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Mellissa, 40

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About Me

OK so I gave the whole "online dating thing" a try and it didn't work out as well as expected but I'm an optimist so I'm giving it a try again. This is something I never thought I'd do but here I am.....so here goes - I'm as real as it gets, 5'6", average build, not a millionaire, not a super model, plenty of baggage (ex-boyfriends, ex-husband, children) but it's nicely put away where it should be, non-smoker, drug free, couple of tattoos, not a goody two shoes but far from the typical bar slut, love motorcycles (but I'm not a "biker chick" I'm comfortable in a dress & heels or a pair of jeans & a t-shirt. DRAMA FREE, emotionally available, never been called clingy, do not have a drinking problem, pay my own bills, take care of myself (eat right & exercise) ~ etc etc etc. Let's face it, no matter what I type you'll never know if I'm lying or telling the truth unless you respond. So I hope to hear from you!! Suprise me!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    from 10 traits women want in a man article: 1Convincing evidence suggests that it takes only one thing to get a woman's attention: money. (See Trump wedding.)JUST WANT NO SCRUB err JUST ONE WITH EQUAL PAY or DEBT But if you eliminate cash and gifts of Manolo Blahniks from the equation, it is unclear which of the more intangible attributes contribute to a man's sexiness. We asked women to weigh in on their favourite physical, practical, character, and personality traits. Here's what they had to say:2More than 8 out of 10 women rated 'faithful to me' in the top 10 attributes they find sexy in a man. A woman's tendency toward attachment is a biological imperative, a matter of raising offspring right. Reassure her (often) that you're not going anywhere. DURR3Three out of four women say they look for a man who makes commitments and follows through. Being responsible - even if it's just remembering to pick up salad dressing on your way over to her place - sends a positive signal that someday you might commit. MEMORY IS IMPORTANT ,,TAKE NOTES 4Young women may still fall for the bad-boy type, but more mature women are turned on by kindness, because kindness inspires confidence. In other words, if you treat the waitress well, your date figures you'll treat her well, too. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME YOU DONATED OR HELPED YOUR FAMILY OR VOLUNTEERED THAT WASN'T ABOUT FREE BEER AFTER A MOVE;***Being able to laugh at the stresses of this world is a must, according to the women on our panel. You get bonus points if you can make them laugh. Humour tells a woman that you can laugh at - read, handle easily - the many difficulties that life throws at you NOT LAUGHING AT YOU BUT WITH ..6 A worldy, interesting man is a man she likes to show off.(ARE YOU SOME ONE I SHOULD LIKE TO SHOW OFF) Men who are take-charge problem solvers make women feel secure, and men who are always improving are never boring7.Why have women always melted for musicians? Because rock stars are passionate in public. Women like displays of passion(DOESN'T MEAN PLAY GRAB ASS IN PUBLIC OR BE AS LOUD AS A CIRCUS RING MASTER) because they're not accustomed to seeing them from men. Get passionate about something: kayaking, impressionistic art, barbecuing, or Habitat for Humanity. It's proof that you care for and about something beyond yourself. 8 Pay attention. A woman feels safe and secure when she knows her man will put down his BlackBerry and listen to her. Magic words: 'I'm here. Tell me everything.'ATTENTION PLEASE 9.Romance appeals to a woman's right-brained, less-logical side. Romance is bold because you're displaying your desire for a woman and revealing a softer, more vulnerable side that women find irresistible. SENSITIVE AT OLD YELLER SCREENING IS SPECIAL10The way you dress reflects on the woman you're with, and she knows it. The man who knows how to match a patterned shirt and tie will notice when she's dressed well, too. (And maybe he'll pay for the Blahniks. NO BASEBALL HATS OR RUNNERS if your going out, your an adult now STEAL YOUR GRANDPA'S STYLE JUST DON'T HAVE YOUR BELT AS HIGH AS HIM NEENERDon't be this guy like in the *** Mingle and Mosey ... any thing to prevent me from that classic loner cat lady eeps purrrfect...ly humourous

  • Nakisha

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I just moved here last year from NJ. I have my BA in Criminal Justice/Forensic Psychology. I am extremely easy going and love to have fun. It doesn't matter whether I'm jumping out of a plane or cuddling up and watching a movie. It's all about the company you keep. I would consider myself very adventurous and love to try new things. I listen to most music......my favorite movies are horror and action adventure. Definitely not the chic flick type lol. I have a 18 yr old son..I am your typical football mom. I'm pretty easy going as far as first dates...as long as you can make me laugh :-)

  • Tammy

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Let's try it this way. Reasons I may think your an ***hole: Your pushy. Your selfish. You fail to disclose any mental problems. You think a first date consists of a hotel room and tequila. You show up with no shoes on half dressed. You send me videos of you playing with yourself lol. Your overly jelious. Your crazy clingy. Reasons I may like you: Your honest but not rude. Sweet but mildly dominant. Charming. You love kids. Your affectionate but not smothering. You know how to brush your teeth. You have a sense of humor (my favorite). I am open to more than just dating for the right guy but will not be pressured into anything. I don't date really younger men or outside my race. Just personal preference not being mean. Surprise me.

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