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About Me

Hmmmm, where to start?Well, there is not one thing in specific I am looking for, I am open to just about anything. Trying to date is proving to be tough and finding the time to meet someone is even harder...hence giving the online thing a shot. I don't have any expections from this other than meeting some decent people and if I end up meeting someone that turns into something more, well I am not opposed to that either. That being said, I am a hopeless romantic and ultimately this is what I am looking for, this is what I want: I want different! Something that you cannot describe with simple words. Excitement, change, smiles...really big smiles! Lots of laughter. I want to be ecstatic when I get to see someone, and I want them to feel the same way about me. A simple phone call that you can feel someone is smiling on the other end, without them saying a word...yep, that's what I am after!So if your profile says "does not want children" or ";, then we probably won't be a good match. I have two beautiful children (a 9 year old son & Truthfully, I am just looking for a little bit of honesty and sincerity. I really hope that does not come across as B!tchy but more so just done with all the drama/games. If you are not looking for a relationship, please don't pretend to be. I am all about honesty and it goes a long long long way with me. My RANDOM views on relationships:Go out, be young, meet people, LOTS of people. Live with friends. Travel. Fall in love, get your heart broken, fall in love again...fall in lust...find your soul mate...DON'T SETTLE!!!And IF for some reason you find your TRUE SOUL MATE...remember to do the little things...a kiss in passing for no reason, a random hug, say "I love you" and REALLY mean it. Make out...with no intention for sex. Cuddle...spoon...hold hands. TALK! Really talk to each other.Hold out for this:"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived". ~ [] from the movie, Meet Joe Black ***First dates are ruh-tarded and uncomfortable. How about you tell me what we will be doing on our second date....HA!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kandace

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    When I love, I love very hard that means showing affection, spending quality time. I believe the simplest things can go a very long way. I look for someone who isn’t afraid to show affection.

  • Allana

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I hope this moment sees you well, Welcome! This is I…on a page. I will try to convey with words some of my essence. It cannot compare to coming face to face and feeling, yet it can make a meeting palpable. No smoke or mirrors here to attract you, I seek something real and deep and that is done as I am and not by misrepresentation. I hope you, dear reader, are of the same mind. Now drink in my words and allow them to color your mind. English is my second language, first cuss word (unbeknown to me) I learned was motherfu….I gleefully told my new found word to my stepfather. That didn’t go over well. Imagine me now at the age of 10 in my older brother’s bedroom where several of us have convened to tell jokes. My turn, oh yes, I think I have a good one; the mere image of it in my head has me snickering before I utter a single word. In the deepest voice I can muster, I say “A big fat man walking down the street” I immediately lose it and laugh so hard that I can no longer speak, everyone is looking at me and can’t help themselves from laughing. Repeatedly I say the phrase, each time laughing harder than before. For once, I got more laughs with the lamest joke EVER in the history of jokes, merely from my own reaction, than my brother. Not much has changed since I was ten; I still sometimes hear a certain phrase or picture in my head and bust out laughing uncontrollably. Laughing is surely one of life’s greatest pleasures. I have loved unconditionally, no matter how much it hurt and tore I loved regardless. This is not description of bitterness, but rather of my capability of loyalty and loving beyond measure. I believe in love. I have experienced betrayal of the worst kinds, I’ve endured and come out the other side with no plots of revenge and a heart free of hate. Some have told me I am too nice, but it is what I value most in myself. My character is dear to me in only the way I see clear not what anyone thinks it should be. . My eulogy will rival that of Gandhi’s…kidding. My outside probably doesn’t measure to what is ideally attractive in society’s eyes, but hell it’s just a vessel to hold my awesomeness in ;0) I have one last story to tell you reader before you go. After I had my first child and moved ten hours from everyone and everything I knew, something in me changed that I did not immediately recognize as something that would ultimately make my world small. The anxiety beast with panic attacks that turned into agoraphobia. What is this you wonder, my best explanation I can give you is when I am not on medication fear is ever present, of what I haven’t a clue. With the medication, I now only feel this way when I venture into public, so someone I trust must be with me, my fight or flight response is unpredictable and can kick in with no apparent cause. Struggling with this, after divorce, my only option was to live with my mom. Now perhaps you wonder what a relationship would be like with someone like me, and are worried at how I would need you. Well I think you just might need me too, it is human nature to need others in one way or another. Will I lose myself in you, well no, I will always remain who I am. Can we venture out? Yes please, let us visit beautiful places with lots of nature for me to photograph. Let’s find a dive bar with only a few patrons to sit and giggle. Let us visit a museum during a day that isn’t overpopulated. Let’s find a place on the beach, be serenaded into peace by the waves. How about camping, fishing, or laying on a blanket in a place where every star is visible. It is my hope that getting out enough will help me venture farther; I am a great person if you dare to look beyond my anxiety, for I am so much more than it. Whatever we can imagine

  • Edina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am looking for someone who enjoys concerts and shows, who enjoys going out to neat restaurants and bars. Wouldn't it be nice to meet someone who just makes you want to smile and laugh and be yourself.

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