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Jaylah, 38
United States, Arizona, Sierra Vista

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Im really outgoing, love anything outdoors, anything involving animals AND of course MY KIDS being involved too! Music is a huge passion of mine I love latin music (salsa, merengue, old cuban music, reggeaton), Indian (India Shaan, Imran Khan), US music (top stations I listen to 99.5, 100.9 and 103.3), arab music as well (Cheb Mami, Rim K) and love african beats also! Ive been studying psy, soc in school for almost 3 yrs, but in my spare time learn world history, diff cultures, history of religions, meditation also! Im really like a huge sponge and just soak up my surrounds! I love anything where I can learn, be myself, be either serious, or cracking jokes :) I have to have someone where I have an intellectual connection with them and an emotional one also, then everything else will follow! I would be lying if I said mutal physical attraction has to be there too! I also tend to like hispanic/latino men and arab men as well! For the African men yes sometimes I do, I have friends from North Africa also! I also like men that are mixed! I just like darker skin than mine, so please if you have something negitive to say, just dont write me then! I LIKE WHAT I LIKE, IM JUST ME!!!!! I LOVE THE CONTRAST IN SKIN NEXT TO MY OWN! IM JUST BEING REAL HERE!!!! So Please allow me to explain this here since I get a lot of *** to know why lol: 1- is I tend to like men with darker skin, say tan to brown skin, Im fair and the contrast thing I like. Then the darker features hair, eyes (green or brown) is something that I just prefer in someone! 2- there is a difference in foreigners when it comes to family values, such as the family all living together when the parents get older or aunts or uncles! This I feel is just the correct way of thinking when you have family! I didnt grow up with much of a family but when married the first time told my husband at the time to have his mother or aunt to come live with us because they were retiring. So we could take care of them. Its just the right thing to do, not them living alone or being put in hospice/nursing home!!!!!I think with me what you see is what you get! I dont put on for people first of all, not my style. Guess thats why my ex husband is my closest friend and others are also friends still! Im just cool, easy to get along with, down to earth for sure, am always up for almost anything. Always get mistaken as weak because of my kindness, but dont let that fool you, Im far from naive at 38! I may take alot of stuff but not from many people and for very long before I turn around and leave you for not respecting me! Im not perfect never have been and never will be and dont try to be either :)! I really have always been pretty independent, starting my own mortgage company at just 23 till 33. Have been through hell and back since then but am coming back stronger this time! In the process of going back into mortgages, and want to start a couple businesses and 2 non-profits also! I have alot to offer someone if they are willing to stick around for the right reasons! Im not that easy to commit right off the bat even though its what I want! But first I need someone that can keep up with my mind! Someone we can accept the good and bad in one another! Im for sure a giver, very affectionate and romantic, very touchy if I like you, and can be silly at times as well ;).If any of this interest you please shoot me a line and tell me about yourself! If you do not like that fact that I am a bigger woman right now, THEN PLEASE SPARE ME THE TIME DONT WRITE ME! Im secure in myself regardless of my size anytime, I know who I am, and if you make judgement on me for that, your not my type anyways! Im pretty low key, coffee or a drink, maybe pool! I do love movies alot (action, then comedy) but not good for first date! Just want to see if chemistry is there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Anything out doors in the summer, sll kinds of music, It's funny a lot of guys on this site think they are so much better than people on here and wont give ya the time of day, the funny thing is we are all on here the same, I get messages and I know I don't respond right away its not that I don't want to I'm very busy at times, I will respond just give me time, Another thing is age and distance is a big factor in my search, yes i am 40, but I'm not attracted to older men, and I'm not attracted to young boys either, some where in the middle is good, Chances are if you live more than an hour away its not going to work, I put to much effort in long distance and it does not ever work in my favor, Yes I have kids so if thats a problem don't message me, and don't say kids are not a problem when they really are, I met people on here and it just didn't work for what ever reason, and some I still talk to as friends, Just to say no hard feelings for something that wasn't there, Good Luck on search,

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I really don't know what to say but I will try. I am a country girl who loves to play and have a good time I like to go to the lake,ride horses, play at the river love to find cool places to hike pretty much anything outdoors I'm down to try. I love the City life though and that fits me also now that I'm i older I find myself wanting to be in a big city more and more I absolutely need a person who loves to travel I am always looking for my next vacation. I need to be honest I am not on here for a one night stand or a sexual buddy so if ur not looking for long term please don't waste my time.I am very much a Family women I have 3 kids but they are older 19,17,13 if that's is a problem again don't waste my time. well message me if u like my profile. updated p.s. if u are a big guy overweight I'm sorry I'm not interested I need someone who can keep up not trying to be rude but I hike a lot and ride horses so if u can't keep up physically I won't be interested And please don't be trying to date out of ur league if u don't have a job or ur a min wage with no ambition on welfare please that's not what I'm looking for I need someone like myself highly goal oriented and very motivated.Oh I am not into dating someone old enough to be my dad 45 is the oldest I will date.Hope I havent offended anyone I just know what I want. Thanks for checking my profile out.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    HiLooking for a cool guy, new experiences, and create some amazing memories.Would like to meet someone to do things with other than drinking and going out to eat:)That is good sometimes but I want to be active and see beautiful amazing things.I manage an assisted living. I need to lose about 15 poundsTalk soon. Well u choose

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