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Trudi, 27

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About Me

Maybe the internet is where the good men are hiding out... I'm still plenty more tough than your native Cali girl, but my NY fam thinks I've turned into a wimp.. I'm guessing the truth is that I fall somewhere in the middle. I'm extremely kind and nurturing - shirt off my back type of person. Which makes me vulnerable and susceptible to being taken advantage of, but whatever, it comes with the territory. I'll never stop giving. As previously mentioned, I'm tough.I can change my own tire and I'm not afraid of power tools, but I will still turn heads in a pair of heels. I'm adventurous and curious, I love honest/stimulating conversations about anything. Particularly science, nature, psychology, political trends and entrepreneurial endeavors. I try to spend my days growing, learning, improving, reading everything I can get my hands on, appreciating the now, indulging in simplicities, saying "yes" as often as possible, smiling at every possible moment, exploring new food, wine, cities, books and people. I believe that less is usually more, and most of us already possess everything we need to be happy. (With the exception of certain things that I don't consider music. *cough*LilWayne*cough*). Actually, I put a good deal of time into listing my "interests" up top, so if you're curious as to what type of activities/music/etc. I like, you can find them up there.Things I don't like are:Smokers, spelling/grammar errors, liars, people who aren't nice to strangers, people who blame others/the world for their misfortunes, people who don't like children, roaches, cilantro (I'm allergic), most of today's Top 40, those new baggy leggings some girls are wearing that are loose on the top and tight at the bottom (wtf??), the fact that chivalry is probably dead, super picky eaters, owners of poorly behaved dogs, bath tubs, and tequila. .......Up until this point I've always said/thought I knew exactly what I wanted - and maybe I do. Maybe that's exactly what I'll end up with. But at this juncture in my life I'm really open to just seeing where the wind takes me. Don't get me wrong, I very much want to fall into all-consuming love with a super sexy, romantic, man's man and make a bunch of babies one day, but I believe there's a lot of truth to that saying "Man plans and God laughs". So I'm just going with it for now.When it comes down to it, I'm really just an ordinary girl (ordinary = pretty unique and actually kind of wonderful), looking for an ordinary guy to have some extraordinary experiences with. And I think where ever that takes us is right where we're supposed to be.And as we bid adieu, I leave you with this:"When you're tired of relationships, try a romance." As long as the conversation is interesting and full of laughter, the rest doesn't really matter, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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