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Tottie, 40

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About Me

Ok I had to add this to my profile now that I've been on here for a bit...Please read the entire profile below.I don't want to hear from any guys that are looking to have this sexual rendezvous that is not what I'm seeking. Don't leave me provocative messages because I wont respond. Ladies although I love you all I'm not interested.Ok so that being said enjoy! I am new to this online dating thing.I will just cut right to the chase. I am a single mom, my children are my life. I am not looking for a father for them, but a lover and good man for me. I am all set with game playing, liars and cheaters. I am not a gold digger or materialistic, I work for everything I have. I have wasted so much of my valuable time on relationships that have ended in disaster. I am attractive and smart and have been told I'm funny..I guess you will have to be the judge of that. I do not go to clubs or party on the weekends. out grew that years ago. I'm not looking for someone to have sex with. I'm looking for someone to have sex with and wake up to every morning.If you like what you read you know what to do.... My idea of a first date is simple.... Well let me say this, I like to meet someone first for a brief amount of time just to make sure that there is an attraction, that way your not stuck some place with someone you just aren't feeling. If that goes well then any first date is fine with me. I am easy to please.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Belia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I’m looking for a relationship, but I’m not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I’ve been married before, so I’m pretty sure it won’t kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I’m totally OK with that. You had to leave her in order to find me…Right?Rock-star lifestyle would be fun, but I’m not looking to live that life and a guy that is looking for that is not for me.I work hard, pay my bills, enjoy the company of my friends. My sweet and sour personality is the reason behind my large gang of friends! You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious, you will see my smile far more often than my frown, you will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events.I want to know that you’re going to let me in and that you’re actually looking for someone to enhance your life in some way.What I want is for you to be open, kind and fun…that’s pretty much it, but let me be more succinct….I want to know you’re:*Sane, stable, no ADD issues accompanied by use of Adderall= nervous, easily angered or annoyed, false sense of well-being, nervous, chronic trouble sleeping…. :( not cool*Presentable- would love to see some recent photos, where you look like you put some effort in to your appearance*Available- no recent breakups or divorces…nuff said*Mature/Responsible- employed, living on your own (no roommates please, I like to run around n***d…suck it), you’re accountable for your decisions, and not afraid of your feelings*Enjoyable- be fun to hang out with, good conversationalist, no need for stand up comedy act.Would love to meet a mature, caring man who isn’t intimidated by a strong, intelligent, independent woman, somebody who I can love, somebody who I can trust. Just be yourself, everything else will fall into place.

  • Anona

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm an intelligent, beautiful, curvy Latina who believes in being positive at all times. I'm definitely a goofball, sometimes I'm shy but it depends on the situation. My friends think I'm hilarious. I'm not into the club scene, never was, though I do enjoy going out for drinks with the girls. I love movies, reading, music, and karaoke. I've been at my job for many years, I work at a doctors' office as an insurance specialist and I'm great at what I do. I am a family girl, I come from a large family and I have one child, an awesome kid. I am working on writing a children's' book which I hope will become a best-selling seriesI read almost anything but I love historical fiction Zombies are my favorite when it comes to movies, but I also love a good comedy I still love Buffy the Vampire Slayer, the series, and thanks to Netflix I can watch it over and over I adore Mexican food I like different genres of music as long as it sounds good, but I love the Jezabels, Pitbull, The Cranberries, Bon Jovi, Ronnie Spector, and PinkI'm looking for something I can't seem to find. I'm not looking for a perfect guy, I'm not perfect myself...but I want something different from what I'm used to. I want that guy who can make me say 'WOW'. The man who is strong both physically and emotionally, the man who can treat me with respect and be my best friend. I don't want a fling, I don't want a hookup...I want the real deal.I've been getting ridiculously rude men sending me stupid *** I don't respond. GROW UP! It means I'm not interested, just MOVE ON TO THE NEXT, that simple! We are adults here, there is no need for stupidity...if I bruised your ego, that's your problem, find someone else to inflate it again. I have high standards, I'm not settling or speaking to just anyone who talks to me... I'll thank u if u compliment me but that's all. To be clear, I'm NOT looking for men with an inferiority complex or still living with the 'ghetto' mentality, or sore losers, so guys like this, please do not contact me, especially if you're going to be rude when I don't respond.

  • Earlene

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    To be honest it doesn't really matter what we have or don't have in common because in my experiences opposites attract. I want someone who can make me laugh, someone who is kind, considerate, honest, faithful, crazy, and has to have a touch of bad boy in him. As for me I have a good career, teenage daughter, and my own place. My likes would be kayaking, going to the beach, pop/ hip hop music "mostly" but a little bit of everything. I like spending the weekends out and the weekdays in. My favorite foods are Mexican and sushi. I love tattoos! I have them and want more! I love motorcycles and want to own one of my own one day. My goals are to paint a mural, publish a book, and learn to play piano. I am currently working on all of the above :) OH and I'm a die hard UFC fan, gotta love it or at least be willing to learn to! Treasure hunting sounds interesting...do you have a metal detector??

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