast and slow lanes.I'm going to be completely honest right now and say that I put on a few pounds, but I have been working hard to lose it (5ft 4 and a half and 160lbs currently). So if that is a deal breaker I understand, I'm not offended, and I invite you to message me later when I'll be more your type! :)Also for the sake of honesty, I'm looking to take it slow and really get to know the man I'm dating before jumping into a relationship. You definitely don't have to worry about me talking about our future in the middle of our second date lol!If I seem like the somebody you'd like to meet, by all means e-mail me (but not the generic "hi there" e-mail... Be creative!)So what do I look for in a man? Somebody who makes me laugh, is smart, silly, responsible, open-minded, romantic, caring, and honest. Family means a lot to me, and should also mean a lot to my ideal man.And as for who I'm not interested in... you fall into this category if you're a guy who:-- Is a Party animal (every once in a while is fun but not all the time***Needs to have sex by the end of one of the first few dates (I'm not looking for a hookup).-- Doesn't have a full time job -- Doesn't have time to date (what's the point of just talking***Expects me to give him my phone number just because we've e-mailed back and forth a couple times-- Doesn't smile-- Smokes cigarettes***Doesn't like the outdoors-- Is a member of the Raider Nation (Go 49ers!***Thinks Emo / Screamo is the best music ever-- Drinks every (or almost every) day-- Is possessive and jealous-- Has the duckface in any of his profile picturesIf you don't fit any of the above, I'd love to hear from you! For a first date, it really depends. Something where we can have a great conversation! Something outdoorsy for a second or third date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Deedee from Liberal | Woman | 40 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a Witty Woman who likes to laugh, love and smile! I love to travel, explore and discover all kinds of new things. I covered most of the US and Europe. I love to eat!! I will try anything once, twice if I like it. I have a six year old son, so if you're not into children then....oh well! I love my friends, family and my life. I'm into old movies; Gone with the Wind, Cassablanca, Some Like it Hot etc. If you have never heard of these movies you may be a little to young for me. ;). I listen to all kinds of music from the Sex Pistols to Run DMC. I love to dance (what girl doesn't) to staying in watching a good Basketball/ Football game & ordering some greasy Chinese food. That's me in a nutshell, so if your interested message me. P.S. I'm not fat...I just like to eat.

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  • Martha from Liberal | Woman | 42 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very easy going gal. I love to laugh, enjoy the "little" things in life and love to try new things. My motto is that "I can deal with anything as long as I have the right shoes."Ok- maybe sounds a bit dorky however I find it to be completely true. I think the types of shoes a person has tells a lot about the type of person they are, their interests and their activities. As for me I have a variety of shoes that help depict who I am and what I enjoy doing. First off I have my reliable Nike Tennies.If I am wearing my tennies I am heading out for a walk (weather permitting) and getting a nice long walk in. (Something I love to do!!) Otherwise if I have my tennies on and the weather isn't cooperating I am heading to the club for a run or to take a class. I recently started on the ZUMBA craze class and love it!If I am taking my kids for a bike ride, rock climbing, playing soccer against my daughter or chasing my son around I also have those tennies on. If I am having a really "lucky" day I have my shoes strap on for golf and am able to sneak off to play a round of golf. I love to golf however will easily and happily admit that I'm terrible at it but enjoy being outside and trying to improve.My old worn out Nikes on means I am moving the lawn and working around the yard with my flowers which is something else I enjoy.My everyday shoes on means I am doing the regular routine stuff of life. Running my kids to preschool, school, sports activities, church, volunteering and play dates. My kids are number 1 to me and I love spending my days with them. I have a daughter that is 9 and a son that is 5.If it's one of those amazing MN summer days where it is just gorgeous out I have my flip flops on and I am heading to the waterpark, pool, lake or beach with my kids. (One of the benefits of being in the education field is having summer days free!!) I love to be outside, be by water and worship the sun. My favorite color is red and that is also the color of my comfy cozy slippers!! If my slippers are on it means that I am at home curling up with a good book, (love to read), watching my favorite TV show, or getting ready for movie night with my kids. If I have on my strappy sexy high heels I am heading out for a night on the town with my best girlfriends. I love to go out DANCING!! We have fun no matter where we go! I am blessed to have such amazing, caring girlfriends who have been my biggest support over the last few years. My friends and family are a HUGE part of my life and I can't imagine not having them in my life. No shoes on would mean that I am out playing sand volleyball. I love to play volleyball (can be a bit competitive when it comes to this) and play on a co-ed sand league.Those are my shoes!! They are fun, cute, practical, comfortable, sporty, and sexy. Guess that is how I would describe myself as well!! Along with creative if you haven't gotten that by now. Meeting for a drink

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  • Danita from Liberal | Woman | 45 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I guess I've procrastinated long enough and need to fill this out!I really am looking for my best friend - someone to share dreams, hang out with, talk to. Someone who understands me, or at least tries to, and accepts me for who I am! Promise, I will try to be the same for you! I'm looking for someone who is open and honest. I don't like games, and lying will surely end any relationship with me. I'd love to have someone to go on walks with, to movies, traveling, hanging out at home, hanging out with you doing things you'd like to do! Of course there is always space for some time apart and different hobbies. I've been single a long time, so I am ready for a real relationship - long-term. After exchanging a few e-mails, then talking on the phone a few times (no texting!), maybe we meet and see if we like each other enough for a first date! If all that goes well, who knows! Dinner & a movie? Hiking? I never really have figured out how to "date", so you may have to decide! :)

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