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Delana, 40

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About Me

We don't give out our hearts and friendship to play games with. Bottom line -- I desire a Christian husband and children to pour my life and love into.NOTE: Like most people -- I am posting on this site with my own specific preferences and personal desires. Without at least, meeting the basic preferential criteria there won't be a mutual attraction or match. Respectfully, I ask that you REALLY READ my whole profile before contacting me. New friends are great, but I am looking for a MATCH.JUST FOR THE RECORD:> I RARELY drink any type of alcoholic beverage.> I'm NOT desperately lonely, bored, or in distress. Not in need of someone to rescue me or pay my bills.> I'm NOT looking for someone to work on my car, my house, my land, or my life. I'm doing ok.> I'm on this site in hopes of connecting with a SINGLE WHITE CHRISTIAN MAN, whose desire is to become b e s t f r i e n d s AND p a r t n e r s - f o r - l i f e....( Some people call that a "husband" ).... My prayer is to connect with a Caucasian man who is serious about his Christian faith and relationship with God and family -- Who loves both, children and animals, as I do.> If you're just into "BIG Chicks" don't even bother writing... We are NOT a Match!! Dealing with the consequences of my past unhealthy choices has taken longer then I'd hoped, but it's working well!! (My "gym" membership is not to meet "Jim"!!) Wait till you see my new pictures! But if I'm out of your "radius" now - No problem. No reason to contacting me after my new pics are posted, either. Bottom line - If we don't match in basics, we're not a match.> If you are over weight or just right, don't let that alone stop you from contacting me. I was a cheerleading, played volleyball, basketball, baseball and soccer on teams for years. But I had a few injuries - some health issues - made bad choices and I got fat. Believe me. I understand, things can change! Still, when it comes to choices - I am very serious about living healthy. You must be too in order to be a Match! (It's about our future together.)I LOVE and WANT CHILDREN, but don't have any, yet. I hope to have my own wheither by birth or adoption asap. Although I cherish my role as an "Aunt" I want to be a "mom". I'd love to have a big family to care for. So, if you DON'T WANT children there is no need to contact me. If you do want children or already have custody of your own, but want more -- Keep reading....As a Christian, I love the Lord Jesus. I am loyal in devotions regarding my relationship to God, family and friends. I'm also serious and sincere in interacting kindly and caring towards others. Being considerate and respectful of other people's feelings, beliefs, wants, needs and personal boundries is part of who I am. As well, I appreciate the same courtesy.Though I'm VERY tender hearted, I am also a tough lady. I'm not stubborn, but I stand respectfully firm for what I believe is right. I'm confident, but not stuck-up or arrogant. Obviously not without faults, but I am stable in my personal life and career. One of my strengths is being fairly flexable. Though I'm a planner and goal oriented, I also enjoy spontaneity. Being a mature woman, I take responsibly for my choices. Rather then blame others for my mistakes, I deal with and learn from them.I am not a whiner! 'Hate being around people who seem to enjoy complaining! I prefer spending my time with fun people, who are kind, thoughtful and easy going. That's the type of person I choose to be. I'm happier for it!! I am also a very caring and generous person. I have solid boundries, yet I am charitable to a fault sometimes. But I do have a low-to-no tolerence for such things as pettiness, drama, greed, selfishness, arrogance, cruelty, hatefuliness and violence.To me life is not a game, but God made plenty of room for fun in it! And I am a fun friend with a good sense of humor. I'm also a strong woman of character and integrity, so all my "fun" is LEGAL!! (Lol... The only thing I smoke is BBQ.) I love "safe" adventure. I like trying new things - Seeing new places - Meeting new people. But I still appreciate the tried & true... Like faithful friends and favorite places. 'Love the outdoor activities from backyard to beach to mountians -- I love it all. Also like doing almost all the "Girly stuff" too. There is a time for cuddling by the fireplace, watching "Chick Flicks" or maneuvering the mall maddness that just excites my heart!There are to many fun things I enjoy doing to list them all. Then there is my wonderful crazy family to share!My dear father was born in Germany and still has family there. My beloved Polish/Ukrainian stepdad is a "Yankee" I have a big family, who live all over the USA and in Europe. I was blessed to have a muticutual upbringing. It was great! Though I enjoy travel throughout the states and abroad, siteseeing and visiting a host of family and friends - Though I enjoy various hobbies, outings, sports and music - As well, I am blessed to have reached many of my goals and aspirations. Still, my greatest desire is to share the joys and challenges of life with God's match for me -- as I pour my life and love into him and our children.I've never been married. It's exciting and kind of scary at the same time for me! So while I'm actively waiting -- Trusting God -- I'm looking forward to finally meeting my future husband and "best friend".Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops Something we decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wynonna

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    As of this moment, I'm just looking to meet someone interested in casual dating and getting to know one another. I'm a simple girl who invests most of my time in working and going to the gym. I am extremely down to earth...keeping things real, with myself and with others. I am career driven and it is important for the man to share the same career mentality. As for what I enjoy...all things water and under the sun! Eventually, I would like a monogamous relationship, though friendship needs to be well established first. I don't do hook-ups or anything of that nature! So, if you are not ready to be in a mature relationship with intentions of falling in love...do not waste my time, yet alone yours! I am open to online talk in getting to know one another, ***, and then possibly a date to see where things may go. I am a woman of good morals and old fashioned values, so I do need the same in a man. All else in getting to know me, well, only time will tell. Just keep in mind...I am a big sweetheart in hopes of hearing from you ; ) ox...&...ox I'll leave that up to you...but keep it with class!

