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Frederica, 39
United States, Colorado, Walsenburg

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About Me

Please make sure to read my profile before you make contact. If you aren't interested in intelligent conversation please don't message me. I'm here to make friends first as the best relationships start out as friends. First and foremost: I'm a single mom and very devoted to my children, who are my world. My kids come first and always will. My children are my greatest joy and I love spending time with them. I don't allow them to meet people I don't know well, so don't be offended if I don't take you around them. My top priority is their safety and happiness. I trust very few people enough to let them watch my kids so that I may go out. Going out is not as important as my children's safety and well being. This does not mean I don't want to meet someone but I believe that the day my children came into this world my wants were no longer as important as their needs. I believe that honesty is the most important thing in the world. I am always honest, however the answer I give may not be what is expected and I can be rather blunt. I am not perfect nor do I expect it from others. I do however expect to be treated with respect. I treat others as I would like to be treated. I believe that personal happiness is my own responsibility and I am the one who controls whether I have a good day or bad. I don't need a man in my life to make me "complete" so if you want a female to dote on your every whim I'm not her. I have been single for the past four years and do not feel the need to be anything other than that. A relationship with a good guy would be nice but I'm not rushing into any relationship. I find that friendship is far more valuable to me than having a boyfriend. I'm a down home tough country girl who grew up on a farm and knows what it is to work hard. I'm country to the core and can take care of myself so I don't need your protection. I do however appreciate a man who stands up for a Lady and defends her rights. I will say that if I meet you and you invade my personal space by placing your hands on me without my permission you will likely end up being hurt. I do not tolerate those who are disrespectful of my person. I respect myself and expect you to respect me as well. I don't care if you have female friends as I have male friends. If we meet and "click" I will not give up my male friends nor would I expect you to give up your female friends. Jealousy has no place in ANY relationship, including but not limited to friendship. I get along better with males than females because I'm more interested in cars, tools, and dirt than I am the latest fashion or who is doing what. Besides most females are very "catty" which I'm not. I like to fish, can skin and dress a deer, have changed the oil in my vehicle and do lots of other things that might break a nail :) I clean up well and can look like the Lady I am when called for but I prefer jeans and a nice blouse to dresses and heels. I would rather go fishing or work on a vehicle than go to the mall. Money doesn't buy happiness it buys the necessities of life. Happiness is not gained by material things but by following the heart. I enjoy listening to a wide variety of music but hard rock, metal, some hip-hop(its fun to dance to) are what I listen to the most. I can go anywhere and enjoy myself or I can stay home and enjoy that as well. If you want to know anything about me ask. If I feel it is a personal question I will inform you of this. I will not lie nor do I have time for those who do. I'm looking for someone who is interested in what is between my ears not what is between my legs. It would be nice to meet someone that would like to converse intelligently. I'm searching for someone who has similar interests and morals. Family is very important to me. If they need me I am there for them whatever it takes. I am not the jealous type nor will I tolerate jealousy from others. I don't want to control anyone's life nor do I want someone to think they can control mine. Our lives are our own to lead come whatever may. I love anything that has to do with being outside. I'm an outdoorsy type girl who isn't afraid to get her hands dirty or of hard work. I love life and all the possibilities that it may have. I like adventures and love to laugh whether it's at myself or at a joke:-)If I haven't frightened you away with my honesty by all means message me. I am old fashioned and won't message you first or ask you if you would like to meet somewhere. I believe in the old way of doing things and a gentleman should ask the Lady out. I don't expect you to pay my way though. I am modern in that respect. I wish all who drop by the best of luck on finding who you seek. The right one is out there you just have to have patience.***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Rest in Peace Mom. January ***to January ***. I Love You and miss You. The first meeting is different than a first date to me. First meeting should be somewhere public and quiet for coffee or something like it. Having to sit through dinner or a movie with someone you aren't wanting to be around is no fair to either person involved. A short first meeting is better for both parties. If during the first meeting we decide to extend the visit then that's fine but I have no desire to spend time with someone who doesn't want to spend that time with me. I'm not into wasting anyone's time yours or mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Canadian Chinese Indian South American Dance Volleyball
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