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About Me

Hi!-OP transgendered woman. If you don't know what any of that means, please google it and educate yourself, so we can avoid a possibly embarrassing conversation :) Basically, I've spent the last 5 years correcting what I felt was a mistake in being born male. It's a long, difficult process that I have not fully completed by having reassignment surgery, hence the term PRE-OP/ (There, I spelled it out for you) Please don't ask me when my surgery is, its not such a simple process, k? Looking for new friends and guys to spend time with. I love music, movies, sushi, being outdoors, travelling, meeting new people and trying new things. I'm open minded, and hopefully you are too, if you've read this far. Please also be tall (close to eye level with me or taller) White,(Not racist, just a preference) Athletic (i don't expect a perfect body but please be in shape), SINGLE, and HONEST. Oh, and don't assume i'm desperate, please. Thanks ;)I've been told that my reaction to a guys approach can be harsh and defensive, I've been through a lot and trying to work on that so, let me say this: i know how this works. I know the fears you have, and the curiosity you have. However i am not going to just say to anyone that i am what i am (TS). My expectations in return, are that you treat me like a Lady. Because as far as the world is concerned, i am one. If you decide you are comfortable with it becoming a topic of discussion amongst your social life, i respect that. If things don't work out, and you realize you're not sure who you are, fair enough, but be honest and tell me the truth. At least we'll be able to say we tried. No harm no foul It doesn't matter....treat me with respect and compassion like you would any other chick, and we'll get along great. Lets go out for dinner, a drink, shoot some pool, eat some sushi, or chill at home...I'm laid back, really, and extremely down to earth. Just looking for good company from someone who appreciates me. Not interested in pointless conversation back and forth, or being interrogated for your personal education, staring at the computer (or iPhone) screen is not my idea of a good time. Let's meet and see how things go. I'm open to most ideas, but please don't think you're the only man on here who wants to meet or sleep with a TS woman. I'm not looking for a cheap hookup, I'm hoping there's someone out there that wants to treat me like a human being they sincerely want to get to know, and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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