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Adilene, 38

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About Me

Who am I in a soundbite? And if that means something to you then there's your *** me in 15 words or less. And if it doesn't? Then I'll tell you that I'm comfortable with other people's emotions but guarded with my own. I'll make a fool of myself publicly but singing in front of people gives me palpitations. I'm psychic, but only when I have time for that sort of nonsense. I'm an extravagant, starry-eyed dreamer who knows when to cut her losses. I'm a poet who prefers to show her affection and love through deeds and touch. I'm a bubbly philosopher who can't help but laugh at her own dark moods.I smell like lilacs in a muddy garden. I'm submissive in bed, but submissive like smoke. You can shape me only if you breathe me in and breathe me back out again. Or if you use a fan. Or hoses. You know, to put me in a balloon. You can also use me to cure your meat.See? There's why I failed as a poet. I can never take my metaphors seriously. And what else do you really need to know, that pretty much says it all.More? Ok. I'm polyamorous and am absolutely not looking for an exclusive relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm just looking for sex. It means that I don't believe in "The One"; I believe that love is infinite and that the heart is capable of expanding exponentially. It's time that refuses to expand, and time that determines how many people you can have in your life. I'm a busy person, but intrigue me, make me think, make me laugh, turn me on and I'll make time for you. I enjoy embroidery, spinning (tales or fiber, not bicycles) working with herbs and spices, cooking, baking, reading, writing. I just took up the ukulele and I'm singing in public these days. I'm into sci-fi, fantasy, steampunk, alternate realities. I've got a degree in anthropology and another in creative writing and I'm ready to start a third in divinity. I'm a poet and an educator and a catalyst.I'm friendly. Mostly. And yes, I bite...Oh, and I put "octopus" up there because I've got fingers in so many projects. And because octopi are among my favorite of earth creatures. Is it a date, or is it just coffee? A first date is going to be something casual and commitment free. Coffee or a drink somewhere. Some place we can take each other's temperature and make sure that the other actually reflects the profile that intrigued us. It's the second date that's going to mean more to me. And that I can't give a standard response to. Because the second date depends entirely on our joint interests. It'll be something that we can talk through, though, because what's the point if we're not talking, and, hopefully, laughing?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    First off, I really hate talking about my self .I have a lot on my plate, I have two job, I own my own business, I work as a photographer, and all of these things keep me very busy. ;) I have been out of the "dating scene" for some time and even with my lack of time I am still committed to finding someone special to spend time with. I'm really a private and shy person until you get to know me and can't think of anything else to say. If you have any questions just ask. dinner and drinks followed but a nice romantic walk

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I am a woman with three kids whom are my life. I love going out having fun and spending time with people. I enjoy all types of music and love to watched movies almost as much as I love to curl up with a good book. I love the outdoors and try to spend as much rime as possible doing new and exciting things. I love art and history and spending quality time with family. I am the type of person whom can do for herself and. acomplish just about anything I put effort into. Im looking for someone toget to know and spend time with, to truly care about and be a companion. I would enjoy meeting for coffee or going to dinner and having intriguing conversation getting to know one another, if the conversation flows and we get along well then lets go see a movie and see if we are both still comfortable with each other in silence as well. If the silence is comfortable and things are going well, lets have a drink or two and spend more time getting to know one another. Building a good friendship is the start of any good relationship. If the spark is there then fuel the fire.

  • Ilse

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I of course want to be able to give you guys some sort of insight of who the person I am, yet I am so much more than anything I write here. But, I'm hoping with this start you might feel interested to learn more about me and hear about you. First off I do not have a "type" of person per say. I get we all have our flaws and I like the honesty of owning them *** hiding behind them. Being yourself is the most important trait I look for. I appreciate your weird quirks and own personal life experience and hope we can mesh together. I like a person who has their own life. But, then we have ours too. I'm the total definition of an introvert..I tend to be sarcastic, in a total light hearted way. If you take me literally you may find me confusing. I'm not. :)I live alone, I smoke, I drink seldom but don't care if you do. I'm ***friendly . And again you can smoke all you want, no judgement here. I'm a vegetarian and animal rights advocate, I need my space sometimes. I love hole in the wall local coffee shops with bands. I like porn and strip clubs. I share my cigarettes and change with the homeless. I'm a clean freak, but accept my dogs hair on my pillows. I play the piano pretty damn well. I love hip hop. I have two college degrees and still not convinced I know what I want to do. I love hiking and being around water. Swimming, long boarding, waterfalls, I love it all. I am an avid reader and writer. I do a lot of "behind the scenes" But kinda like being a homebody. I'm not one of those TV is a waste of time people. There is to much terrible TV to miss. I am honest and speak my mind no matter what. I can't do passive aggressive. My family and close friends are super important to me. I love to paint, even if it does still resemble my work in first grade. In my life I hope to be surrounded by positive energy, laughter, love and lots of four legged buddies. Laughter a must.

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