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Velma, 39

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Hi..hope all is well. Let's start by saying I am giving this sight one last chance to bring me to my soul-mate..My best friend!! I haven't had the greatest luck so far but I'm hoping a change;). I am a single mom of a 19 year old son who is away at G.V.S.U. until the spring. I have raised him on my own since he was 23 months old and am very prod of the outcome. I couldn't have asked for anything different. I am currently on disability and will explain more later. I do however pay my bills and am not on here looking for a sugar daddy nor someone to take care of me in that kind of way. I have always been independent and am VERY grateful for that. I also am not here to be a date to a party, a once a week P.O.A., someone to talk about your ex with, a guinea pig after a break-up, etc! I think you get the picture;) I do my best to keep a drama free life and environment. Of course as in any ones life..sh*thappens at times beyond our control but trust me I'm not a drama queen and am not into creating it nor looking for it. I am looking for something serious with someone SERIOUS about finding the same. Honestly it seems I always meet men that have Very limited time and live 45 minutes or farther away. I do have my own house and a life of my own. I am hoping to one day share that life with someone and he with me. I'm not looking to spend every minute of every day with someone in person/texting/phone. I am however looking for something more then an hour a week. Lol..I am a very fun, loving, HONEST, warm-hearted, caring, independent woman that has many interests. I Love summer, palm trees, sun, water, boating, bar-b-q's, comedy clubs, shopping, gardening, animals, bird watching, star gazing, occasional casino, travel, the elderly, conversation, FOOD (no seafood but not picky and fav is Thai), movies (favs are comedy and love stories) and other interest as well. Appearance..hhmmn used to be a true blond..now I get highlights and low-lights....I am 39 years old ya know!! Lol..I weigh usually between ***lbs at any given time and am 5'***" tall. I consider myself average but some would argue. I do smoke for the time being but am praying to finally be able to kick the horrible habit before the year ends:). What I'm seeking in a man is pretty simple but yet so hard to find. Honest, caring, kind, D& Those are some requirements and the added bonus for me would be tall (taller then me), dark and handsome! Lol..just a bonus but open to all;~) not looking for Ken as I am Not Barbie..I'm me:). Anyhow I had to fill this part out to register and I feel I'm rambling on because I'm sleepy. I will re-do or add more at another time. P.s. I do have 1 dog and 2 cats. If you are allergic or don't do well with animals or people for that matter..we probably wouldn't do well so please don't waster either of our time. Life is SHORT and I just want to enjoy what it has to offer!! Thanks for stopping by and I wish you all the best in your quest to find what you desire;).Update..I know I said I would re-write this very soon. Its going to have to be a while longer. Found out one of my cats had kidney failure and had to put him down today. I love my animals as much as a kid and I'm pretty heartbroken right now. As soon as head clears I will re-do..thanks!! Depends on time of day and time of year. I would say maybe Cider Mill, lunch/dinner, drink, coffee or whatever we decide after speaking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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