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Tamela, 30

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About Me

Well hello there. I will make this short and sweet. I work at an awesome aerospace company, I bartend/serve at night and I'm in the Army Reserves ( did 10 years active duty). At first, that seems like a modge podge of jobs and your right, all 3 are on opposite ends of the spectrum. I picked up the evening job because I wanted to get it and meet peolpe and figured I could get paid while doing it. I'm honestly not a fan of the uniforms, but I have a new found respect for people in that specific industry. it's always fun seeing customers exexpressions when I tell them what I really do. Integrity, tenacity, good work ethic, sarcastic, intelligent, healthy lifestyle, humor, sense of style, fit/active, compassionate, empathic, conversationalist are some traits I look for in a person. I have learned that I don't want to spend days, or weeks talking and then meet and all that time was wasted. I dont feel it's fair to either party. It all depends on the person. No dinner and a movie right off the bat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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