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Lavenia, 36
United States, Colorado, Vail

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About Me

Hmmmm, where to start?Well, there is not one thing in specific I am looking for, I am open to just about anything. Trying to date is proving to be tough and finding the time to meet someone is even harder...hence giving the online thing a shot. I don't have any expections from this other than meeting some decent people and if I end up meeting someone that turns into something more, well I am not opposed to that either. That being said, I am a hopeless romantic and ultimately this is what I am looking for, this is what I want: I want different! Something that you cannot describe with simple words. Excitement, change, smiles...really big smiles! Lots of laughter. I want to be ecstatic when I get to see someone, and I want them to feel the same way about me. A simple phone call that you can feel someone is smiling on the other end, without them saying a word...yep, that's what I am after!So if your profile says "does not want children" or ";, then we probably won't be a good match. I have two beautiful children (a 9 year old son & Truthfully, I am just looking for a little bit of honesty and sincerity. I really hope that does not come across as B!tchy but more so just done with all the drama/games. If you are not looking for a relationship, please don't pretend to be. I am all about honesty and it goes a long long long way with me. My RANDOM views on relationships:Go out, be young, meet people, LOTS of people. Live with friends. Travel. Fall in love, get your heart broken, fall in love again...fall in lust...find your soul mate...DON'T SETTLE!!!And IF for some reason you find your TRUE SOUL MATE...remember to do the little things...a kiss in passing for no reason, a random hug, say "I love you" and REALLY mean it. Make out...with no intention for sex. Cuddle...spoon...hold hands. TALK! Really talk to each other.Hold out for this:"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived". ~ [] from the movie, Meet Joe Black ***First dates are ruh-tarded and uncomfortable. How about you tell me what we will be doing on our second date....HA!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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