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Elvina, 38

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About Me

I have been out of the dating scene, therefor I am not sure what to say. Here goes I am a hard working single parent of 2 children. I am separated from my husband have been separated longer than we were living together/ married. No, I have no intentions of getting back with him I plan on getting a divorce very soon. I am very active in my children's schools. I am pretty open-minded, but at the same time very closed-minded on certain subjects. When I put my mind to something I will give it all I have until I have accomplished what I am trying to accomplish. I work way to much therefore I don't have much of a social life. I am very career minded, my children and job come first. I know profile says mixed hair color this is because I change my hair color often so I can never say what color it really is at any given time. I have enough of my own drama even though I try my hardest to rid myself of it so I don't want any extra drama added to my life. To better help I will give a list of don't likes and do likes so you do not waste your time. I use to enjoy camping and fishing but now I find that I do not like these things nor do I like hunting never did. I like to just go out shooting but have not done so in a long time. I do not like rice burners but love to ride real bikes. I don't like lazy people that expect everything to be just handed to them. Oh, and if your an alcoholic, dealer, or player don't waste my time. Just trying to be honest, so if you do not like what you read then keep on browsing. If there is something you want to know just ask don't be shy or beat around the bush. Something informal where can get to know each other see if there is a spark or any commonalities.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Faviola

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, so I am going to write a bit more, since I had such a short profile initially...I would describe myself as intelligent, funny, sarcastic, beautiful (inside and out), determined, hard-working, sexy, caring, loyal, educated, independent, and not afraid to take on a challenge. I'm sure there are more great adjectives...I'm not into labels or plastic people. I prefer nice, respectful, good-hearted, sincere people. Life is too short to spend time with people doing things you don't enjoy (like going to clubs...not into that anymore). My time is precious, and with a two-year-old son, I don't get out much. So, I choose who I spend my time with and what I am doing wisely. If I choose to spend time with you, even on our first meeting, respect me and my time enough to show up, call with enough advanced notice if you are cancelling, and don't ask me last minute to do something (well, you can ask, but I will probably not be able to meet you). I don't have too many active hobbies right now. But, I am open to adopting some new ones--maybe I'll like some of yours?! I enjoy going to concerts and outdor festivals and such. I'm not into working out, but I'd love to take up some co-ed sports or activities. I am trying to lose some weight I gained after having my baby...so, I'm open to some working out too. It seems like every guy on here says he enjoys working out...no matter how chubby he looks in his pics. LOL. I like a man who takes care of himself, but not to the point of drinking protein shakes and being ridiculous about his meals. I love food. I am a foodie. One of my favorite things is going out to eat and drinking some nice wine. I am not going to enjoy going out to eat with you if you ask for your chicken breast plain, get veg *** carbs, say no to bread, and can't have a drink...BORING! I'd rather you be a little thick...a little! ;)Speaking of what I like in a man...I like tall guys. I won't *** message from you if you are at least 5'9", but I really prefer over 6'. I like thin/athletic builds, but a few extra pounds are ok as long as you carry them well and don't have a gut, love handles, etc. And, hey, maybe we can lose a few lbs together! I also go for light or lighter eyes. It's not necessarily a prerequisite, but I've noticed the guys that I've dated more seriously and longest all have light eyes. I also only date caucasian guys. I have ventured out, but, white guys are my thing. Oh, and another biggie...you have to have hair. I know a lot of guys my age are balding so they shave it off. But, a bald head doesn't do it for me. I'm sure there are plenty of great looking ladies that do like a smooth, bald head!If you are upset that you don't fit into my "taste" above, don't be. Its nothing personal. Everyone has a taste. Everyone has dating preferences. I don't need to hear from any of you about how shallow I am or how I'm missing out. That may well be true, but its not up to you to scold me for it. And, no, I don't think I'm perfect...far from it. Ok?!As for any baggage or drama...everyone has some, or you haven't lived...I am a woman...complicated, yet simple...independant, still looking for a knight in shining armor...have worked hard and accomplished a lot, and failed too...I have loved and lost, and been both too afraid to love, and afraid of never finding it...I am a control freak, but would love to have a man not too intimidated to take the reins...I have been hurt, used, ***, blown-off by men. This will obviously affect how I view men and love, but I am still open and hopeful that there is a man that is mature and man enough to realize what a real woman is and has to offer.I have many wonderful qualities, but I am not perfect (though this will be deleted forever, evidence destroyed, if I DO find someone--so you can never use my words against me) :)As I said above, I have a son. He is my world and takes up a lot of time. So, if that scares you, then I'm not right for you. I was never married to his father (less drama, I think). I'm not looking for a daddy for him. But, the man that I get involved with will have to be open to loving my son and taking care of him in a fatherly way, since he lives with me most of the time. There's no point in starting something with you if you already know you are done raising your kids or couldn't help love and raise another man's child. I AM looking to get married one day if I meet the right guy and I am his right girl. I am also open to having more children, if its possible.So, if you've read all this and think I am cute and have enough of what you are looking for and you think you have what I am looking for, please write to me. I look forward to hearing from you. Just NOT a movie, or anyhwhere else where we have to be quiet, or its too loud to talk...the point is to get to know each other, right?

  • James

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a blunt and sarcastic smartass down to earth person like cooking and the beach sound intresting lets talk I don't date men who are afro American thank u for all the offers though. Surprise me

  • Veronique

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am down to earth, simple and drama free. I work and have my own. I would like to find my future but I've about given up and realizing I'll be single for the rest of my life. If you would like to know anything about me just ask. Over-rated! Meet, greet, chill and see where the time leads us. We adults we all know when u first meet u don't wanna sit and watch a movie or anything but chill and conversate to see if we mesh together. So let's be adults and not kid each other.

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