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Vashti, 40

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About Me

Please say something other than just hello if you want to get to know me!! Be creative! I am a rock music lover (90's alternative is my favorite), I enjoy going to concerts and traveling to see my favorite bands. I enjoy spending evenings at the beach listening to music, spending time with my friends and family and cooking is my passion. I have one son who is 20 years old and lives on his own, he is hard-working and the light of my life, he takes after his mother :) easiest kid in the world and amazing, I think I raised an awesome contributing member of society!!I am looking for someone who is outgoing, fun, enjoys socializing, hanging out with friends, and generally can be themselves from the start, I do not like drama, arguments or stress, I live a stress free life! If you are looking for a hookup or nothing long term, then I am not the person for you!! Also if I see one more profile that says your perfect date is a glass of red wine I am going to laugh! Not all ladies like red wine, be yourself and not what you think we want you to be! Red wine personally makes me tired, only drink it if I have a really nice meal but it is not my go to drink or what screams romance :)Just a little FYI I am a visual person first, my ideal guy WILL have a great body, will have a bald head (shaved!!) or longer hair, will enjoy tattoos :) I am not shallow but I know what I want! Also just to let you know I WILL make you the most important person physically & mentally Meet for drinks and get to know someone

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Scottie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am new to this site, so not sure what to write here. My hobbies include baking, antique shopping, weekend road trips, and football. Family comes first and I love hanging out with my family. Not sure what makes me unigue other than I have eyes with 5 different colors and I am left handed. I like most music, not into rap music though....too old for that. LOLI like a guy who treats his mother with the utmost respect. Not a momma's boy just knows how to treat women. A guy has to like sports and not afraid to get his hands dirty. Can clean up well and not afraid to go to the ballet dressed up. Love going to watch a minor league baseball game with a good hot dog and nachos. Can't get better than that.

  • Rafaela

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Im a single Mom and my daughter comes first naturally. If you have kids then you'll understand that I need to plan ahead to make time for dating.Im passionate about all things to do with your 5 senses...I watch more tv then Id like to....The music scene has passed me by and I feel totally out of the loop...I guess I have 4 yrs of watchin Noggin to blame for my lack of life..lolI love food...Dancing...Gardening...an easy read...the beach....working out...yoga/stretching....Traveling...Cooking...my family but there all over the place...I cherish the great friendships Ive made over the yrs..:))Ive been in Love a few times and I hope too again...I want my partner to be my best friend and lover...he needs to have some patients....I have little. I dont like internet dating but its hard to meet people otherwise...I find it so unatural.I dont like country music...lol Ive tried just cant get into it...Im more of a jeans and tee shirt with flip flops. I have a few tattoo. At some point Ill post more, I weigh ***and my hairs longer now...other then that I look the same.Update....Im super busy I retrieve most(want to meets and message) from my phone...I try to check my message on the weekends but I cant keep up sometimes. If you live 45 mins plus away I probably wont reply as its just too far. I've tried it twice and it always becomes and issue. If you've contacted me 10 times and I dont reply anymore it means Im not interested. If all your about is your car or toys and $$ we wont mesh. On the other spectrum if your cheap or have no job that needs to be what your concentrating right now not dating.I have to add from prior experience I tend to be atracted to the personality of other Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio's & Aries, call it silly I know but it seems to be what works. I tend to be attracted to men opposite coloring of me...blue/green eyes and brown hair work too...I guess. lol Hey if your bald. Id have no clue what hair color you have... he he heHappy Fishing.... Depends on our interests...Id prefer to take a little time to talk 1stBeach, Dinner, DrinksI dont mean to be rude if I dont IM....I dont really like IMing...or have the time for it with a little one...sorry... A few extra pounds is one thing but if your more then a few Id notice and wonder what else you would lie about...For starters Im looking for friends. I have met a few handful of men on this site and I feel bad when I like the person but Im not attracted to them.Not sure if its a guy/girl thing or just me. I cant tell by a 1x1 pic if theres gonna be an attractionl. In the past Ive met every b/f out and I may have even made the 1st move as Im not shy. Attraction is either there or its not...and though I may like the guy, I cant fake it or settle just to have a b/f. Its just who I am :)

  • Mellie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I\'m unique by my sense of humor. I love to laugh! My friends describe me as silly, crazy (in a good way), funny, caring and loving. I have a huge heart. Search for kind people, who are still capable of having childish fun.

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