  • Trinidad

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First off: I have to be PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU. If you message me and I do not reply just means I am not interested, sorry to be so blunt but I wish you the best in your search. I prefer to only date white guys, sorry I will only reply to white guys, unless you really strike my fancy! I'm good with dating first, but also would like someone who is willing to put in the effort for a long term relationship when the time is right. If anything I'm always open to make new friends!I am free to go anywhere, do anything, spur of the moment adventures, or just being at home! But I do have a full time job that we would have to work around! But I can always relocate for the right guy! ;) When the time is right to love, I love with everything. I'm ready to share my heart again, better take it while I'm still willing to share, I sometimes don't like to share things (I'm very stubborn)!! ;)I am a pretty laid-back, easy going, far from perfect, funny, drama-free, smoke free, tattoo free, passionate, playful, wear my heart on my sleeve, don't mind getting dirty, don't have to get my hair & nails done, creative kind of girl! Don't get me wrong I find tattoos very sexy, just not on me! I'm a very low-maintenance, simple, yet classy kind of girl! I'm a bluejeans kind of girl! I love my flip flops, but like my boots to go dancing in! I do believe in a God, but do not attend church. I'm spiritual so if I were religious I would be probably be Christian as I was raised that way.I've been divorced a while now, ready to get out and start dating again! I'm good being alone but I would love to spend some time with that special someone, even if its 2 or 3 times a week, it doesn't have to be every day!! I'm not into the bar scene anymore but I don't mind going out every once in a while, get some drinks and do some dancing. I rarely drink but don't mind if you do, responsibly. I believe everything happens for a reason. I'm up for anything spontaneous & fun! I love the beach, but I don't have a beach bod! I love all kinds of music but I prefer country. I love going out to dinner & would love to have my guy join me! I do not like to cook but I can, so I would love for a awesome guy to cook every once in a while. But I do love to bake things, cookies, desserts, try and sweeten you up (this is where some of my sharing issues come in, haha!), but there is one dessert I will definitely share! ;) I am highly attracted to guys 6' and over and I melt over blue/green eyes. I Prefer facial hair (very sexy). I'm looking for a guy who will be my best friend & I will be his, who likes to talk to me & me talk with him, who likes to listen to me & me listen to him, who makes me laugh & me make him laugh, makes time for pillow talk, has a great sense of humor, who is kind, caring, down to earth, rugged, rough around the edges, good ole guy! I HATE GAMES. Life is too short to play games, I will just walk away. We are not promised tomorrow so I would like to love you today! I love to say "I love you" and I love hearing it in return. I love playful text messages and I play back! ;)I would love to find a guy who has his own hobby, who likes to tinker with things in the garage. around the house, bbq-ing, hunting or fishing. If you asked me I would like to go with you when you go fishing, hunting, watch football & basketball, play in the mud (4-; much more! But I do love the weather here so I'm good for staying here in TX too! I am willing and able to relocate for the right thing! I am very independent, but I would love a guy who wants to comfort me, or make me feel like they protect me, watch out for me and I will do the same!I have a 22 yr old son who has left my nest, so I am ready to venture out into my next chapter in life. I prefer not to raise anymore kids, but don't get me wrong I love kids, I'm just ready for some "couple" alone time! I love to travel, go to the beach, go country line dancing, go to festivals, Market Days, Port A, and many other things!Just FYI... I WILL NOT reply to messages without photos, I have to see you before I respond! I don't like people who like to hide, you need to be open and honest! A first date could be dinner, drinks or both! Always up for Coffee!

  • Penni

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a divorced mom of three incredible sons. Two of which are surviving. My youngest has autism and is the most amazing being in this world. Through adversity in life, I have become not one in a million, but 100% one of a kind. I have many passions in life, including music (I play the bass guitar), writing, reading, being around my loved ones, animals, children...the list is really never ending. As for the genres in music that I enjoy, there are so many. I love heavy metal, which is what I am more likely to play, also. I love classic rock, punk, house, opera, classical, the blues, reggae, indie, some rap and r&b classic country. There really isn't much I can say I don't like. Being a musician all my life, my appreciation expanded with time. I am also a published poet who hopes to someday write a book. I love being outdoors. Camping, fishing, sleeping under the stars. The world is a most beautiful place and there is so much of it to see, I tend to have a hard time staying inside if I don't have to. Naturally, with that comes along my love of traveling. I was fortunate growing up and my parents took us children many places I couldn't imagine have never seeing. All my friends say I am a lover, a humanitarian. I believe in the law of attraction and live by it. I am an all out, spunky, funky, and super punky kind of girl. I live life to it's fullest with nothing but positive energy! No matter where I am, I am smiling and making sure those around me are too! Nothing but love and light to give, but so happy to give it! I'm not looking to just get laid...I can do that very easily if need be...I need and want something different. Not necessarily sure what that is, precisely, I just know what it isn't. Sorry, I don't settle for anything less than I desire. I hope I don't lose all hope here...waiting for someone to grab my attention and keep it! Be different! First date...that's funny. Or should I say, what is that? It has been so long, I honestly don't know anymore. I look for spontaneity and excitement. New things. I am a very high energy person all around. I love to be silly and have fun without any cares on what others may think. Yes, I love the typical movie and drinks....but I love different even more!

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