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Arista
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am at a place in my life where I feel I could offer what I expect out of a relationship. I am finding that I am either pickier than I believed I was or there are less people out there now that I relate to. I bore easily in situations in which I don't feel inspired to grow and learn as a person. It's not a piece of cake to maintain my interest but i think it would come effortless to the right person. What do I offer? I am typically quite honest. I know when the truth hurts and when to hold my tongue but know that trust is key in any respectful relationship. I smile and laugh more than most. I am pretty low maintenance. Kids seem to love me and I think that comes from my playful spirit. I am open to new things. I have a lot of things I enjoy doing but I can usually have fun doing anything. Last but not least (though I am sure there are more) I work daily to grow as a person. Of course I am not perfect but I can admit when I am wrong and I do my best to get better each day.My ideal person would be one who considers himself above average intelligence. Someone who also enjoys reading. Someone who loves many types of music and believes life comes with a soundtrack. Not in a cheesy way but the way the music inspires memory and lights a thought in your heart, sometimes forcing you to think in new ways. He would consider his sense of humor to be that of wit and sarcasm. He is boldly confident but with an air of boyish charm. The kind of person who appreciates learning and analyzing things. He loves food and isn't a picky eater. Proper grammar is a definite bonus. As a past smoker, I understand if you smoke but you're going to have to sell me on why you're so awesome, I should overlook it. I also used to drink and now I don't. I give a big hurrah to those who drink but if it's something you do on a regular basis, especially to excess, it's a deal breaker for me. I don't expect anyone to change to meet my expectations. I know there are others out there whose ideas match my own. While I expect to differ on many things or ideas, it's important to me to find someone I enjoy spending time with doing little to nothing, with similar thoughts, ideas, hobbies and passions. I don't think that's asking too much. Expecting someone to change would be...I am quite comfortable spending time by myself but I would love to find someone who can maintain my interest. When I find someone I really enjoy, I like to see them as much as possible. I am not the woman to throw herself casually into anything. I think it's time for someone to sweep me off my feet. I am not going to ask myself out...Don't guys pursue women anymore? I believe pretty strongly that the guy should plan the date. I'm not sure if that's sheer old fashionedness or just a belief that a guy can put in some work to woo a girl. It may suck to plan a date you're afraid she won't like, but I promise not to complain since I put you up to the task. I also think that after we meet, the guy should probably pick her up as well. I really would be open to most things. Dinner, coffee, frisbee golf, a walk, a game, fishing, etc. I would rather be creative than cliche but it's really all about who you are as a person.
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Nona
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
Single mom interested in dating....just to remind you guys I'm 36 not 26, my morals are a lot different. I'm looking for friends not anything more. I'm not sure where relationship changed to sex after one date but I'm about making friends and going from there. I want to date a bit because I haven't in years. Just wanted to put that out there because I've already run into some of the issues above. I grew up in a military family and I like men who are clean cut.if she's amazing, she won't be easy. if she's easy, she won't be amazing. if she's worth it, you won't give up. if you give up, you're not worth it... Amaze me...I like a little creativity!
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Ines
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I am a single mom who puts her child first. I love to hang out with my family and friends, but also enjoy my quiet time to myself to read. I think laughter is the best medicine and if you can make me laugh then you have a good chance of getting somewhere with me. I will listen to most any kind of music. I enjoy playing pool. I love the beach and hope to live there some day. If you wanna know anything else just send a message. I do believe there are good people out there and that love really does exist. I think that is something we should decide together