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Adilene, 38

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About Me

Who am I in a soundbite? And if that means something to you then there's your *** me in 15 words or less. And if it doesn't? Then I'll tell you that I'm comfortable with other people's emotions but guarded with my own. I'll make a fool of myself publicly but singing in front of people gives me palpitations. I'm psychic, but only when I have time for that sort of nonsense. I'm an extravagant, starry-eyed dreamer who knows when to cut her losses. I'm a poet who prefers to show her affection and love through deeds and touch. I'm a bubbly philosopher who can't help but laugh at her own dark moods.I smell like lilacs in a muddy garden. I'm submissive in bed, but submissive like smoke. You can shape me only if you breathe me in and breathe me back out again. Or if you use a fan. Or hoses. You know, to put me in a balloon. You can also use me to cure your meat.See? There's why I failed as a poet. I can never take my metaphors seriously. And what else do you really need to know, that pretty much says it all.More? Ok. I'm polyamorous and am absolutely not looking for an exclusive relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm just looking for sex. It means that I don't believe in "The One"; I believe that love is infinite and that the heart is capable of expanding exponentially. It's time that refuses to expand, and time that determines how many people you can have in your life. I'm a busy person, but intrigue me, make me think, make me laugh, turn me on and I'll make time for you. I enjoy embroidery, spinning (tales or fiber, not bicycles) working with herbs and spices, cooking, baking, reading, writing. I just took up the ukulele and I'm singing in public these days. I'm into sci-fi, fantasy, steampunk, alternate realities. I've got a degree in anthropology and another in creative writing and I'm ready to start a third in divinity. I'm a poet and an educator and a catalyst.I'm friendly. Mostly. And yes, I bite...Oh, and I put "octopus" up there because I've got fingers in so many projects. And because octopi are among my favorite of earth creatures. Is it a date, or is it just coffee? A first date is going to be something casual and commitment free. Coffee or a drink somewhere. Some place we can take each other's temperature and make sure that the other actually reflects the profile that intrigued us. It's the second date that's going to mean more to me. And that I can't give a standard response to. Because the second date depends entirely on our joint interests. It'll be something that we can talk through, though, because what's the point if we're not talking, and, hopefully, laughing?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lindsay

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    I'm only into women..Not interested in couples...I'm very easy going, love life and like to have a good time. I joke a lot...have a great sense of humor. Life is too short to be anything but happy. I'm a very honest person, trustworthy, funny, and much more, but guess you'd have to get to know me to know the real me :) I tell it how it is....the truth and sometimes it hurts, but much better then being a liar. I don't believe in lying, cheating, stealing, or hurting others. If only there was more people in this world who felt the same. It's hard to meet an honest person who can be trusted these days. I love all kinds of music. I enjoy the simple things in life. Love the beach, bowling, fishing, canoeing, anything outdoors. Movies...more so chilling at home watching a movie then going out to a movie. I prefer something real to this online stuff. If you wanna know more just ask.

  • Brianne

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I'm a compassionate (and passionate) relatively normal woman. Brains are essential for me...someone that I can have stimulating conversations with, whether it be feminist philosophy, world events or...um...I don't know...how about yoyos. (Yes I tend to write long, run-on sentences, so bear with me here). I appreciate a woman who sees spending the day under a tree, napping. ..reading...laughing and just observing as a fine way to share one's time. someone who can appreciate that I often look up, at the sky, at the birds, trees...and who can alert me to a pothole or potential 'trip and fall danger' approaching.I try to keep things simple and transparent, and gleen out the positive in most all situations. Really looking to meet some folks and enjoy learning and sharing a space with them. Should this all sound appealing...then let's give it a go, eh? Love first dates! ...I'm completely open to whatever we do...I would prefer something low key and quiet.

  • Wynona

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    If I were a movie, I'd be a good though extremely dark comedy.;"I'm frequently entertaining, too smart for my own good, have numerous intriguing talents and a broad base of knowledge about all sorts of random and potentially interesting topics... But I also suffer from depression (the unipolar kind) and have anxiety problems. I'm an insatiable hornball and one of the most sexually versatile people you'll ever meet, but I also care deeply about anyone I allow into my life, whether as a friend or a lover. I'm the girl who will see her friends through a bad breakup or a family tragedy... But I'll frequently pass on parties because I'm scared I'll end up bringing people down.I speak three languages (two fluently, one barely well enough to get around), play four *** drums are my best, but I'm passably okay on the keyboard, guitar and bass guitar), am an increasingly capable seamstress, a feminist, a strong atheist (aka "gnostic atheist"), an existentialist, an INFP, an amazing cook (especially within the realms of Indian and Mexican food), a grammar Nazi and a dominant leaning switch. I am very very sex positive, queer positive, kink positive, poly friendly, body positive and pro-choice on pretty much any issue to which the term "pro choice" could reasonably be applied to.I try to stay out of politics, but when push comes to shove I'm extremely liberal on most social issues and moderate on most financial ones.I will dislike you immediately if you can't figure out the difference between "you're" and "your" or the difference between "there," "they're" and "their"... And I'll like you immediately if you demonstrate a genuine interest in Sartre, Camus, Freud or Jung. Or if you're a complete nerd about chemistry, physics or math. Or if you're a very capable musician, regardless of *** style.In the last few years I've become very emotionally guarded, but I'm starting to realize that it's made my life very boring. I'm hoping to meet someone (or multiple someones) who will amaze me enough to make me open up, despite how scary I find the prospect of doing so again. On a first date, if it's completely up to me, I prefer to just spend some time talking and getting to know each other somewhere quiet. This can mean a lovely picnic in the park if it's nice out, or it can meet a quiet coffee shop or restaurant... heck, even a fast food place or a library would work for me for this initial conversation. Then, if we feel comfortable enough around each other, I'm usually cool to go do something more interesting - like dancing or a movie.

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