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Andria, 29
United States, Wisconsin, Spooner

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 02:35:29

About Me

"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." --*t together and their own life who is interested in making plans together. No cats. You can spell, you know a thing or two about fixing things and isn't put off by a woman who doesn't bat her eyelashes and giggle every three seconds. I mean, sometimes you can feel all eyelash fluttery and that's fine. That's just not my default. Conversation is.This is all of the random sh*t about me. I like equations, natural disasters, order, and contradictions. I'm not into poverty, angst, philosophy, or intense existentialism. Or devil's advocate. I hate that shit. I also dislike goatees and prefer beards AT ALL TIMES. Even neck beards. I am into learning new things. I'd love to learn how to gut a fish or drive stick properly or enjoy the outdoors more (allergies and hatred of bite-y bugs). I am confident in my ability to adapt and learn and grow.I asked some friends to pick one word to describe me. Here are the top five organized by mode. 1) Knowledgeable; 2) Loyal; 3) Dependable; 4) Funny; 5) Bizarre.I'm the kind of person who doesn't care about spoilers. I love space. Sometimes I watch Star Trek and just really want to break into tears.I like to solve puzzles and I prefer silence to music. I play *** stuff and have preferences, but I don't really put music on when I'm alone.I do not believe in souls, ghosts, karma or ouija boards. We live, then we die. That's it. Believing in (any) God takes faith. I need proof.I am curious. I like to know how things work and how to get them to work the way I want them to. Like clocks and things. Not people. I'm really bad at that.I sit up front at the movie theatre and will not compromise. -- I realize that this is probably a deal-breaker. Haters gonna hate.I don't want kids, but I'll think about it if we've been dating for a long time and you're French and want them really really badly.My jokes are meant to be jokes. I'm not very sarcastic. My sense of humour uses wit, timing and call-back most often.I'm also very lucky I suppose you could say, but I don't really believe that luck is real.I have a couple of larger tattoos. I'm not sure what that means.Oh, and not ***friendly. Like, I don't care if other people smoke pot, but I'm not into it and I don't want to date anyone who is a regular pot smoker.Partaking once in a while at a party is fine. Just no wake-n-bakers or daily smokers. A quick dinner. Preferably somewhere with a little privacy. I really hate it that restaurants try to cram in so many tables. I like a nice comfy booth and somewhere where they turn the lights down so we both look more attractive. Not opposed to going dutch but also not opposed to not going dutch. I'm an equal opportunity feminist who loves men.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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