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Shonna, 36

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About Me

Hi, I am not exactly sure on what to say. I am a single mother of 3 recently divorced after 11 years of marriage. I have been out of the dating circle for about 12 years and starting this all over. My kids mean the world to me and may be challenging at times but you got to love them. I am learning how to fish from my 11 year old who loves to fish. I am looking basically for someone who will treat me as an equal and not a slave. I don't mind doing the "man" things but that means that you shouldn't mind doing some of the "women" things as well. I want to find someone who can communicate with me and not be a one-sided relationship. I want someone who is not afraid of my past and is willing to look at my future and all that i am doing now and not what i have done. I am done playing games i have done that for the past. 12 years. I like to go to movies, take walks, read, spend time with kids... I want someone who can be a honest, kind, loving person that don't mind I have 3 kids from someone else but will accept them... It has been so long since I have been on a date. wow what's that? I hate and love suprises at the say time so a suprise would be great.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Ruthie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    HI! I am a friendly, energetic, and playful person who enjoys being around people who make me laugh. I am a single mother of 2 boys ages 22 and 18 who are my world! I work full time, but like to enjoy my FREE time when it's available. I can go out and having fun wherever I go. Whether It's a bar, club, restaurant, or grandma's house for dinner! I am a true southern lady ;) If you wanna know more...ask!

  • Ron

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First to start I am such a spazz as my friends and family say. I also have my own way of talking i.e. chryssyism's meaning I use fun words to everything like amazeballs etc. I loved every second of it.-state ny ***, the tough mudder poconos ***and tough mudder upstate ny ***. I like to workout in my free time and I'm either in the pool swimming laps, running on a trail, hitting the weights or doing cross fit at the gym on post and going bananas on abstract things to build up strength and endurance.I am extremely comfortable either at home watching a movie and having play time with my nieces and having my hair pulled up in pony tails or piecy-poes (piggy tails) to dressing up and wearing heels and having my hair done with my makeup.First and foremost I like to play in the rain and splash in the puddles so if your up for it lets find some puddles and splash away.Ok so now the bs about relationships. I am NOT looking for a booty call, FWB or friendefits. I am not the woman that is into late night calls or "hey baby's come snuggle with me etc" for a 2nd date. I don't think that a date has to cost very much money if any. Its about having fun and getting to know each other and finding out if we both can stand to be around each other any longer than a few hours. With that said I don't mind if after a few dates (not meetings or coffee's) that we can then spend time relaxing doing stupid things like watching a football game or any sports (yes I love sports) or even a tv show that we both like either curled up on the couch or something.To make this crystal clear I will not have sex with you from the first date. You must show me that your someone of interest that I can open that part of my life to.!!!)Now I've been told I have too big of a heart and a sweetheart and that I would get hurt. So I'm really in search of a man that knows I'm sweet I can break but that he won't or will try not to break me and that when push comes to shove I can and will end all communication if this relationship gets stale and seeming to run its course.Now that I've said my peace.....I'm a very honest fun always smiling woman. I enjoy being with great people and not negative nellies or people that believe its best to use a man for his money. I am NOT looking for a sugar daddy i can pay my bills but I am looking for a man to spoil my big loving heart.I am NOT looking for a "booty call" that's not who i am. I believe in monogamy and waiting until we know each other to have those emotions to add to the sexual emotions.I also don't date men outside of my area. Pet peeve of mine...I truly dislike facial hair, pierced ears, thuggish wannabees aka wiggers (lol), men with bad grammar and who can't spell. We won't be a good match is you have any of these issues they are deal breakers.Besides that i like to read, go dancing and be around my friends. I have a son in college and really not looking to make more kids.I have my wonderful nieces in my life on a daily basis and they are a huge part of my world and that won't change.It is ok if you have children already that's never a issue in fact it is a big plus.So if your up to meeting a great well rounded beautiful red headed woman pay her bills and is extremely open and honest *** lets see where it goes. I love to be surprised. I like to stay active and doing things outside in the summer and also in the winter. Where we have such little time for summer here I appreciate as much time outside as possible but I am now beginning to train for the cold obstacles so winter cold is going to be my beotch. So maybe a swim, run or goofing off where we can sweat a wee bit and get some great adrenaline going on and end a great day on a positive note.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a mother of 3 wonderful kids. They are my world and come first with everything. Honesty is HUGE to me.... I know sometimes the truth hurts but a lie always hurts more. I like gardening, reading, cooking for someone special, spending time with my family, hiking, camping, go to the beach, anything outdoors. I love to laugh and make people laugh too.. I am trust worthy, loyal, and caring. I like all types of music but am a country girl at heart. I tend to be shy at first and do not like to stand out in the crowd but I am more then happy to be someones "side kick". I try not to waste my time on what coulda/shoulda/woulda been. I believe everything happens for a reason. I refuse to spend my life holding a grudge and not forgiving. Anger takes so much more energy and consumes so much more time then forgiving and moving on. lets just get to know each other and things will fall into place

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