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Tamsen, 37
United States, Colorado, Vail

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UPDATED ***Please no get mad but I am serious that I refuse to change my household. I am dog/cat owner. I want what is below but if you can't get along w/ my animals then it's not gonna wrk out no matter what. I am self sufficient & am trying to fix my house up physically for a while till it's how I want so it's in disarray rt now some. I would like ***& 5'10" or taller (I can make exceptions on age &height if it's the rt guy ;; give emo & physical support & believes in having bonds w/ some one before sex not because of sex & has a high sex drv. He also has to $$ to support himself. I need someone who wants to put me first. I am NOT asking for $$ support. I pay my own bills & own my own home. I just want someone who wants me & only me & has no issue excepting my household & my way of life how it is now. I am a widow w/ a teen & I will NOT put up w/ his X issues cuz myself & my daughter should & will always come first.I am a very honest person. I am a hard wrker & I enjoy my wrk. I have dexterity issues w/ my hands so that is why I type short hand. If u need me to not type this way pls let me know. I'm not dumb even tho my typing & past history w/ men say otherwise. ;) I am a care giver to my daughter & mom & I luv both w/ all my heart & my daughter is the reason y I will not have any more bio children. Rt now I am looking for someone who wants to care for me. I'm getting to the point in my life I need to start putting me first a little more & I need a good him to do that. I'm a mom & have been one to many since I was 10 & babysitting & now for over 27 yrs I've been helping w/ someone's child/children & I am sure your's is not an issue.I do refuse to go against my ways as a parent tho. if u have baby mama drama I just can't get involved. I have a very kind heart & soul but it has been trampled on & used so much in the past 3 yrs it will take awhile for me to trust others again. I'm not saying what u do is wrong. It's usually what ur X has done that's wronged u & or ur child/children & I can't deal w/ fems like that. I am a very high moral person & if u have an issue w/ that then don't bother w/ me.I have worked for social services I have wrked for DMV I have helped run many family business & have been involved in may different types of work. I was raised as self sufficient. I get told I live under a rock. U kno what I prob have been living under a rock but I like it. It's calm cool & very secure until someone tries to mess w/ changing it. I not current on music I don't care about politics but I do care about my wrk my fam & my customers & that is all that matters to me. I listen to NPR on the radio going in to work. I listen to my Goddess forbid CD's in my car on the way home or the radio. I like real music. I not much into pop. I go from Classical & Opera to heavy metal. I luv all times of music when I can find it. I was raised in music w/ many diff things. I had to learn how to shoot a fire arm by the age of 5. I had to learn how to survive out side. I camped as a child. I rode horses & motorcycles. I have been driving a motorized vehicle since I was 9. I know MTN country style life in a cabin. I know city life & I kno suburbs as well since that is where I live now. I am an unusual fem. I almost always agree w/ the guy except on drinking & putting me after the drink or not being important enough to get a text or a hi or I'm happy to see u hun type thing. I don't like skirts & dresses even less. I dress w/ my mood. I can do sport casual nice business or hard wear/ euro style clothes.I do not look my age & most think I don't act it either. I act how I am. I treat all equal even children for the most part esp teens. I am nothing close to skinny. I feel I'm considered a mom shape. I have curves. I'm a 36DDD on top. I wear a ***rt now in a pant & am trying to get down to a 10 but that has not happened in a long time. I have excessively small wrists& ankles that r to small for skinny jeans & I wear a size 10 woman's shoe. I do have kinda wide shoulders & I like my him to b as wide or wider than I am. When I am happy I get thinner when I'm not I get bigger & it has nothing w/ the way I eat. I have a few medical problems besides my weight but it should never effect my relationship w/ any man as long as you understand I can't drv but for so long & when I say I need space I'm dead ass serious about it. I do what I say. I'm not the typical fem who will utter bs to u. If I say I'M DONE DON'T THINK U CAN SWEET TALK ME TO A BETTER MOOD. I am upfront w/ my issues. I've been through much like many my age but mayb more since I have been in less relationships than most *** my age. My longest relationship was w/ my husband. We were together for 14 yrs married for 11 out of the 14 & I was unhappy for over 7 of those yrs. I stayed in the relationship to protect my daughter cuz I knew her dad was dying. It's emo torture dealing w/ something like that esp when in less than 11 years we lost 4 men on both sides of the fam inc. my husband. I have taken the responsibility of all my actions & I deal w/ what my daughter's dad did every day w/ my daughter. I know what the difference is between being in love & loving someone is. It's a huge one. I was not in love w/ her dad any more but because I did care for him & her both I did all I could to help. It took a huge mental toll on me. I thought I found someone after that would help take care of that mental toll & would make me feel whole. It made it worse & he is now out of my life as well. So now I am on a new search. I do not ask much I don't feel. I've even been told I don't ask for much *** all. I just want to be luved & be as important in ur life as I have always put him in my life. R u my him? If u don't get BBC then try looking up 2 shows that suit me well. "Are you being served" is one. The other is "As time goes by". Have a great day & I hope u liked the read.Fyi don't take wrong but I want a house hubby. Not to marry or to not wrk but a guy who is willing to do what he can to help me w/ my house my daughter & my animals. Not provide but to physically help. This is part of physically&emotionally supportive that I'm asking for. One I can trust to let stay *** my home after extensive dating & I can trust them. I not asking them to give up what they have but to include my home/fam as well in what they want. If you want to see more picts of me go here. I do not lie about what I look like nor my size. I am very photogenic tho. *** honest open & prob out to eat to talk & learn about each other either outside watching stars or n a QUIET restaurant. I like quaint intimate places where one can be comfortable & show their tru selves.

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    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

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    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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