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Gema, 40
United States, Colorado, Monument

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This seems quite odd and uncomfortable! Asking me to describe myself, what makes me unique?! ****** Before you read the rest of this; please answer the following questions: Are you married? Are you looking for a one night stand? Are you looking for a booty call? Are you looking for Ms. Right now? Are you prone to rush into something and then turn and run? Have you ever been told you are a deviant? If you answered yes to any of these questions, please quit reading now!!!! If you answered no to ALL of the questions then you are not a mean psychopath, please proceed...Well; we are all unique and have special qualities that exemplify who we are.Let's give this a shot and see what happens!My ultimate goal is to finish my Ph.D while I'm still young enough to enjoy it, while balancing life with living, meaning realizing that each day is only 24 hours and once it is gone it cannot be recaptured. Life should be about laughter, a lot of laughter, and new adventures that make for memories without regret! As humans we seek a witness to our life and want to be a witness in someone else's life. Chivalry shouldn't be saved for fairy tales, dancing barefoot in the kitchen while cooking dinner shouldn't be a myth and your best friend should be the person you look at every night before closing your eyes. I would prefer honesty from the beginning, if you know you're not always going to always be sweet and a gentleman, don't start off that way and then change! Don't let the heels and pearls fool you! I am just as comfortable in jeans and boots sitting around a campfire after a day on the lake as I am dressing up ... I'm a tomboy that cleans up well. I will dance to anything but prefer country music. I absolutely have to dance when I hear a good song, even if I just wiggle in my chair!!I am happiest when I am surrounded by, or doing things for, the ones I love and care about. Spontaneous BBQs on a sunny weekend, baking sweets and treats for the people at work, or cooking a fabulous dinner with a glass of wine as we laugh about what once seemed tragic earlier in the week, but is now comedic, these are the moments that matter! I cry at touching hallmark commercials but will scream at the TV over a bad call... A walking contradiction!If you have read all of this... Wow!!! So the Ambien didn't work for you either? You've invested so much time already... Go ahead and send a message- what's the worst that could happen?;That's my kind of night", yep.... Google it! That's the PERFECT date to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Avery from Monument | Woman | 38 years old | Pisces
    Avery

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First off I am a mother and I need someone who will be understanding of this. I am not looking for someone to be their father, but be more of male role model for them. I share ***custody with my ex, but with that said I wouldn’t even introduce my kids to someone unless it was leading to a serious committed relationship.Since this seems to be pretty important to guys I am definitely not a size 2, but I am healthy and I do exercise. I rarely eat fast food, but can enjoy a slice of pizza and a beer.I can be a little shy at first and can be awkward at times (especially this whole dating thing) , but once you get to know me I can’t shut up. Lol I most likely will not make the first moveI am pretty comfortable with who I am as a person for the most part. I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but enhance my life. I laugh a lot and sometimes it is at my own expense. I am such a klutz. I love life and I like positive people. I have been through a lot in life, but always look at the glass as half full. I am looking for a gentleman, the kind that will open doors for me, hold hands, give me your jacket if I am cold, the small romantic gestures go a long way. I myself am also very romantic.I am looking for someone who will push me to be a better person in a positive way. I just started to get back into shape so I am looking for someone to push me to keep it up or even join with me.I want to find someone who is going to help me face my fears and being there cheering me on when I accomplish that. Like next summer I am planning a sky diving jump(I am terrified of heights and flying) I want someone to hold my hand and kiss me and tell me we will survive this! :)I do like sports. Hockey is my favorite, but I do watch the Vikings, Twins, Gophers hockey and the Saints. I enjoy outdoor activities like fishing and yes guys I can bait my own hook and take the fish off. I am a catch and release fisherman. I am a true animal lover. I even cut up netting and pop bottle plastic things, because I don’t want to injury one. (I get teased for this all time). I am also girly. I like to put on make-up, dress up and go out. I can also enjoy a night in as well or a movie.I like to take pictures. I mainly do nature shots. I like finding new day trips throughout Mn to take pictures.My biggest recent accomplishment was graduating college.I am very strong willed and independent. I like to travel when I can. I would like to find someone I can have more adventures with. I have travelled throughout the Us and in Europe.So take a chance on me. I am not looking for FWB relationship, but something that could become serious eventually. Please if you’re not serious about that potential don’t contact me. Thank you!

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  • Alyssa from Monument | Woman | 39 years old | Aquarius
    Alyssa

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Seeking to teach college English and write books. Funny and charming. I love to laugh. Spoofs often. Not interested in anyone without healthy interests of their own or without a photo. I like to get out of town occasionally or go and catch a new flick. Also enjoy simple bbqs or a nice, long Sunday drive in the country. Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... Simple, different, fun

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  • Anabella from Monument | Woman | 38 years old | Pisces
    Anabella

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am looking for a long term relationship that maybe could lead to marriage if things work out well, someone I could spend the rest of my life with without getting hurt. Is there actually still men like that out there? Family is important to me. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family and hope to one day have a family of my own. I enjoy spending time going out to dinner, taking long walks, and cooking. A night out on the town is fun, and so is staying home sometimes. As long as the line of communication stays open and honest I am open to anything! I want to be with someone who is independent... but wants to share. Someone who doesn't mind being taken care of, but can take care of me in return! I am looking for a warm, gentle, understanding, caring man who would like to settle down and have a family of his own someday (the biological clock is ticking!)I want someone who is willing to stay home or go out! Someone who cares about family and friends! Someone who wants to grow old with the women he fell in love with! I am open to try anything! I would think that your first date would depend on what you and the other person enjoys doing. I think a nice dinner where you are able to talk, and a nice walk may be a good place to start.

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