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About Me

I am very sketchy about posting my personal information over the Internet, so I'm not going to disclose too much...I am divorced, and recently ended a 4-year engagement, so I never thought that I'd be on one of these websites- I believe that honesty and trust are the foundations of any good relationship. Relationships are built, not found, so I'm looking to build a relationship with someone who has a solid foundation to start from. I am not trying to "fix" or "solve" anyone's problems, so if you have any financial, criminal, legal, or ex-relationship drama, please do not waste my time. I will not be a re-bound or a booty call. I am not a racist, but I am only attracted to white(Caucasian) men, so if you are any other ethnicity, I will not date you-sorry. I only respond to profiles with photos, so if you do not share photos, I will not reply-sorry, but time is valuable to all of us, so if you are seriously looking, like I am, you'll understand where I'm coming from. I am 38 years old, and have a teenage son, and I want to meet a man that would be a good role model for him, as well. I do not drink, smoke, or use any drugs. I will not date a drug addict! I have tattoos and piercings-very tasteful ones. I had a hysterectomy last year, so I can no longer have children, naturally, but I love kids and would welcome more. I am a business woman, I bust my butt to provide for my family, so I am very busy. I own a nail salon, and work 2 jobs! I am a very social person, but I have OCD, so I'm very picky about the company I keep. I'm obsessed with cleanliness and organization. I'm an absolute neat freak! I have tons of pet peeves, which is a blessing, as well as a curse. I'd love to tell more, but I'd just be rambling.... So, if you like what you've read so far, and if you are interested, please feel free to leave me a message. I try to respond to all messages (that include profiles with photos), so if I don't respond right away, please be patient.... Somewhere public, of course.... These days you can't be too cautious when meeting strangers. I'm not the "bar scene" kind of girl, but I have no problem hanging out in places that serve alcohol. I love to " people watch", so any place where there are people having fun, and being responsible-is cool with me. I'm open for suggestions;~}

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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