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Aiah, 35

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About Me

Saw a couple dining al fresco in the pouring rain on their front porch last night. It was hipster bucolic. Made me smile, and gave me a little hope. Looking to meet a guy with whom I am intellectually as well as physically attracted. Educated, kind, attractive, witty, in good shape ( seriously, in decent to great shape. Be HONEST with yourselves about this gentlemen). Not too much to ask for, right? I've been on here on and off for some time. Met a few decent people. Hopefully this new format will help separate the wheat from the chaffe. There's still a little optimism left in this cool external candy-coated shell! Just moved back to NY from CA this year. Getting settled again here after being gone for 12 years. Honestly, it's been an adjustment. I've been lucky enough to have explored our country and a few others a little bit. But they doi t with style and humour. I'm a bit of a grammar snob, but a terrible speller (former journalist).One note: one word messages are immediate grounds for blocking your profile. Don't be a knuckledragger guys. Guys, if you feel the need to cut a woman down on here who simply isn't interested, you have a lot of growing up to do. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and neither are you. How about a little humility and grace. It goes a long way. And for the love of sweet 6lb, 8 oz baby Jesus, if you're a church goer, lets just respect each other's views..and not waste each other's time. Your Sundays are too pious ...and mine are Bloody...on a patio somewhere...likely blaspheming something or someone.. I wish you luck, but I'm not going to church with you and you don't have to drink a Bloody Mary with me. Hmm,.....somewhere fun. Where we can chat. Museums are cool. Cool little dive bars or lounges where we can actually hear each other. Of all else fails, the zoo, hanging with primates watching them fling poop, so that we can see how far we've evolved...if you believe in that whole genetic link!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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