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Bess, 36

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Hi, I can't believe I'm back on here and only after 6months away...I met someone on here and thought it was serious, and going to be forever, I thought very wrong...I thought I'd give this one last effort to find the person I'm destine to spend my life with, before I just get too old and wrinkly lol...I'm just going to jump in with what i'm about and hopefully your still here after the first sentence lol....First I'd like to start by saying I've lost 70lbs this year, yay me! I'm an outgoing and very loving person who has a lot to give life and to the right person...My family and friends are very important to me, they've been there through it all...I'm a huge animal lover so the more the merrier (No animal hoarders plz lol)..I love to try new things but am terrified of heights and can't do anything that spins around lol, Other than that, bring it on! I love to laugh and think I have a pretty decent sense of humor...I'm attracted to someone who takes care of himself hygienically and has all his teeth lol If you dress good, that's a plus..IF YOU HAVE YOUNG CHILDREN AT HOME I'M SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED..The reason I say this is bc there seems to be no real time to date and get to know each other when you have lil kiddos at home...I'm someone who wants that time with someone I'm dating and trying to move forward with in life...I'd love to meet someone with an awesome sense of humor, good outlook on life, outgoing, hard worker, loving, honest and above all LOYAL! I'm intense, complex and jealous at times depending on situations...Hey, I have to speak of the ugly too, we all have it,right?If your still reading your a brave man lol....I'm not on here looking to be played or for casual anything, I'm looking for someone who wants to put in the work and have a lasting relationship...If any of this sounds of interest to you hit me up... I'd love to hear from you.. :) Ciao xx Maybe a long drive somewhere bc that gets people talking...Dinner after the drive or coffee...Movies are the worst for first dates, you siting in the dark for 2hours trying to find the cup holder and spilling it on the person you know nothing about bc you can't talk, ya you don't want that problem lol...The biggest issue I have with first dates or dating in general though, DON'T CHECK OUT OTHER WOMEN! If your with me, your with me! I would never do that to the person I'm on a date with, even if your not interested after meeting, make the best of the date and leave the person with at least a good impression of yourself...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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