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Becki, 38

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About Me

About me: well, I am pretty easy going person, err on the positive side of things, am always pretty upbeat and optimistic,, I tend to seek out the best qualities in people, am very attracted to fun personalities and good sense of humor, look at the glass as half full, I am very spontaneous and enjoy others that can be too, I strongly feel that everything we do in life is a choice, so if you are unhappy then you can change this for yourself. Honesty and good communication are very important as they are to most. I prefer to have deeper connections/ friendships than have a ton of acquaintances. I am very active, enjoy anything recreational and if its something I haven’t tried then I’m always down to learn new things. You won’t find me chilling on the couch much unless I have someone to chill with. :) I have traveled abroad and would love to travel more in life. I am mom of two fabulous kids that I share with their dad equally. That being said, I have the time to spend and get to know someone. Dating has been fun but my ultimate goal/desire would be to find the right person to build with. I am not really interested in meeting someone fresh out of a divorce or recently separated, I am just going to be flat honest there. I have spent the last 2.5 years enjoying my singlehood and independence, and I would only want to give that up for THE right person, who is in the right place in life. I realize the time it takes to get to know someone “really” so I am in no means of a rush here. coffee, a hike, a beer, it all depends on the connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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