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Kaelea, 39

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About Me

Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jenise

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I believe in love and tend to be a romantic which is one of the reasons I am giving this another try. I am hoping to finally end my search for love . I believe that things in life happen for a reason. This took me a while to figure out but I finally got it. I have experienced a lot in my life and believe it has made me the person I am today. I haven't been in a relationship in a little bit now, and miss it. I love being in love, who doesn't? I want to have that can't stop thinking about you feeling again. I am looking for a man to share my life with. Someone who will compliment me and grow with me in life and love. I am looking for someone who will accept me for who I am. I am very loyal and honest. I expect the same in a partner. Somtimes people don't like how honest I am because at times the truth hurts. I am a single mom of 2 wonderful boys. I am a teacher for the city and love my job on most days. I love to cook, travel, watch movies, listen to music, watch documentries about health, social issues and war. I have a thing for horror movies and underground hip hop and old school hip hop. I also love tattoos and have several. I am very independent and can at times be head strong, in the sense that I speak up for things I believe in. I joke around and love to make others laugh, despite the fact that at times I am corny. When I was younger I was a liberal but have found as I have gotten older to have many conservative viewpoints. I love our country and believe everyone who lives here should feel the same. I try to be the best person I can be each and everyday. I take care of myself both in my body and my mind and expect the same in a partner. I try to be healthy but am not a health fanatic. I like to eat and drink and be merry and have fun. I love to spend time with family and having days to just do nothing. I also like visiting museums, concerts, parks etc. If you are interested in learning more I look forward to hearing from you if not then good luck on your search. Dinner or drinks. Someplace where we can sit and talk and see if there is enough chemistry to have a second date.

  • Lore

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Looking for someone down to earth, someone who enjoys the simple things in life. Looking for a true friendship, mixed with romance. Fun nights out are great, but my real everyday life looks more like: us cooking dinner together, leaving the dirty dishes, going for a walk on the trail, then I wash..you dry :) snuggle on the sofa for a bit. .read a book..watch tv.. looking for something comfortable, but at the same time those feelings have to be there, I want to get that sh*teaten grin when I see you walk through the door, I want to feel the heat and power and excitement when we kiss...I pride myself in being a really good person, I try to help those around me, pitch in where ever possible, always putting myself in others shoes, and being the most non judgmental person I can be and I'd really like to date someone that has the same values. let's meet for coffee, or a drink, or what ever we decide :)

  • Herma

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love this time of weather....hot chocolate..haunted houses...festivals...football. .cook outs..wine..Im a super nice down to earth girl who is looking for a tall funny man that knows what he wants. Im out of high school so leave the games in high school. I prefer a man that is stable, lives on his own, non smoker...Will not respond to a person without pictures....Must be drug free...no alcohol addictions....average dentalThanks for reading Something low key casual , phone conversation first is always nice. I love a Romantic think outside of the box kind of guy.

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