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About Me

The ultimate objective here is to find someone to have a family with. Family can mean you already have children and all that may include. At this point I am still open to having children of my own whether that is biologically or adopting. I feel it is only fair to be straightforward about this as I have found in my age range some men are not interested in expanding their current family. If you are.....Please be willing to allow things to develope naturally and comfortably.I live in the city and prefer to date someone that does as well. I am open to someone in the Northshore area as I work up there. An hour commute is not conducive to having a relationship.I am professionally employed. However, I do work weekends and don't foresee that changing. I can take time off and have some flexability but just something for you to consider. For me, dating someone with a "normal" schedule works fine. This allows us both our own time.I enjoy a wide variety of activities. I'm not into working out so much as I love to stay active, usually outdoors. I golf, windsurf, bike, hike, etc. I enjoy the finer things...dinner, wine, theater, museums, etc. I can camp in a tent as easily as I can lounge at an exclusive resort. Being raised on a farm I am still a country girl at heart.I am typically attracted to the white collar type. I also find it a big turn on if you are business savy...its just my thing...what can I say? I am independant and self sufficient but I do appreciate a man that apable of being the head of the family type guy.Here is what I won't respond to....no picture in your profile, you live in a far away land, or anything that clearly indicates you havent read my profile and what I am looking for. Please be genuine. I find people love to *** actually meet on here. I am not really good with the lengthy messaging that goes along with online dating. I tend to loose interest with continual messaging with a phantom. I know the tendancy is to get to know someone before you meet. However, I feel you can't get to know someone UNTIL you meet. I prefer to just meet. Coffee a drink...something casual. We can always extend the date or go outagain right? Lets be honest...we will know within about 10 minutes if there is chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aliya

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    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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  • Nila

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm not one to dive head-first into anything...especially a relationship. It takes time to get to know a person.I'm a very open-minded, conservate (how exactly do those two work together, you may ask!), easy-going person. There is nothing sexier than a great sense of humor and a sincere, contagious smile. I believe strongly in responsibility and dependability, but I also like to kick back, not stress about life, and just enjoy myself. I don't take myself too seriously...I think I'd probably really hate myself if I wasn't able to laugh at myself so often! My friends know that once you have earned my loyalty, you have it for life. I believe that some people are just worth the effort to have in your life. Aquaintances are a dime a dozen, but true friends are hard to come by.I'm certainly not a health-nut, but I do think health is important, and am not interested in smokers, heavy drinkers, or anyone who doesn't take care of themselves at least enough to maintain a healthy weight. On the other hand, I'm not a freak about my weight, either...I LOVE to eat, and I'm addicted to sweets...but I try to be good about balancing things out. I don't spend hours in the gym, but I don't spend hours on the couch, either. I prefer to get my exercise by being active...not by "exercising". (Although I am trying to incorporate a little more actual exercise into my schedule.)Photos are current. I assure you, I still look like my photos! No surprises here! I know how scary it is to meet someone who looks NOTHING like their photo!I can get along with most anyone, but I find it much more difficult to find that "spark"--the connection that you just can't explain. As for my "type"...professional, responsible, funny, compassionate, generous of spirit...and, of course, tall, dark and handsome doesn't hurt!I guess I have a hard time trying to decribe myself...I can be a study in contrasts at times. I'm not high-maintenance...but I'm pretty girly. I'm addicted to dresses, but I love to throw on some grubby clothes and go fishing (yes, I'll bait my own hook and clean the fish myself!). I am fiercely independent, but hate to be alone. I love travel and adventure, but I need my home base for my center and security.I love to travel and experience new cultures. There is so much in this world to see outside your own little bubble.I'm a pretty adventurous eater when it comes to ethnic food. My biggest caveat is that I HATE peppers...with a passion. I like spicy food...but I can't eat peppers. I'm willing to try most anything as long as it doesn't have peppers! They hate me back...I think I may actually be allergic.Money can't buy you love. I'm not impressed by guys who try to win you over with money. I have my own money...I work very hard for it, and spend it responsibly. My rule: if you can't afford to pay cash for it...don't buy it! In that regard, I'm a thrifty shopper. I LOVE clothes/shoes/dresses, but I don't need a designer label to look/feel sexy. I'd rather have a $20 purse with $***in it than an empty $***purse. I'm much more impressed by a guy who wants to spend TIME with me. On the other hand...I've been burned in the past in money issues(I'm not looking to support someone else), so you'd better at least make as much as I do! (not hard to do if you are a professional with a college degree.)Companionship is the true goal of all of us...Someone you are comfortable with, and enjoy spending time with, whether it's an elegant night out on the town, or a lazy Sunday afternoon doing laundry in your pajamas. Someone with whom you don't feel self-conscious about awkward silences, bed-head, no make-up... When we all get past the "posturing" of dating, and are just comfortable being ourselves. Quote:I, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. --Anais Nin I guess I have babbled nonsensically about myself long enough. If you read this whole thing, there must have been something you liked...send me a message! ***** NOT looking for random hook-ups or cyber-sex. *********** No smokers, please! *****A casual meeting at first...coffee...a drink...keeping the window open to letting the evening take us where it may if we decide we enjoy each other's company. Movies are a bad idea for a first meeting...and probably the first couple of dates. Sitting silently in the dark doesn't help you get to know someone!My schedule is challenging, to say the least. I work mostly evenings/nights, and alot of weekends. If you're interested, please try to be understanding, it is the nature of the healthcare field.

  • Dagmar

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    i am an honest person looking for the same in return. I work hard for what i have and want someone who does the same i like all kinds of music and i am and outgoing person.life is to short so i think you need to live each day at its fullest.

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