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About Me

I am a very unique and ambitious person. There's so many things I love and enjoy doing that I sometimes don't know which to choose. I am currently pursuing my master's degree, I work at a university coordinating graduate and international admissions, but I am also an artist and interior decorator (if I had more time and resources to do so). I also spent over 20 years in dance (hip hop, ballet, jazz, etc) which I went to college for. I would like to do more with that either at the theater in town or on the campus I work at or attend more workshops and conventions. I love being outside, doing outdoor activities, and traveling and seeing new things. I do love hiking and camping and have done REAL camping, out in the middle of nowhere where the only "running water" was a spring coming down the mountain. I listen to all kinds of music from pop to hip hop to rock to country, but I prefer modern and alternative rock and I enjoy going to concerts. I also like to sing (playing piano and singing or karaoke) and don't mind sitting at home and relaxing. I would love to find someone who sees my worth and who will want to get married and have a family; someone who will actually treat me good and who can show compassion and love and accept me for who I am, is compatible with me, respectful, HONEST, and a gentleman. The last couple years have been rough on me through an emotionally abusive relationship and not so great experiences since so I've lost a little faith in men and honest relationships and need someone who can PROVE to me that I can love again. I don't believe in words, I need to be shown that you mean what you say. So I'm looking for a guy who can be patient, kind and understanding. My end goal is to find something serious and forever, but I need baby steps to get there, build trust and take the time necessary to build something solid. I'm okay with dating and getting to know people to find my forever. Someone I find also needs to accept my daughter as she is a BIG part of my life and she comes first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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