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Zella, 40

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About Me

I am a cute, energetic, passionate 40 year old queer woman. I am seeking to meet some new friends, possibly a lover. I am a free thinker, very open minded, non-judgmental, and laid back. I am political, and a passionate activist. I believe a better world is possible, and work towards that goal in my life. "Be the change you wish to see in the world" I have done a lot of work on my self, have worked through my hurt and challenging places, and am proud of the woman I am today. I am not looking for perfection in a partner, I am a work in progress and continuing to grow and evolve along the way. Hoping to meet someone who is also on the journey of personal growth and progress and who likes the human that they are in the world. I know who I am, am confident with myself, and although I can be shy at first, I am generally outgoing and bubbly. I am a femme identified woman, and love the butch-femme dichotomy. I am interested in meeting conscious awake inspired people who might want to share a hike, a conversation, a cup of tea, or an adventure. I am creative, fun, smart, passionate, open, silly and playful. I love gardening, cooking, reading, hiking, bike rides, camping, dancing, and good conversations. I am honest, loving, a good communicator, and a great person. I look forward to talking with you soon. A hike in the redwoods...A delicious cup of tea (or coffee) and a great conversation...An Adventure of unknown destination...Love Adventures!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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