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Shyla, 39

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About Me

I am 38 year old mother of 4 children ages 22, 21, 17, and 15. The youngest two still live at home with me. I am in the process of getting my degree in criminal justice so I am pretty busy and I really don't have time for games, lies or BS! I am very honest, loyal and very sarcastic. I enjoy life and having a good time. I am looking for someone who isn't intimidated by an independent woman who wants a man to take care of her in every way but financially. I have my own place, my own car, my own job. I am just looking for someone to share it with. Someone who wants to hear about my day, good or bad. Someone who can't go a day without talking to me and gets the same feeling when he puts his arms around me that I feel. Someone who thinks I am perfectly imperfect. Someone that can see me as one of the guys but treats me like the only woman in his life. Someone that wants to spend time with me, whether it's a lazy night in, a nice night out, or bbq and beer with our friends, and feels perfectly content as long as I am by his side. Someone who will truly know that if he is with me that I am all he will ever need. Someone who knows I will always support him, take care of him, laugh at his jokes, always be honest with him not matter what but will always have his back. Someone who sees and treats me like his equal. With all that said, yes I am sure every woman says that but not very many mean every word of it. I will be the first to say that women are difficult to understand and they speak in code and expect you to know exactly what they are saying and how they are saying it. As for me I have learned that only causes misunderstandings and unnecessary arguments and therefore I tell you exactly what I mean. If you want a hint as to how women are? Sometimes when we are quiet all we want to know is that you care enough to see something is wrong and comfort us. We know you don't want to really hear it but to know you care, is sometimes all we need to feel better. If you have actually read all of this then you are one step ahead of a lot of guys whether you're still interested in talking to me or not you at least have a little insight on what a real woman wants and how most of us think. :-) Now I am a sports fan and i love watching football, nascar and baseball. I like college football "Roll Tide!" I am sarcastic and I love to laugh and have a good time. I love being around great friends and even playing a game of beer pong or two. I am a laid back person that loves quiet nights at home with a good movie. I love the outdoors especially if it's near a beach, lake, or river. I love to travel and see new things. Love road trips even if it's just for the day. I workout several times a week and spending time with my kids is the best time spent. I am looking for someone who is completely honest because the truth ultimately hurts less than a lie. I have a passion for cooking all kinds of foods yet sometimes its nice to have a great burger off the grill. Anything else you would like to know feel free to ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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