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About Me

Im a fun loving, open and honest, goofy girl who is looking for someone to share some awesome memories with! I dont play ganes and as real as they come! I love going out to eat and trying new restaurants! I love to stay healthy and fit also but dont mind cheating on the weekends!!My party days are over and dont want a guy who is still going to all the new clubs and partying it up!! There so much more to than what meets the eye!! Dinner and a few drinks! Or ever just coffee! I feel as if there is to much alcohol it can leave a bad impression! Im also open for suggestions!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

  • China

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi, I am a spontaneous, happy girl who loves life and all it has to offer . I have everything I want in life except someone to share it with. I am pretty, funny , successful and very much a positive thinker. I love to be outside doing just about anything . I love the beach and watching the sunset over the lake. My family is important to me and I like to spend time with them. I love adventures and long drives. I am a bit of a rebel .. not your typical girl . You must be handsome, funny , adventurous , positive, love life and have goals . You must like to have fun and not take life too seriously . You should be able to leave your baggage behind you , where it belongs .. You must be willing to love without holding back , K happy fishing. Maybe coffee or a walk in a park or forest would be nice for a first date .

  • Angel

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Update..... as of ***at 3pm that was my last cigarette.... yay for me!! Ok, today is ***; it's been 4 full days of NON-SMOKING for ME!!!! I know that some of you are probably like, oh wow, 4 days big deal... well to me it is a big deal. I am feeling REALLY good about this, I thought it would be horrible and just the hardest thing to do, but I am finding it's not. I don't even have any cravings.... AND I'm watching what I eat..... So I'm putting it up to Chantix and maybe the determination that I can and will do this because its something that I want..... So I changed it on here..... some of you can take it or leave it... but for me, it's a huge step and I'm very proud to be making this step in my life. Well first I hate talking about myself but here it goes. I've been here before and I'm hoping this time around goes better. I'm Not getting any younger and I'm not your young thin 20 yr old anymore! I'm a mature average built grandmother who is divorced and seeking a permanent trustworthy honest man who would like a relationship of the same to build on together. I am particular/ok, maybe a little picky on who I am looking for... there must be some sort of mutual attraction and look good together. Also, I am not looking for someone who isn't employed or who has no sort of income. I am not your sugar momma nor your next living arrangement. At our age, you really need to be able to stand on your own 2 feet.... didn't say you have to have a lot, but at least be able to take pride in yourself and those you meet. Someone with morals and isn't out looking for a conquest for their belt notch, because if you are, you're barking up the wrong tree. We are pretty much past that stage in life and seriously if a mutual attraction exists its almost impossible to deny. But you have to start somewhere and I guess being on here and looking at photos is the first step..... Which brings me to another point..... We ALL change! Please if your photos are more than a year old and you have nothing recent, don't bother contacting to meet, it's false advertising and why get started off on the wrong foot. It's not going to get you (us) anywhere. I am not a snob, I am very respectful, polite, a great listener, kind, helpful, and strong. I like campfires, camping, atvs, fishing, short trips, zoos, beautiful drives and good conversation. I even like to cook..... somewhat. Large holiday dinners are best, since I find it hard to judge for one person... but I am romantic and still love to get butterflies in my stomach and tingles throughout my body, I'm NOT dead! But as I said before, there has to be a mutual attraction and respect first.... Country music is my favorite choice, old rock and roll for the most part. I seriously enjoy my alone time, which I don't get much of but could make and share that time with someone special. I say that because I don't get a lot of it... I work a full time job plus watch my granddaughters when needed, so when I have the peace and quiet I totally enjoy - my time!So, lets get started. I like to read, play with my 2 granddaughters, spend time with my kids and love my job and COFFEE! (which is why my choice for personality referenced above - not that I'm a snob.) My goal is to travel, see places I've never been, find that special man to share those experiences and more. I also enjoy my job very much. I have been at my job for 17yrs and am very dedicated. I've raised 3 great kids and now am blessed with beautiful grandchildren. I hope for now this is enough to get started in my search. If you have questions just ask. Thanks for reading and all the best to everyone in your search... may we all find what we are looking for..... Well since I've been thru this before I'd like to say I prefer to go somewhere for a drink/coffee/ice cream or maybe even a stroll actually anyplace where we are comfortable and have the opportunity to get to know each other better. And it's not a job interview, so come natural... (dressed of course!) but be yourself and comfortable.... I am not talking dinner, movie or a night on the town - maybe just initially an hour - however, that doesn't mean it can't go longer if we really hit it off and lose track of the time. We can always determine that as we go. Also, don't take offense if it doesn't work.... just move on.... If it's working you will know..... because you should be able to feel it - or something will be said where you know - there is another date coming.... and if not, well be thankful you had the opportunity to meet..... and just wish each other the best.

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