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Shirl, 38

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About Me

If i add you as a favorite, its because I'm interested.I'm very open and honest. If I like you, you will know. If I don't, you will know. I like to stay active and really anything can be fun with the right people. I listen to all types of music including country. I also love to go country dancing. Im witty and sarcastic I love to play and tease. I also have tattoos, if that is an issue keep moving.I don't have a specific type and I'm very personality driven. I don't date other ethnicities. Please don't take it personal. I don't need a man to "rescue" me financially or any other way. I'm independent and confident. My friends say I'm super responsible but I still know how to have fun. They call me when they need advice (or someone with a truck lol). I'm not looking for a hookup so move on if that's all you're about. No really, that doesn't mean try harder.I have two kids. My daughter is 18 and I have her full time. My son is 9 and I share custody with his dad. Well a first MEETING should be short, like meet for drinks to see if there is a connection. However if a connection is there, can definitely last longer.An actual DATE, should be longer with dinner or a mutual interest we have in common to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Glinda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Well, lets see...I'm a single mother of 2 beautiful girls who is looking for someone to share my life with. I would like someone with my same interests, and don't bother lying because it all comes out eventually. I live on a lake, so I spend my summer days hanging out at the beach swimming and boating. Fall is my favorite time of year, but don't care for winter much. I love to go out dancing to live bands, but that's the only time I enjoy the bars, since I'm not a drinker. I can have fun doing just about anything, but love to cuddle up in front of a fire on a cold night and watch a good movie. I love animals and have a dog and some cats, so anyone I date has to like animals. I love to play cards. I know how to play just about all card games, and would want someone who likes to do that as well, or at least be willing to learn (it's a good way to pass the time if there's nothing else going on :)) I'm very much a country girl and don't ever want to live in the city. I enjoy being outdoors in the summer and walking through the woods in the fall. I love music, and mainly listen to classic rock and the 80's, but like just about all types except rap. Country is tolerable but not on my radio settings. I own my own cleaning business and absolutely love my job. I can set my own schedule which is great for the kids. I don't really have an idea of what the "perfect" first date would be like. I enjoy doing just about everything!!

  • Lynn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am checking out what's out there....;) it appears that there are a lot good catches, and hopefully I am not reading too much into what is said. It gives me hope to believe that there are good guys out there.....and hopefully I can meet one, and see where it goes. I am 39, single and looking for something serious. I would like to start slow, but hopefully connect with a mature, respectful, funny, honest, intelligent, loyal man. Is that too much to ask for??? I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to spend quality time with, and start a new life together.I moved to NC over five years ago from CA, and have made some really good friends, finally, however, they are all married. I am tired of being the third, or five wheel. I am finally at a place in my life, that I feel confident that there is someone out there for me. I am ready to take the next step, and put myself out there, and take a chance. Internet dating seems the easiest way these days, to connect, with singles.I work full time Monday through Friday. I work out at the gym a lot, and am a work in progress. I also work out with a personal trainer at least 2 days a week. I am dedicated to getting in better shape, and having fun learning new active ways to get there. I enjoy playing baseball/softball, basketball, as well as watching on tv and live. I enjoy all kinds of music, and am starting to even like a little country. lol. I am kindhearted, smart, funny, loyal, honest, and respectful. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I was taught, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. I am a positive person, and want to be surrounded by positive people and attitudes.If you are at all interested, and have more questions, let me know...I look forward to hearing from you. If this has not intriqued you, I wish you all the best, hope you find what you are looking for! something casual, and see if there is a connection.

  • Xuan

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    DeLETE THIS PROFILE!!!!!!! Anybody Out There? Im Beginning To Wonder. Please Help!!!!! Im a 37 yr old professional and would love to find someone to share some quality time with. I'm looking for someone who can rock my world! I want to sleep with my socks on, dance In the rain, engage in an occasional food fight, meet your parents, laugh under the stars, place straws in my nose at the restaraunt to make you smile, hold your hand, kiss your lips and tell you that I love you. Are you out there? I do have four children ages 21(out on her own), 19, 17 and 4. They are the very reason I am who I am today. I've been divorced for 16 years and I bring no drama of any kind to the table for a new relationship. Past relationships are long since resolved and cordial in all areas . I've been very fortunate and blessed in many areas of my life as i have had just as many hurdles, obstacles and heartaches that i have had to endure along the way. I believe that our experiences through life and the way we choose to handle them are what shape the person we become. Our life is only as great as we allow it to be, I dont believe destiny or good luck plays much of a factor with exception of rare circumstance perhaps. I am strong minded, opinionated, independent and very capable of taking care of my family and those things I take great pride in. But now Its about us. Im ready to have someone take care of me and expect the same In return. With that being said, I'm very open to others ideas and feelings. I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong or to say I'm sorry. I'm also very caring and compassionate. There are many colors to my personality as rings true for most I think but overall, I'm real, down to earth, easy going, and blunt. Im looking for a relationship with substance. I have no time for nor interest in games and bullsh**. A great relationship does not consist of one trying to change the other, it comes from sharing similar likes and values. A balance of personalities , honesty, strong support system and open communication. Im not looking for a boy or a boy toy, I can pick either up at any bar any given night. Im looking for a real man with a good heart and with the intention to treat a woman the way a woman should be treated. If you think you measure up please feel free to drop me a line. Take care and Hope to find you soon! Nice dinner, drinks, casual conversation in a comfortable atmosphere to begin peeling back the layers to reveal if a second date may follow.

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