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Benjamina, 40

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About Me

Okay here's the thing. I am open and honest. Laid back. Looking for someone to make me laugh, do things together, see what happens. I can't cook, I love to dance, I have 2 kids that I adore. I am not drama. Am financially secure so don't need a sugar daddy. Im very outgoing which sometimes scares guys. I just like people! LOL. I am confident not**** or stuck up. Ask me anything. No secrets here!I will be honest up front. Need you to be to. Life can be fun! Maybe lunch or a drink. Someplace we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Laci

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First of all Im not looking for a hook up so read no further if thats what you are wanting. Im a mother of three and its important to find someone that is good with kids. Im the kind of person thats pretty simple and very real. I dont like people who try to bullsh*tme. I can always tell so please dont try. I love the water and like to be near it as much as possible in the summer. I do enjoy watching some football. I like to go to out to eat and snuggle up and watch a movie with that someone special. Its important that a man has a job, drivers license and a car. I tried this once before and ran into some pretty intresting people and some really not so pleasant. No trash talk meassages please. you wont get a response or if you do you wont like it. Id rather meet as friends first and see where it goes

  • Arielle

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Disclaimer. Please read before you message me!!! STOP AND READ THIS!!! Hi is not an introduction!I am looking for the right person so if this sounds rude I am sorry but my in box is so full that I have to share a few regards.... If you make it pass this you will see me......1.) If you do not have a picture.... I am not going to respond to you.2.) If you are younger than me...... I am not going to respond to you.3.) If you are not close to your family..... I am not going to respond to you4.... I am not going to respond to you.IF YOU MADE IT PASS THAT..... THIS IS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR!!! AND ME!That is what I am looking for. Someone who makes me deliriously happy and I do the same right back. I am pretty quick witted so I really enjoy an intelligent man with a great sense of humor. I am looking for a long term relationship that may end up in marriage. I love the water and being out side. I am very close with my family and would like my partner to have strong family values. I do not have any children and am open to dating a man with children. I love to cook, travel, nice dinners, yoga, boating, surfing, (I am a beginner) and cooking out with friends... I have a fun playfull side but I can afford to pamper myself and my ideal gentleman will appreciate the same lifestyle. I am intelligent, fun, passionate, loyal, and a lot of fun. I think attraction is very important. I am a conservative, classy girl in public but differnet girl behind doors in a relationship. I like tall men who can wrap their arms around me. I love a man with a twinkle in his eyes and a smile on his face. I am looking for a man who is financially stable. He doesn't have to be a millionaire, but he must be financial sound. I am looking for someone who is geographically desireable...... In addition, I am not into men who drive motorcycles, have tatoos, and are not educated professionals.!!!!Up-date ***Now that I have been on this site for a month and a half. Now that I have had time to evaluate this dating site I have realized that there are only about 1% of men that I will respond to who I think may be a match. If you message me and I do not respond by the second time..... It means I do not think we are a match. Please do not message me again and again. I am not looking to date a ton of guys on this site, rather looking for one person. So if your profile says casual fling, I am most likely not going to respond. Also, I am not looking to date anyone who is more than two years younger than me. My ideal gentleman would be Caucasian, fun, can get dressed up in a tux but also enjoys cooking out with a beer in one hand and grilling with the other. I am not obcessed with making that happen. If I find him great, but if not my life is pretty full with a great family and good friends so thats fine too.

  • Courtney

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ****************Look.. here's the deal.. if you are interested in me... read the profile.. if you don't bother to read my profile.. then don't bother to chat with me or respond... It makes it hard to date. I'm looking for that intelligent man that can handle a conversation without being an ass, who loves a challenge and has a backbone. ********************I'm a 39 year young female that prefers the finer things in life. I am educated and career minded- looking for friendship. I am successful in my profession.. and expect the same.. I just want to be able to carry on a stimulating conversation. I have degrees in business and computer information systems. I was involved in a long distance relationship that totally bit me... so I think you understand.. I am truly not looking for something serious - but what will be, will be.. My interests include all types of music, poetry (Anne Sexton and Maya Angelou are among my favorites), art, dancing, dinner, and even darts. I tend to be quite creative with arts and crafts. I paint (oil and water colors) as well as write poetry.Some things I feel need to be clarified. I love a great conversation. I am opinionated - and if you take the time to message me - I actually expect some type of content. Hi is a two letter word.. and leaves me drawing a blank on personality. I am personable. I believe in openness. I have two kids***and 20. If you are looking for long term and want kids - I am not it. I am independent but I'm looking for friendship - not to step off into a serious relationship. I am not looking for someone clingy - but a gentleman that can treat a lady right. Age isn't really important to me but maturity is. I have a wild side- but I'm not into casual sex. I love motorcycle riding. Outdoors are fine - depending on the weather and who I'm with. I know how to shoot (damn fine shot) and I can skin a deer or fish. It doesn't mean that is my entire idea of a great time. I'm looking for someone to go to the movies with, maybe have drinks with, or go to wineries, museums, dancing. These are the types of activities I am looking to enjoy with someone. I am tattooed - I don't have a problem with ink. I am disease and drug free aside from the occasional drink. I am looking for someone who is articulate - I enjoy witty conversation and someone who challenges the mind.Please UNDERSTAND.." I just want a great friendship between a gentleman and lady that they can go out and have a great time.. and it doesn't have to involve SEX.. it involves.. enjoyment of life. It doesn't mean sex is out- but it means that happens after sparks fly. I believe in letting nature take it's course. This doesn't mean I'm opposed to one, it means that you can't be in any type of relationship without friendship being first. ***************KEYWORD: STEVE JOBS as your title line******************* A winery would be a great first date- or perhaps a picnic. It doesn't need to be an expensive place, but I would love to be able to carry on a conversation- and about more than one topic.

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