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***** ATTENTION: I do NOT date black men...Or rednecks. Sorry..just need to get that out here. Not racist, but it's just my preference. Respect it. Thanks.****** Referring to the above..please do NOT send me unintelligent messages questioning my preference...honestly, respect it and move on. Thank you :)**Hey guys..!Easing my way back into the dating scene..so, I'm not looking to rush into anything, slower is better anyway... I want to get to know you on a friendship level first. That way it allows both of us to just be ourselves, because what you see is what you get with me..I'm not going to play games with you..honestly, I'm just too old for that mess. That being said..I love meeting new people and making new friends, and if anything should develop out of that, then that's great..if not, well, that's ok too and my feelings will not be hurt..lol. I might not be everyone's cup of tea..but I sure as hell am someone's shot of Vodka. Or Tequila. :)Just a little about me, I am divorced and I have one daughter who is 11. She is the love of my heart and her opinion of who I allow in my life is very important to me. I moved to SC from FL in ***and I love it here, would never go back.. Let's see...this says to be successful on meetville I should talk about my hobbies, etc..lol. Ok, so I love to cook, bake, ( which I'm extremely good at, might I add..:)) lay out in the sun, go jogging, or spending time with my daughter. I do like to be outdoors, but I'm not gonna rock climb or fall out of a plane for you. I have a very big personality and and I'm very much an extrovert..there is nothing "shy" about me. I'm sarcastic at times and I promise you WILL laugh when with me..my friends would say I "crack them up" and your mom would love me. Hey, I'm jus sayin.. ;) As for what I'm looking for in a guy..well, I guess it's pretty simple. Not looking for a one nightie, an fwb, exchanging endless *** I'll just drop out after so much of that..seriously, I'm not afraid to meet you or talk to you.) or anything else that's trashy. ( including potheads, drunks, or married & otherwise unavailable men. Really? ... wow ) I would like to meet a well rounded, decent, honest, loyal man with integrity, intelligence, depth, and knows how to treat and respect women. Please be responsible and dependable! I have learned that how a man treats his sister, mother, or grandmother is exactly how he will treat his woman. As far as looks go..I'm not a shallow kind of girl. A guy that is fun, can make me laugh, and has a great personality goes way further with me than how he looks, although of course there should be a mutual physical attraction, I do not "focus" on what he should look like over his character or who is he as a man. I don't care how much money you make or what you drive. I don't need a father for my daughter, and I'm not a money sucking gold digger.. I can take care of myself. I have no respect for women who use men for money like it's some sort of joke. They are needy and co dependent, which is so sexy. ( said no man ever..)So if you want to know more, drop me a line and maybe there will be a connection, but if not, I do wish you well in your search..these days it's SO HARD to find a real, genuine person..choose carefully and good luck!~~ It doesn't really matter if your glass if half full, or half empty...just be grateful you have a glass..and there's something in it..~~ :)*** Oh and honey...you don't handle a redhead..if your lucky, .she handles you*** ;)** I guess I should also say that I'm not the one to send the first message...sorry, just a little ole fashioned I guess... :) ** Something fun and simple, no pressure ( and NO MOVIES lol )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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