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Synthia
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Life is good. It’s really good. There’s just one component missing. The perfect guy. Perfect *for me*, anyway… Perfection in general is boring and overrated. (Handsome, witty, sweet and a gentleman, though? Not overrated.:)Here’s the thing though… A lot of guys’ meetville profiles mention that they want someone who can “keep up” with them, and I am not looking for someone to keep up with or to keep up with me. I have a lot going on already. In addition to working quite a bit, we live in an incredible city; it’s hard not to want to be out exploring it every second of the day! Sporting events, the lakefront, restaurants, bars, museums… I’m looking to meet someone who will give me a reason to slow things down a bit. It would be super to meet someone who also has a great life and who will invite me to be a part of it and support whatever he’s into, but we don't have to share every interest or be out every night of the week together.… Fantastic! I’ll go out for wine night with the girls or stay in and read a book (dare I dream) and we’ll both be happy. But ideally, somewhere in the middle we’ll decide to stay in together and we’ll realize we don’t need to be “out and about” all the time to enjoy life in this city. Looking for a balance.I’m pretty well over the bar scene and 30, 40 and 50-something guys who are re-living college. Unfortunately that’s what my dating pool seems to have dwindled to but I am hopeful and optimistic that there is at least one guy left in the city who has grown up in lifestyle but isn’t afraid of getting a little silly with the right girl.Some additional facts you may or may not find useful:- I ditched my car about a year ago and am loving car-free life, so if you live outside the range of the CTA it could be tricky.-Though I am educated and have built a nice career and lifestyle for myself, I come from a very blue collar background downstate and carry those values with me. I like nice things, but I like great experiences more. - I have a cat.- I can be a bit of a contradiction. I've run with the bulls and jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, but spiders terrify me and I just got a new road bike that I refuse to put clipless pedals on because I'm afraid of falling off.-Bonus clue for those who actually read profiles: *** me must be ***characters or more in order to go through. That's about two standard sentences. If you're the guy, a couple sentences to make a good impression should be no problem.There is a lot more I could say about myself, but wouldn't it be more fun to sort it out over drinks or a walk through the zoo?Excellent. Good talk Russ. Drinks and a board game (Guthries!)? Wine tasting? A walk on the lakefront? The zoo? I'm pretty basic and am easily entertained in the right company. :)p.s. If I favorite you, it's not code for anything. It just means I'm interested but can't *** that particular moment.
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Trinidad
Online
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
First off: I have to be PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU. If you message me and I do not reply just means I am not interested, sorry to be so blunt but I wish you the best in your search. I prefer to only date white guys, sorry I will only reply to white guys, unless you really strike my fancy! I'm good with dating first, but also would like someone who is willing to put in the effort for a long term relationship when the time is right. If anything I'm always open to make new friends!I am free to go anywhere, do anything, spur of the moment adventures, or just being at home! But I do have a full time job that we would have to work around! But I can always relocate for the right guy! ;) When the time is right to love, I love with everything. I'm ready to share my heart again, better take it while I'm still willing to share, I sometimes don't like to share things (I'm very stubborn)!! ;)I am a pretty laid-back, easy going, far from perfect, funny, drama-free, smoke free, tattoo free, passionate, playful, wear my heart on my sleeve, don't mind getting dirty, don't have to get my hair & nails done, creative kind of girl! Don't get me wrong I find tattoos very sexy, just not on me! I'm a very low-maintenance, simple, yet classy kind of girl! I'm a bluejeans kind of girl! I love my flip flops, but like my boots to go dancing in! I do believe in a God, but do not attend church. I'm spiritual so if I were religious I would be probably be Christian as I was raised that way.I've been divorced a while now, ready to get out and start dating again! I'm good being alone but I would love to spend some time with that special someone, even if its 2 or 3 times a week, it doesn't have to be every day!! I'm not into the bar scene anymore but I don't mind going out every once in a while, get some drinks and do some dancing. I rarely drink but don't mind if you do, responsibly. I believe everything happens for a reason. I'm up for anything spontaneous & fun! I love the beach, but I don't have a beach bod! I love all kinds of music but I prefer country. I love going out to dinner & would love to have my guy join me! I do not like to cook but I can, so I would love for a awesome guy to cook every once in a while. But I do love to bake things, cookies, desserts, try and sweeten you up (this is where some of my sharing issues come in, haha!), but there is one dessert I will definitely share! ;) I am highly attracted to guys 6' and over and I melt over blue/green eyes. I Prefer facial hair (very sexy). I'm looking for a guy who will be my best friend & I will be his, who likes to talk to me & me talk with him, who likes to listen to me & me listen to him, who makes me laugh & me make him laugh, makes time for pillow talk, has a great sense of humor, who is kind, caring, down to earth, rugged, rough around the edges, good ole guy! I HATE GAMES. Life is too short to play games, I will just walk away. We are not promised tomorrow so I would like to love you today! I love to say "I love you" and I love hearing it in return. I love playful text messages and I play back! ;)I would love to find a guy who has his own hobby, who likes to tinker with things in the garage. around the house, bbq-ing, hunting or fishing. If you asked me I would like to go with you when you go fishing, hunting, watch football & basketball, play in the mud (4-; much more! But I do love the weather here so I'm good for staying here in TX too! I am willing and able to relocate for the right thing! I am very independent, but I would love a guy who wants to comfort me, or make me feel like they protect me, watch out for me and I will do the same!I have a 22 yr old son who has left my nest, so I am ready to venture out into my next chapter in life. I prefer not to raise anymore kids, but don't get me wrong I love kids, I'm just ready for some "couple" alone time! I love to travel, go to the beach, go country line dancing, go to festivals, Market Days, Port A, and many other things!Just FYI... I WILL NOT reply to messages without photos, I have to see you before I respond! I don't like people who like to hide, you need to be open and honest! A first date could be dinner, drinks or both! Always up for Coffee!
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Tor
Online
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I am originally from a small town here in ND. I love going to concerts and to plays. Hopefully I will meet someone that likes to go to concerts with me, but if a guy does not want to go to plays, that is ok, I know that most men are not into going to the theatre. i like to go to comedy shows when they are in town. I also like to play cards, darts, and pool (even though I really suck at pool). I like to go out, but not necessarily every weekend. I joke around alot and can be described as a sarcastic smart-ass. I am also very loyal and kind hearted.I am looking for someone who is honest. I want someone who is fun, yet responsible. Good manners are a must, especially table manners. I like a tall man...since I am 5'10", I prefer a man who is over 6'0". I love a man with strong arms, and my major turn-off is a man with bad teeth. I am not interested in anyone who is not local. Definately something where we can get to know eachother with low pressure. Movies and bowling are not good first dates because you really can't talk and get a feel for the person. Dinner or drinks work well.