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Saanvi, 28
United States, Wisconsin, West Bend

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About Me

I like to think of myself as an unconventional type that loves to challenge norms, geek out whenever possible, and just otherwise be awesome in general. A lot of folks seem to first notice and comment on the "wise, serious" side of me. I've grown up always having more responsibilities for my age than most others around me, which resulted in having to be more mature than I probably would have cared to be in my youth. To make up for this I've developed a very silly side, which also nicely compliments my creative brain. I'm not your average girl and I'm never going to be. I am at a point in my life now where need to just put it out there exactly what's important to me and see what I can find. So, if you're so inclined to message me, I can give you more details on that. But this is the simple list:1. Have some sense of spirituality, but no preachiness.2. Interest in healthy lifestyle. 3. Be passionate.4. Be adventurous.5. Be creative.6. Be open-minded.7. Be an intelligent being, not just an intelligent mind.8. Be an honest and open communicator.9. Have an understanding of Voluntaryism. You don't often find a lot of folks with all of those, but I'll take at least a few. And, here are some things that will probably automatically turn me off:1. If you're a sports fan.2. If you like rap/hip hop, country, most of du(m)bstep and a lot of other annoying monotone, nerve grating electro music. (ie: Things that go 'oontz-oontz-oontz-oontz' at clubs, etc.)3. If bars and clubs are your scene.4. If you think hipster fads are cool.5. If you smoke (I don't care what kind of plant it is).6. If you're a technology zombie. Nothing is scarier than a person who can't stop playing with their phone. I refuse to try to have conversations or otherwise attempt to spend time with someone who can't stop checking their notifications. Remember when people didn't have cell phones and you know, talked to people?7. If you don't know when it's appropriate to just put something down and spend time with someone. I love just watching people do things sometimes, but not if those things are worth cutting off communication to the outside world. You can pause a game or put down a book...you can't do that with life.And finally, here are some awesome things I love. If you love them too, bonus!- Tattoos!- Dr. Who!- The Legend of Zelda!-- Pretty much anything cat related. I speak meow.- Punk/metal/prog rock/most kinds of rock music except classic and soft rock. Also, classical music. I loves me some Beethoven.- Burlesque and other types of theatrical art!- Making music!- And more!So this may look like a long and serious novel, but in reality, I like to be silly and creative and have fun with people. I wrote up all this stuff deliberately because I'm only interested in hearing from people who would care to respond to it. I don't particularly need to be in a relationship or want to be in one right away, but I figure if there's anyone out there willing to read all of this and it seems to resonate with them, then may as well make some connections. But don't message me with expectations; message me because you think you're genuinely curious about me as a person. I want to meet friends first and foremost, and then if anything beyond that happens great, but it shouldn't be expected. I've outlined all the things above here because if it does turn into something, it's important to know first.PS - FYI, any messages that don't appear to have any kind of sincere thought put into them will be *** like 'you're hot', 'whatcha doing this weekend' and other dumb, pointless stuff like that will be promptly deleted. I'm pretty sure after reading all that you'll have a pretty good idea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Irish Korean
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